 Rebecca says, are guys just too afraid to be vulnerable? Are hookups just an excuse for not being insincere? It's like a double negative there. And a way of hiding inadequacy? There's a lot of things that hookups are an excuse for, right? And this is for men and women. There's a lot of women that are doing hookups right now, because they don't want to have something real. They don't want to deal with whatever's going on that's real with them. They want to have the physical intimacy. They want to feel wanted. They want to have, you know, all the great things that come with having sex, right? And so it's, it's, you know, men and women are doing this. This isn't just men that are doing this. It's everybody. Everybody's doing this right now. That's why men, that's why it feels like that, because everybody's doing it. And so many guys are so used to this. And they're on Tinder and they're like talking to girls and girls are messaging them and they're saying, Hey, what are you interested in? And the guy's like, you know, he knows that if he says he's looking for something real, that if she is just looking to hook up that she's going to be like, Oh, I'm just looking to hook up, right? Or I'm just looking for casual, something casual, and it'll break that whole thing that they're doing. And if he says, Oh, you know, I'm just looking to date or I'm just looking to, you know, like, see what's out there or something, then he knows that he's opening it up for whatever she's looking for. Because it's, this isn't, this is what's happening right now. This is, this is the reality of dating. Women are doing this as well. This isn't just men. You got to realize that it's on both sides. It's both sides. It's a huge complaint that a lot of guys have right now, is that women aren't looking to settle down. Women aren't looking for anything real. Women are just looking to hook up with lots of guys and not be with one guy. It's on both sides right now. It's not just men.