 Hey, this is Mary with the 21 convention. We're here with David Tien. He just spoke. That was a fabulous speech. It was there for the whole thing. And I had several questions, but since I only get a few minutes, I wanted to ask, what was a limiting belief? Okay. A limiting belief is a belief that limits you from your potential. So it could be anything that holds you back in insecurity. So for instance, a limiting belief would be, I'm too short for women to be attracted to me, or I'm too tall for women to be attracted to me, I'm too fat or too skinny. I'm too black and too white or whatever, that would be a limiting belief. And how do you go about getting over that? Well, you need to reflect on it and ask yourself, is it true that this is actually going to prevent me from attracting women? And if it is true, then you need to reframe the limiting belief. So it becomes an empowering work, something that will become a source of power for you to attract women and people. Great. And how important is it for you to reason in your relationships? Reason is important for you to understand why the emotions that you're feeling are there. So if you don't understand why you feel things, then you're going to be at the whim of the emotions. You're going to have to be at the mercy of your emotions. But if you understand why you feel these emotions, then that will help you get that first step into changing the way you feel. And eventually, if you ask the why question, you'll be able to unearth the deeper motivations or the deeper assumptions that you're having that cause you to feel a certain way. And that brings me right into what about this contrast principle that you're talking about? I want to know a little bit more about that. Right. To use the contrast principle, all you need to do is know what other people think of you as a first impression, what stereotypes they might have about you. So if you're an Asian guy in Australia or America, you can already know some of these stereotypes people wouldn't have of you. And then you can go against that, by the way. So if they think that you're a pushover, you're really nerdy, very feminine, then in your appearance, you can look more masculine, you can be more dominant, more assertive, and then people won't think that. But then you stand out even more because what they're expecting is the opposite of what they're getting. So that's the contrast that you're providing. The contrast is you, the way you are now, set against the background of the negative assumptions that they have. So it makes you come to the foreground that much more. You stick out in a more prominent, that much more. Yeah, it's a fantastic principle. So this is your first time speaking at the 2011 interview. How are you finding it? How do you find the group of guys, the speakers? It's been great. They're very emotionally healthy, I found. I've been to quite a few of their talks all night. I've just sworn off those because they're just asking questions that weren't appropriate. But here, the questions were great. They had a great set of assumptions. The background was good. They understood the importance of fitness and taken care of yourself, of lifestyle. And they saw that dating was just one part of that. And that's really the best way to see it. So I loved your speech. And if I want to find out more about you and your speeches and your talks, where would I go? You can go to my main website, which is oradating, a-u-r-a. Oradating. Oradating.com. And you can also go to my blog, AsianRake. rakeisrake.com. And you can contact me through David at oradating.com. Okay, great. This is Mary with David Tien at the 21 Convention in Melbourne. Bye, guys. See you next time.