 Hi, it's Bridget. Welcome to Above Life Channel. The purpose here is to inspire your spirit and to fill you with hope. I'm outside this morning. The Sun will be coming up over here. You might see it. It was behind the clouds and now it's gonna shine on me, which is great. So absorb the good vibrational sunlight energy. It's gonna screw up my light a little bit. Now I'm gonna be all shadowy. But you know, that's okay. We're okay with that. I'm wearing my sunshine yellow sweatshirt from Walt Disney World because you guys know if you follow me on fairy grasshop or my other YouTube channel or on Instagram, Bridget inspired, that I love Walt Disney World. I especially love the immersive hotel experiences and just the awesome pools and palm trees and just all that warm energy and the creativity and all that good stuff. So well, getting to the main event. I was driving in to get some coffee this morning and I heard a song on the radio which helped to just secure the channeling session for today, which was a song Somebody to Love by Queen, Sofredi Mercury, and he made the same song choice yesterday when I was driving. I had like a five-minute drive and just running into town and that song was on the radio when I was flipping the channels and so two days in a row, same song I'm thinking, yeah, and last night I actually told my husband, hey, I think I need to talk with Freddie. I want to talk with Freddie because I want to ask him about, I need some insight about empaths. So do you guys know what empath is? Do you know what that means? I think you do if you've been watching my videos. It basically is the way that you're intuitive by feeling. So it's like the emotions that you receive. Like when you walk into a room and all of a sudden you have this overwhelming feeling. Yeah, it's your heart space working as an empath, which is you being psychic and away being psychic with your heart, with your emotions and your feelings and so kind of getting that vibe from somebody, picking up on their energy. That's your heart that is working as a psychic channel for you as an intuitive channel. So I know it's really common to have that experience because newsflash being psychic is not uncommon. It's totally a normal part for you to be intuitive, okay, to have intuitions. It's not so normal to follow them apparently. That's a really something we really struggle with as humans. And me too, just because I'm psychic and I work in the psychic ways and channel and all that stuff doesn't mean that I just magically follow all the instruction. Look at the sun. Isn't it gorgeous? Okay. All right, so we're going to channel with Freddie Mercury. He is one of the experts for me for the afterlife about Claire Sentience, which is the psychic gift of sensing feeling, which is for empaths. So if Freddie Mercury was an expert, subject matter expert in the afterlife, I would say he is definitely empath, totally, completely expert on the empath, on the sensitive type. And that's not specifically reflective of who he was in the human life, but I'm just sharing with you that these celebrities, they kind of have, sometimes they have focus or they have expertise that comes through as a spirit guide from the afterlife. So if they're coming in to you, if you're having a lot of experiences with Freddie Mercury specifically, just know that you're an empath. And if you want to learn more about that, you can google it. You can check out on youtube. There's other psychics and and other development, self-development types that will talk to you about what empath means and also Claire Sentience is another way that you can look that up or highly sensitive person. You can look that information up too. Okay? So if you want more info, go ahead and check that out. And I have some water this morning. Hmm Got to balance out the caffeine, right? And if you're here and if right now at this point in this four minutes in and you're like, hey Bridget, get to the channeling. Well, maybe you're really not the kind of person that I want watching my channels. Let's just be honest about that because that means You maybe just don't like me. You just like what I can do for you. And and quite frankly, I'm really not interested in that kind of relationship I'm just not I'm just not So I'm going to wait another Maybe 30 seconds and you can stop watching if you're just one of those kind of people That's really not interested in the whole experience, you know Let's just do that. Let's have a drink of water. I'm just going to clear Energetically because I'm an empath and psychically. I just literally stood my ground and told you guys, hey If you're not here because you like my style of connection, then There's the door. Goodbye Wow, was that harsh? That was kind of harsh, wasn't it? Yeah, I know. I know. I know But you know what? I'm kind of tired of People pleasing. It's really not worth it Especially like what I'm doing stuff and I'm pouring my heart out here empath to empath And sharing all my spiritual connections and all that for free like I'm not getting paid for this And I know there's this illusion that youtube like pays you a bunch of money. It doesn't It's totally not worth it Just unless you're like have a 100,000 subscribers, which we do not It's not a huge source of income. I mean, I'm I'm very grateful for any kind of ad revenue I might get from youtube. Let me just be clear But $100 a month is Not worth The energy time effort and dollar per hour if I divide it by dollar per hour, I'd probably feel depressed. It's not about the money. Okay Okay, it's about the relationship and the connection and the inspiration and I love you guys. I love you Those of you who are still watching so now let's talk to freddy mercury. All right freddy How do you feel about that intro my friend? I'm gonna kind of face the sun because you feel so sunny to me and you're so loving He says I think it's about time. He says, oh my gosh My gosh, he's like, I think it's about time you stood up for yourself bridge it to stop being a doormat Like, oh my gosh You should talk mr. Mercury didn't you have the disease to please? Didn't you have what opera calls the disease to please? He says no Really? No, he says but it is hard to to balance Your feelings and when you know it could hurt people When you know What you say or what you share even though it means a lot to you. This is freddy mercury talking. It means a lot to you You know, it could have this this effect on other people and he's talking he's kind of referring to like his family as far as his sexuality goes and Being who he is and changing his name and stuff. He says I know that that Could and would potentially have a negative impact on my family that they would feel hurt He said but Sooner or later, you realize that holding back who you are so that other people don't feel uncomfortable Isn't your responsibility it's it's he says it's part of the problem It really is part of the problem. It's part of a pattern. He says it's part of a pattern that That keeps you small. It keeps you unhappy for yourself It keeps you knowing that you are harboring resentment Inside and you're not even he's like you're not even giving other people You're not even giving the public the opportunity to love you and embrace you and accept you for who you are fully By not fully being yourself and not by fully You know speaking up for what you believe as true for you And he says um, this is interesting. I knew we were going to talk a lot. So he's giving me information. That's um, it doesn't mean that sound like Personality or persona from the human life like you would know him But from the afterlife remember as this expert of empath and and sensitivity He is it's like downloaded into my heart and I'm sharing that so we're having this conversation this psychic conversation And this is probably you guys really for those of you are mega freddy fans This is probably how he communicates with you and you question it and it's natural to doubt or question it But let me tell you this is true This is true. It's a download right to your heart. It's direct to your heart and that's how he communicates That's why we're talking to him about empath stuff because I am Exhausted by people pleasing and I thought honestly bridge it me that I I wasn't a people pleaser as much anymore As I used to be, you know, but I really am Still even after three plus years on above life channel on youtube it is tough to say How I really feel about um I don't how do I say this like I don't want to like lash out or dump on people or or make um Above life channel specifically a platform for me to express myself and my personal beliefs or things That's why I have fairy grasshopper too. I have another channel. That's really personally me And me intuitively and me as a real psychic life like this is what real psychic life is like Let me give you some tips and some tools. So I I I've kept above life channel very specific to afterlife celebrity insight and things that inspire me So I share that with you guys and topics that I know are relevant and important for you and for us all that We all benefit from but I've really tried to keep my personal as much as possible my How do I say this? I can't separate my personality from my work. I just can't do it and I've tried to kind of You know have kind of a a border there Not a boundary, but a border like a like a line kind of like oh be very professional and be and you've seen probably you guys Over time, especially if you've watched above life channel over time Go back and watch some of the original freddie mercury On the playlist although he has such a bold personality that I can't not play be playful with him And my personality comes out too is now I'm just like kind of tired of of the the Kind of unrealistic like demands almost it almost feels like demands because it's an empath I feel the energy of people watching and this desperation for me to tell them answers and give them Direct access to you freddie for example direct access for you And I'm the only way they can do that and that's not I don't believe in that like I think that's wrong To present myself as the only way you can connect. That's not true at all And at the same time I also don't want to be a doormat for people in their Like I get emails and I get comments and this desperation energy of like this despair and this Oh my gosh, if you don't channel freddie this week, I'm just gonna You know I just I just can't help myself and like putting all this like giving me all this This energy of this of people people give me all their problems and I'm like, no, that's okay. I Believe me. I got enough to deal with myself. I don't need everybody else's And yet at the same time like when I work in private session with people I'm like I'm all there for him. I'm all in why because they're all in And on youtube people aren't all in people can have different degrees And that's okay to have different degrees of interest and connection I'm super okay with that if you're a casual viewer of above life channel Totally fine with that. Let's be clear I get that sometimes you're really into it and sometimes you're not and it's fine come and go as you please. It's fine It's totally fine. I'm really cool with that. I'm really fine with that That's not what I'm talking about specifically when I say taken a stand and like No, I'm not going to do things the way other people want me to do them Because they have demands and expectations. I'm like, this is a free service You know, it's like what I think like Why do I care? Why do I care so much about people who are complainers or Who I don't know The answer to that is I don't know, you know, I guess I get equally freddy I get equally as much love and I'm not And I'm not like stressed about above life channel. I'm not feeling pressured a channel I just I'm really kind of over the Please please please channel this person. Please please. I'm like, what? Oh, no No, and you might be being funny like commenters some of the commenters might be being funny and being like, oh, please I just would be so over the moon if you would do this. I'm like, yeah well, I have videos specifically where people can submit requests, but I'm just not that interested in meeting people's needs randomly I want to be in like meaningful relationship based where it's equal and there's shared value and Like I want that and I think everybody else You guys we deserve that. Okay, and I think I need to be a little more Mmm, I think I need to little be a little more discerning Maybe that's it. I don't know freddy. Help me here So people are pleasing. It's a problem many of us have and I didn't realize that feeling resentful when people ask me to channel people over and over and over and like you would not believe the emails I get desperation and Oh, please contact this and I don't have any money But I really need you to do this for me and I'm like what number one Above life channel and fairy grasshopper give you so much insight and inspiration and encouragement to live your life And I know there's hard days and I know everybody needs help, but I am not able to just Like I have other I don't know how to say this. That's unrealistic to expect me to just randomly respond to randomly. Okay How do we handle This feeling of knowing we're going to disappoint people Like I'm doing this channeling right now and I know that there's going to be half There's going to be a chunk of people that watch it that are going to be so disappointed because I didn't just focus on you as your life as freddy from queen and instead I'm talking to you from a higher perspective And to say that I don't care about those people and where they're at is wrong. That's false because I do care I genuinely care you guys. I genuinely care. I do And I want you guys to see how this works for me. Like I have these push pulls and these tugs and I have these challenges myself and these patterns myself And I'm recognizing That the way other people feel it matters to me But I'm also realizing that I don't have control over it How they feel like I can't make people happy. I can't give them contentment I can't make their lives better and fix things. I can't do that. I can't even do that for my own family my own kids My myself is the only place that I have that power. And so how can I lead by example? You need to give us some advice freddy Fred you need to give me advice And out and my friends here They need the two because we care about what other people think of us. We don't we yes. Yes, we do It's okay to admit that because I do too Although I have to say it three over three years on youtube now. And by the way, it's may so it's it is three years for me Hey, cheers to that. Cheers Being on such a public platform you really get you have to quickly get used to a lot of negative comments emails feedback I haven't had any death threats. So that's a positive. I don't think I have I've had I've had a stalker I've had actually two different people that like It's interesting because people love you they like are super devoted love you and then as soon as you do something or say something that they maybe don't agree with or You're not giving enough to them or all of a sudden you're not paying enough attention to them or responding enough to their Messages all of a sudden they get really angry and then they all of a sudden you're like devil Incarnate like you're the worst person ever and then they start Sharing how bad you are and how mean you are and blah blah blah. It's not true But it sucks because when you're a public person And you know they're spreading like lies from their perspective. Well, I shouldn't say lies Maybe they are very hurt and offended because I'm not You know giving them attention, but it's like that's not I can't do that I'm going to give attention to the people who are awesome and lovely and some of you guys by the way Are so lovely and they do adore you That's why I like heart your comments because like there's so many I'm so blessed with lots of comments that I get I don't have a lot of time to personally respond back But I love I have little hearts. I do read your stuff But I love it and I love you guys and I appreciate that but what do we do come on give me advice That doesn't help. He says you're doing it You got to talk about it. He says the first thing is is you got to realize He's like you already know what you can't do you you just said it. He's like you just said it Bridget. You just said it you can't Help everybody you just can't help people and you can't Help them help themselves like you can't do it for them. You can't do anything for somebody else. You can't give them You can't fill that space He says this is interesting because he uses the word trauma Which I don't know that I've heard you use before because you specifically in my vocabulary You chose that word and put it out here like you pulled it right out of my heart and put it out here You can't feel something inside of someone To replace the trauma that they feel They've been in relationships where they felt abused misunderstood Not accepted for who they are and they're looking for some kind of hope and They see that in you and he says for for the viewers He says for your friendships people can see in you this hope This this this The energy of love which is what everyone is really searching for is love to feel love again and It he says you're right about it being There's a real need. He says there's a real need for that feeling of love and he says but It's not going to happen with any one person He says you know that you find that through yourself and your own he says journey He's pulling the word out of me. I think journey because I don't know that he would say journey Especially because this is another band Journey Your supply of air Who knows who that's a reference to that was just me adding that because it's funny your supply of air What band would that be put that in the comment below? See I like this. This is a fun connection and it's real He says you have to love yourself enough To recognize that when someone is asking something of you or they're upset with you about something that it's really not about you It's about them what they're when they're expressing something towards you. It's about their need He says you got a you got a you got to realize you got to find in That emotion that you feel he said you're not going to be logical He's like you're not going to be logical and use your brain about this. You're not going to be all psychology based He's like, you're not going to be all psychological about this He says you're just not going to be smart about it because you're going to feel the intensity of what they're bringing to you And he says but you can't accept it. You can see it And then look up at their face Don't just accept it point blank in the heart Validate them. He says validate that person by looking at their face imagine their face instead of Instantly connecting and having a reaction. He says stop Stop look up look up to their face. Look up to them their identity And recognize that they have this this is theirs And This is beautiful. He says this is beautiful. It's like a gift for you to recognize that there is so much trust They look at you and they have so much trust and they see love in you and they see hope in you and light in you And in that moment you want to protect your hope and your light and your love And so you want to just go and you're like, oh my gosh, and it Sometimes it breaks through. He says and it attaches to something in you that what you would consider He said bridge it you'd use the word trigger. So I'm going to say trigger But it pulls out in you something that feels icky That doesn't feel he doesn't say icky You don't say icky. He says Sorry, he doesn't use word icky. That's me. He's like, that's a bridge at word. That's a bridge at word pulls out something in you That you detest you despise you hate You hate it pulls out something in you. That's like a fire Poker and then it pokes back at you. So your own thing is is coming out and it's like stabbing you in the heart Not in the back. He says it's not in the back not in the back in the heart. It's like stab stab stab causing you pain And so what you're really doing is adding Some pain in you is coming out to connect to their pain and make it a big huge deal when It's not your deal. This isn't yours. This isn't yours And you're going to get confronted. He says you're going to get confronted. You're going to get confronted But you got it. He's like I would say he said he says Look up. He said look at their face. Look at their individual identity. Look at their independence if you accept their pain if you accept their Perspective and their view just accept it Like the doors are wide open. It just comes right in it's like and he says it's so funny because he literally shows me like Because I use this analogy in private session like a screen door or a screen Like you can put a screen over your heart open the window and still have stuff moving You can put a screen over your head And filter it's like filter right because you don't want all the bugs where I live in Minnesota There's tons of mosquitoes. So I'm like keep the bugs out But you can bring the air and the beautiful natural air, right And he says it's like that. It's like that. He says that's Every you have to have that in order to stay healthy. He says in order for you to then foster You to draw into your life to bring into oh attract. Oh good work. Freddie just said attract Yeah, like a law of attraction stuff. He says you attract then healthy positive relationships So he's like if you want to attach to something if you need to be connected to something connect to that But don't give people the the um, he says You degrade them You degrade them when you accept their Complaint their defiance of their own light their own source their own power their own love when when you when you accept That resistance that resentment and you allow within you to get activated by that by their their pain or their drama or their real Very real trauma. We're not judging the pain by the way you guys It's just it's all acceptable no matter what it is or what it's caused by or whatever He freddy just says it's a lack of love. It's just a lack of love When you accept that You invite lack of love inside of you you put that that toxin into your body unintentionally and It's not healthy. It's not healthy for you. It's not healthy for them. He's like it's not healthy for you You're doing them a disservice by allowing yourself to be treated in a way and accepting the complaints the negativity the verbal thrashing tongue thrashing that comes by accepting that By paying attention to it by responding to it. We can't ignore you guys. Let's be honest We're human beings and we can't ignore it. We're not made to ignore things We're made to use our attention as a tool So we can't ignore things But we can like freddy says be aware Of what that energy is attached to look up at their face like that is the best advice I think I've ever heard I have ever heard have you ever heard any as an empath Don't just accept the feelings as point blank. Look up at the face. Look up at the identity. Look up at the ownership of that information That energy that emotion and if we are being We are wanting to react. We're being pulled out How do we how do we How do we do that? Like if we okay, we're like gonna have reactions. We're gonna have reactions We're gonna have some feels about other people's stuff like when somebody says something to me I want to just set them straight and I really it takes a lot to resist the urge to Because let me just say I can be very clever in my responses I grew up in a very sarcastic family and I could nail somebody to the wall. I can give him a tongue lash in But I really resist the urge to do that I'll type it up and then I'll delete it and then I'll just delete block ban the person. Okay That's how I handle it. Probably not the healthiest way. He's like, oh, no, he's disparaging. Why would you say it's not healthy? That's exactly healthy That's exactly healthy You acknowledge how you feel. He said that's how you respond. Oh my gosh He's like, you're doing it. You're doing it. Give yourself more credit I'm like, oh, he says you're the masterful coach Am I really because sometimes I don't feel so masterful and I do not feel like a very good coach. I need to whistle Hello sunshine, let's breathe it in Ah Allergy season I gotta be silly. I feel like my nose is running. Is it? I hope not. Okay It's probably just some water for me Okay, so I just said it. I just said it. So talk to us about this talk to us about this He says ignoring isn't healthy. He said being Ignoring ignorance the same like extension of the same word It's not healthy that whole and he's like ignorance is bliss He said yes until it bites you until you want to actually do something for yourself. That's Prominent where you're really fulfilling a purpose of passion You care so deeply about something and you want to express it or share it. He said he says It doesn't work to ignore it You can't ignore it You can't because he says when you're so passionate and you're so committed and you are dedicated to sharing the messages And sharing the inspiration and hope he says hope that's your thing You he's like bridge. You talk about hope all the time. I know fred. I know that's my thing. You guys seriously I've said before to many life coaches before that I've I've chatted with If I had a product it would be hope it is it just is here it is in the box open it up just receive it It's free take it He says The energy of that he says is going to have an equal balanced Dark side really like for lack of a better term shadow side a part that's that's not That is as equally challenging to you As equally challenging. He says because that just fortifies your commitment and dedication To what you love. He says well, you will be challenged. There will be darkness. There will be negativity There will be people that misunderstand you, but that's not your goal. Your goal is not to be understood That's not your goal. Your goal is to what? Well, my goal is to live to deliver to deliver the hope to the people who are ready to receive it Not everybody that is watching this video is ready to receive that you know and start on that journey Which is why I created my fairy grasshopper channel in the first place That's how I started like that channel has been up since 2012 Where I share inspiring insights meditation all sorts of stuff that I just fills my heart, you know above life channel is very focused and very specific and fairy grasshopper is this Buffet and I like it that way, you know He says so you're going to equally get the shadows and that doesn't mean what you're doing is wrong or bad It doesn't mean you're not doing things, right? He says stop judging yourself and your heart That's one of the best things you can do is start loosening up the judgment on yourself But other people say to you or or show back or throw at you Isn't about you it's about them and so then in order to know what's about you and what's yours You got to know yourself. He's like that's where intuition comes and that's where you got to focus on your spirit He says and just remember that the ultimate goal is love Everybody wants love to feel it to receive it to be swimming in it to use it Like he's like literally shows me a big swimming pool and swimming around in love and it's like light pink love love swimming around in love Now that's awesome This has been this has been such an interesting video This has been such an interesting channeling. I've rather enjoyed this. It's very personal It's a very personal one. Thank you so much for this. I appreciate it I want to talk with you more about empath stuff If you guys have questions about that about empath being an empath and being a sensitive person Put them in the comments below because that's something I'd like to explore more deeply and and bring it into A space that's more meaningful for you specifically So I hope you've enjoyed this channeling with mr. Freddie Mercury from the afterlife Empath to empath. I very much appreciate it. Hey, I hope I've inspired your spirit today And filled you with some hope maybe encouraged you to stand up for yourself, too Because it really doesn't matter what other people think of you It matters what you think of you and I'm at the point where I need to make sure that I am thinking of What matters to me, which is my integrity And my personality I have a quirky personality. I totally do and That is starting to come through on above life channel And I'm not going to be all professional and buttoned up and I'm going to you know, wear my hoodies and be comfortable and Enjoy the channeling because that's the point is to really enjoy this life. Isn't it after all? It certainly is it's your life after all now. It's yours. Okay. That's a big thing, right? It's your life So live it you've got to just live it That's what I intend to do Hey, thank you so much for being here and watching until the end of this video. I totally appreciate you I'll be heartening those comments. You better bet. I will be Thanks for being here