 Meditativeness means to become in such a way that you are not the source of the problem. Wherever you are, you are a solution, you are not a problem. If you become a solution, everybody will want you, wherever you are, isn't it? Whether it's your workplace, your family on the street, wherever, whoever seems like a solution, that person everybody wants, yes or no? Either you're a problem or you're one who complains about problems, nobody wants to see your face. But if you're a solution, everybody wants you, everywhere.