 See, the minute we make this gender-based, gender role, stereotypes, that sort of thing, it creates a ton of confusion for human beings. And I'm here to suggest an alternate way of doing things by throwing out the gender rhetoric and actually leaning into a heart-centered way of approaching relationship. I highly recommend reading the book. Reading the book, if the Buddha dated, if the Buddha dated, this is a great book that throws out the gender rhetoric and says, how do we connect with one another at a heart-centered level?