 Hi, she was seven. So I had a video request to cover the topic of a Documentary that is on YouTube and it's like I think it's called women who rents men And by rents, I mean like you know, I guess that means use them for gifts. I watched the documentary and it was a group of women from the UK and They are they were like Women who you know were Attractive and they would use guys To buy them gifts and pay for bills and all that kind of stuff But they would never sleep with them or you know take it to the next level And someone asked me to talk about what I thought about it Women have been doing that for a long time. It's like not anything new When I was growing up I saw a lot of girls do that and it's easy to do that because men Like beautiful women. They like to be in the company of beautiful women They will pay for the company of beautiful women. They will treat beautiful women to you know expensive restaurants shopping this this and that and Even if they don't get anything in return You know just being seen with this person or spending time with this person was You know good enough for them. I Guess in America, they just call them sugar daddies so I Know a lot of girls who have had sugar daddies and have not had to do anything with them And they rents them to get expensive gifts and then when that Relationship went sour or they were tired of each other or things couldn't go any further Because the man wanted more than the woman was willing to give then they would just end it and just find another way Or they'd have multiple sugar daddies at once or they'd be rinsing multiple men at the same time and now that the internet and you know social network is more Prevalent women can do that. You know super easy now They were just showing how these women would take pictures of expensive shoes and purses and stuff like that and post them on like Facebook and You know their rich guy friend would you know see what they liked and bought and bought it for them and sent it to him as a gift and blah blah blah Well, that's how a lot of women operate especially Like women who are you know pretty enough to marry a millionaire or have That type of lifestyle if they were to marry into money These type of women will you know, sometimes they've already been married and divorced or are not ready to be married yet And they will just play the field and play the guys to get the gifts that they want and they don't have to work They don't have to do anything And you know, I can't really say that I'm against it because if men are willing to buy you something and You know give you a gift and it's their choice You know, it's free will the woman is not forcing them to do anything. It's just like, you know, this these are some shoes I like I wish I could get them These are all my wish list and so she basically just friended a bunch of rich You know businessmen and they see her, you know, Facebook feed and they say, oh Maybe if I buy her these shoes, she'll come have dinner with me And you know, I can be seen out with this beautiful woman And so they'll just buy her the shoes and say I need to give you your gift Meet me at such-and-such, you know, and the woman will go, okay And it'll be a nice restaurant. She'll get to eat drink champagne Enjoy her evening get her gift and go home, you know And I know a lot of guys probably expect more out of the woman But it's really up to the woman to give herself to any man. So It's basically the guys are just working off the hope that they're gonna get to go further or they're working off the The ego that they're gonna be able to convince her to do something, you know Else so when they get tired of it or when they grow weary and you know, give up That's when the girl just says well, you know, I just wanted to be friends and you know I'm not ready for a relationship and they just move on and just move on to the next guy and You know guys have kind of been doing that for years except they haven't really been getting gifts They've been getting sex. They've been tricking a lot of women saying, you know, oh, I really like you and you know Talk the woman and you know into having sex with them and they won't commit they won't they don't want to be their boyfriend They don't want to you know, take them out. They don't want to date Oh, men have been doing this for years except the gift is just sex from the woman That's why I say if any woman gives away sex for free and they're not in a committed relationship Moving towards long term or marriage then you're just giving away free gifts. You're being rinsed by the men except sexually so I Would rather Be a woman that you know gets gifts from guys rinses guys Rather than be the woman who gives away free sex and hope for the best and get the worst, okay? I don't see anything wrong with it. In fact It's easy to rinse men, you know Even of you know, even if they're not the most, you know Wealthiest guy, they still have a paycheck and you can get something out of them I've seen girls do it all the time on Facebook. They'll just like oh, I need a new phone. Oh, I need And they'll post up a phone and oh, I need uh, I need these new shoes That aren't super expensive or oh, I need I Need this watch, you know, they're not gonna put like a expensive watch on there They're just gonna put something like you know in the median price range just to see if people will actually buy things for them and Sometimes they do sometimes they don't sometimes they'll give them up a link to a website where it's cheap at Or something like that and you know, then then that lets her know that they're not trying to buy anything for her But then there's some guys that will offer to You know Order it for you and pay for it and have it shipped. You just don't know I mean people are different some guys like to Give gifts. It's like a nice gesture Some guys are and some girls they have, you know lower self-esteem and they feel like they have to buy their friendships or they have to buy their Companionship and they don't have a problem with it because it's easy quick fast convenient. They don't have to really work hard on it They don't have to settle for Someone that they're not really interested in or that they're not attracted to so it's kind of a Give and take it's not unfair because the guys are agreeing to it. It's just it it seems like it's unfair Because the woman is getting more out of it But if you think about it a man's ego is being fed He's getting to be seen out with a beautiful gorgeous woman who he probably Could not, you know score without his money And he's getting conversation He's getting the effect or the illusion of having a beautiful girlfriend who he can buy nice gifts for He's getting to know what women really like so that if he does ever want to get married He can he knows how to impress That type of woman and knows what they like it could also just be researched because there's lots of wealthy men that will have Like what they call them sugar babies And you know figure out what these young girls like figure out all that stuff And then they'll go find the one that they won't really want to be with and they'll just pull out all the stops They'll know exactly what the girl wants. They'll buy the gifts. They'll do this They'll do that they'll do blah blah blah blah, and so they don't have to be trained. They already know the girl's gonna fall for it She's gonna be like yes, he's gonna give me everything I want. I don't have to teach him He already knows he knows about this. He knows about that. He knows about this and It'll just be automatic. I know I've known lots of Wealthy Guys who have done this in the past they were practice Impressing younger women and then when it's time to find their wife They knew exactly what to go do and they had the money to blow they had the money to spend They were having a good time and you know, nothing was really lost Now like before I got married I Would date guys that had like, you know money, but It was like You know from me at that age. I was trained. I was basically trained by my sister who? like got Let's just say she had a sugar daddy like every couple of months She had a new one so I was like she taught me and I would say oh, you know on the date I would say oh, let's go shopping or let's go window shopping and window shopping would turn into real shopping You know, oh, let's just go walk through them all You know and then that would turn into oh you want that oh you want that oh you want that and then it would turn into You know What do you like what do you want for Christmas? What do you want for your birthday? You know and so That's just how it goes. But like as I've gotten older and I'm married now and have kids and stuff like that That's not like really my main focus because I've already been there and done that when I was young now my main focus is Maintaining an household financial security Making sure everyone's healthy. Everyone is happy. Everyone has what they need You know being able to still Buy the nice things that you like and not you know just losing yourself into you know being a mother and wife exploring hobbies and Books and learning new things and doing this and that so that's like my focus now But back then when I was young. Oh, yeah, it was all about what I could get what I could get And You know, it's not a bad thing. It just you know, it's just how it is There are a man that will pay for your stuff Um Just like there are women that will pay for men stuff. I mean it works both ways. I've seen guys Especially very very attractive men They will go for a woman who looks like you know They could never get a guy that looks like him and they would make sure she had a good career and they would say Oh, baby, I love those shoes. Oh, baby. I love that watch. I need that watch. Oh, baby I love this hat and the women would just buy it for them and say and the men will be like, you know the men would sleep with them so that women were getting what they wanted and You know, sometimes They would just pay for the guy's gift and just feel like that was their girlfriend duty But really, you know, they weren't exclusively Together they just thought that you know, we feed into each other's fantasies women feed into a man's fantasy And a man will feed into a woman's fantasy, which is you know the romance the the material things the comfort the trips and Men will feed into women's As far as you know, affection love intimacy You know kind words and We know what each other likes So it's easy to get what you want out of somebody if you tell them what they want to hear, right? So I guess the moral is this of this video is There's nothing wrong with you know having a sugar daddy or rinsing men if they agree to it and You know, and there's nothing wrong with You know guys doing the same thing because they're young and they're just exploring and you know If you fall for the Okie-dokie Then you know you learned your lesson if you didn't then you know, you're doomed to repeat But I don't think it's wrong. I just think it's a part of life I think it's a part of growing and Matureing as an adult and seeing what type of men and what type of women are out there You know, it's just a learning process. I don't see You know, I don't think it's wrong because so many people do it And like like when I first started dating my husband, I did it to him Like our second date I took him to the Galleria and he bought me, you know, we went shopping For my birthday, which was like three months after we met he bought me a Louis Vuitton Took me on trips. He took me to Mexico. We went to Las Vegas and like You never know what can happen, you know, so we got married but that you know, I was doing the same thing and you know He knew what women liked and he knew how to impress a certain type of women And even though I've grown and matured, you know, spiritually and mentally and I'm not all about those things anymore I was at the time and he knew how to impress me at the time And just because a woman is a certain way at one point in her life Doesn't mean she can't grow and mature and become a better person or a different person with different priorities in the future We all have to remember that, you know Just like a man But the thing is like I said some women just love comfort and that's what they want in life And you know men understand that and if they don't they don't know how to impress a woman Okay, well, I'm gonna leave this video at that and I'll see you guys later