 What's going on you guys welcome to the single guy channel? My name is Lloyd a big thing that I get from a lot of my students with a huge problem And even they recognize it Without a lot of them when they have conversations with women sometimes it can seem fun Friendly and like everyone's having a good time, but there doesn't feel like there's any sexual tension It doesn't feel like there's any like romantic interest It doesn't feel like these two people are gonna have sex like it just has a conversation That's normal and friendly So how do you change it from just normal and friendly to making it into something where there's like some sexual tension? There's some arousal going on. There's sparks flying. It feels like two people are flirting. Okay How do you have that interaction as opposed to the former? Well a big reason for this is that a lot of times especially people who view my channel is They don't understand a man-to-woman interaction. They don't know how to have that So in this video basically what I'm going to cover is I'm going to give you a couple tips To have a man-to-woman connection I'm going to explain what a man-to-woman connection is and ultimately the basic principle behind what a man-to-woman connection is and what that looks Like in the real world. So let's get right into it Okay So the first thing that I'm going to tell you is a couple like body language related things Typically men what they do to have a more dominant and masculine presence is they take up a little bit more space So while you're there have good posture stand up straight Make sure that you're having good eye contact. You're not wavering You're not trying to try to shrink in or like you're fidgeting around a lot. You're confident You're secure and you're basically direct in your movements and purposeful in your In your gestures and all that stuff. So have good posture stand up straight have eye contact have the confidence to do that sort of thing Now I can give you a bunch of tips and tricks to help you out when it comes to a man-to-woman connection But really what a man-to-woman connection is and this might not be the most PC thing to say These days ironically, but it's basically the man leading and the woman following This is done in courtship dancing. This is done in ballroom social dancing. I don't know a single dance Form on the planet where the man is not leading the woman and the reason why this is is because that's how courtship rituals work That's how that's how it's worked since the beginning of time The man leads and the woman decides if she wants to follow and if she does then she follows him Okay, so how does this work in the real world? Well, if you're talking to a girl and she's kind of leading the conversation She's you know, she's choosing the conversation topic. She's giving you advice all the time Typically that is not going to lead down a direction where it's going to have so that spark It's going to have that chemistry to it. Okay, so the man's got a kind of be in charge in this area And I don't mean be in charge like he he says he tells her what to say And he's the only one talking. No, that's not how it works But what it does look like is maybe he's like really interested in her and he's kind of directing the conversation to us getting to Know about each other. He's teasing her a little bit. He's got got that cheeky eye contact going on a Lot of it is that where it's he's kind of like the one who's leading the conversation And this also works well, too if you've got a girl that you're talking to at a bar at a social event or something like that and You say, hey, let's go get a drink and she comes with you. You're leading. She's following You know, you introduce her to some friends. You're leading. She's following. That's how it works So a lot of times what guys need to learn how to do is rather than looking for you know Most of the time my students what they'll do is when they're talking to a girl I give them like a basic framework of how it usually goes down and so they try and implement this So they'll think okay. This is going really well. This girl likes me What's the next step? And what's the next step can help you out in some areas because if you have if you know how it works Like I've done this thousands of times so I can give them more or less. What usually happens next That works a lot of the time. However, you need to know the basic principle behind it The basic principle is not what should I do next the basic principle is what do I want? Okay, what do I want to do next? Too many guys they keep looking to the girl to see what they should do next they keep looking to her for answers Oh, should I should I try and kiss her now? Does she want me to kiss her? Who cares if like they think about what you want to do man And if you want to kiss her hate try and kiss her and if she's down. She's you know, then she's not down Okay, so well too many guys are permission seeking and I think what this happens is when we grow up We're we're put in school. We're taught to raise her hand in class like we can't even go to the bathroom without asking for permission So we're not taught to be men in society We're taught to be people who follow orders and people who follow orders Not necessarily the people or people who are permission seeking rather and sometimes in the army I think that can be quite attractive, but people who are permission seeking are not attractive to women That's not a dominant dominant positive masculine presence that she's looking for Or she is looking for is a guy who goes after what he wants. Okay goes knows what he wants and goes after it now so if you're a guy who's been going through life and You're always permission seeking and you find yourself asking yourself. Hey, what should I do next? Does she like me if you're asking yourselves those questions instead? Ask yourself what you want put yourself first and go after that now. I know what you're thinking some of you This doesn't mean that when you're talking to a girl that you want to have sex with you just assault her like I Don't think any guy who's watching this channel is gonna do that But just let's make it perfectly clear But what it does look like are the things that I've said leading the conversation leading her to different areas leading her on the Dance floor, you know introducing her to people that kind of stuff is a man-to-woman Interaction where you're basically leading and she's following and if you are able to do this on a consistent basis Then you're gonna get a lot more women are gonna want to sleep with you They're gonna want to date you that are just gonna want to be around you because you have a strong masculine presence You know a lot of this this is actually pretty important not just when it comes to like getting girls But also too when you're raising children, you know Like if you have daughters or if you have boys they strong masculine presence is very important Just as a strong feminine presence is very important in their development as well too So I would recommend that you do this not just for your own love life But for the lives of your children as well too so thanks a lot you guys if you made today and consider subscribing I come out with videos like this every single week guys I actually have a new program that I'm coming out with right now and I'm looking for a new guys to join We are going to learn exactly how to have that man-to-woman presence So if you're interested in that shoot me an email the single guy 2017 at gmail.com put the words team in it Okay. Thanks a lot you guys. Good luck out there