 You know, the sad thing I see today, I've said this before, that dating is oftentimes just a long drawn out version of friends with benefits. And what I mean to say, it lacks intentionality and it hyper focuses on attraction and the need to feel attracted to one another without really understanding the mechanics of a healthy happy relationship. In other words, what makes a relationship work long term? It's not just about attraction. It's about do you share the same values? Do you have a shared vision of your future? Do you, are your lives capable of blending with one another?