 Hi, I'm Matthew coast head dating coach and founder a commitment connection calm and today We're going to talk about how to dump a guy So if you need to dump a guy and you want to know how to do it You're in the right place so I've actually been through a lot of breakups and I've helped a lot of people go through a lot of breakups and Let me tell you what works and what doesn't work so The first thing that you need to know when you dump a guy is To only give him one reason Right And this is the reason that you need to give them you need to tell them that you don't feel it anymore for him You know one of the Mistakes that a lot of people make when they are breaking up with someone is that they will say They'll give them like practical things that they don't You know I mean they'll say things like well you're to this or you're to that you know and and that is The wrong thing to do because if you give him something that he can fix He will fix it and then he will come back to you and he'll say oh look I fixed this thing, you know like let's get back together and the real reason that You want to break up with him is probably it's probably because you don't feel it for him And so you need to give him that reason because there's nothing that he can fix about that He can't fix you not being attracted to him anymore and He'll be like oh, what do I do, you know, and there's not a whole lot he can do and so That's the reason that you want to give him second is that you want to block all Contact with him right just block him just unfriend him from social media block his Instagram or what you know wherever you're in contact with him just block it and unfriend him and you know just you know block his phone if you have to and Just just stop contacting them all together and then the last thing that you want to do is build a life For yourself and build a life for your sense of self and somewhere to go to one of the biggest Reasons why breakups don't stick is because people don't have something else to go to there They want to move away from This thing that they don't like but they don't have anything to go to that they do like so make sure that you create Something that you can go to create a life create passions that you can go and Get lost in you know have friends that you can go and hang out with you know Create something that you can go to so that you don't end up getting stuck back You know getting pulled back into the relationship that you don't want to be in So that's it for today If you want more information on how to attract mr. Right into a committed Lasting relationship make sure you go to my website at commitment connection calm and take the quiz there I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon