 If the vagina is really really tight you're likely to be told to try a position from the Kamsutra known as Indrani where basically the woman has to lie on her back, legs spread as far open as she can, she's told to remove the pillow from under her head and instead push one under her hips because the idea is that the straighter the hips are the straighter the vagina becomes and penetration becomes easier but that is only half of the position. I mean just imagine how horrible this is going to feel for you. You are already so tight, you are so frightened of the pain of penetration that you might experience and now you have been put in this position where somebody can penetrate you as deeply as they want with you having absolutely no control over it. So the complete position says that after she has put a pillow under her hips the woman should then place her feet on the man's armpits meaning just over there because now you are in complete control of how far he can go and how hard he can do it. You know sex is about pleasure and the positions were there to ensure that there would be complete pleasure. Life should never be about bad sex.