 Prophet Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam came out of the house carrying Hassan and Hussain again He's carrying his two grandkids one in each arm, and he's kissing them Kissing this one kissing this one, and then the people see him and so somebody says and they make a remark They kind of make a remark, and they say oh messenger of Allah you love them and the Prophet Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said Whoever loves them loves me and whoever hates them hates me Right these kind of messages How important is our family to us? Who is the most beloved to us? Yeah, and when you see this level of love it wasn't just for the ummah the community the projects the fame the whatever it was This concept of charity starts at home Like if your kids and your grandkids and your blood can are the ones that are able to say I Feel loved by this person Then that's the proof in the pudding You see what I'm saying, and I know there are difficult relations, and I know that there's hard stuff, and I know that there's people that you know That have a really rough go with each other. I get that that's the field of work. I do I get it I also want to say that it's Something very special when you're able to start to melt Some of that or even just try to figure out. What are the roots of that? What are the roots of it? Was it ignorance? Was it arrogance? Was it somebody who themselves has been hurt and so they continue to hurt others because they haven't healed Like what is the root of that? Because when you can start to really show love and give love love continues to reciprocate over and over again And when the neck when it transfers to the next generation Then it's going to propel itself forward, right?