 Next question is from warrior monk fitness is following your passion. Bad advice, you know I love these these broad Like recommendations or you know wisdom when they're like follow your passion how many times have you heard that statement on Instagram You know, I think you're in trouble if you always follow your feelings or if you always follow your mind I think you have to come you have to be able to do both always following your passion You'll be chasing your feelings around all the time And you may not you may not be pragmatic you may not may up end up dating the wrong person Because you're passionate about them You may end up doing a job that doesn't really support you or your family very well because you're not being pragmatic Your diet may be passion driven in which case you may not eat in the right way Your workouts might be the wrong workouts if you always I think passion and emotion are Important as part of what makes this human, but just following passion. I don't think that's a great message I really I didn't think you guys were gonna go this direction I thought I was gonna be the one that was gonna challenge that I thought you guys are gonna be all pro go for your passion But I guess I you know this that show I was talking to you by the playbook One of the coaches kind of like alluded to this and said, you know doing things like that You are you're driven by your feelings and it isn't always the most logical decision You know sometimes you feel passionate about something because it makes you you find it's fun Or you enjoy it or currently at this moment in your life You have a feeling around it and it's that feeling that that drives that passion And that may not always drive a logical decision in what you should be doing And so actually being able to and it's and it's not also necessarily a bad thing either because you know Hopefully whatever it is that you end up doing for the rest of your life You're also passionate about maybe the spark that got you there, right? But I know there's a lot of things in my life that I'm very passionate about today that I fell into because I was Open to doing a bunch of other things and so and I and I think that this message for the the generation kind of coming up now I'd like the being somebody who has had you know now what two three generations that I've led underneath me and seeing like the you know Gen Z and Millennials yeah millennials coming up and and how they're there This is like a very hot topic like finding something that they're so passionate about and they spent some of them spend so much time Trying to find this passion that they'll turn other things yeah opportunities away right that they don't I'm seeing they don't they don't do They don't do something and part of that is like just getting yourself and I mean look I actually did not believe I did not actually love personal training that much like I liked personal training I really did like there's but what I found in it was other things that I ended up really being passionate about like I was in I was passionate about building a business. I liked numbers. I liked sales I didn't even know that was part of that But I found out that it was a big part of it which made me more passionate and fell in love with it And then I got into leading trainers and thought oh my god. I don't like personal training at all I love leading trainers and so sometimes you don't know if it's gonna be something that you're gonna be really passionate about So turning away a lot of things because you're like oh, I'm not really passionate about that I don't feel very passionate about it. And so you you don't do it. I think that's a silly way to Yeah, I think it's important to Definitely don't turn away Opportunities get involved in these opportunities and find where that passion lies within that experience and you know for me It took a while to kind of figure that out like what I really wanted to do You know, I did a lot of different types of jobs and it it definitely Eliminated a lot of directions that I thought I wanted to go in but I was like well I just I don't like I don't like this this this You know industry I'm not really, you know driven towards this that other job I had you know, there was a spark there and so you know in terms of like just waiting for that passion You know to present itself for you. I think that's a that's a not the message. I would put out I think if you're seeking to put to have passion for something that's gonna serve you for the rest of your life I would say find passion in and growth. Okay, because that'll that'll always serve you Yeah, no matter what happens in your life if you're passionate about growth It means you're gonna embrace challenge. It means that you'll view failure Which you will encounter in your life a lot You'll view failure as a learning and growth process. I think that's a very smart Way to look at things I think if you if you run by passion on specific things You're gonna screw yourself and you know to your point Adam about you know the these generations coming up and having to find their passion that's the result of a Wealthy easy good society, and I know some people are getting their feelings hurt right now because they think oh life is so tough or whatever Okay, I'm talking about in comparison to how it's always been for people Okay, go back to your parents your grandparents your great-pink grandparents, you know my great-grandfather Didn't find a job that he was passionate about you know He did it because he fight tooth and nail for an opportunity. Oh, so here's a deal passion happiness Excitement they feel great. They're wonderful, but that's not the key to Success in life the key to success in life is meaning Purpose those will always serve you you know they do these these surveys of People who have children and they compare them to people who don't have children and it's so funny when these When when articles are written about this, but you could tell there's a media bias Constantly trying to convince people to not have children because you'll read that article titles and they'll say things like People pay no couples who don't have kids are more happy People who don't have kids have more fun And so you if you just read the headline you're like wow I'm not gonna have any kids because people who don't have kids have less stress and they're more happy Yes, that's true, but continue to read the study people who have kids find more purpose and meaning in their life Which one is more valuable ask any old person who's about to die or who's reaching the end of their life And they'll tell you it's meaning and purpose passion Excitement happiness are all fleeting those are they're great enjoy them the real parts of life But that's not what life is all about so although passion is a part of who you are and You should experience it don't chase it and drive after it make that you're defining Feeling because you'll be screwed. I promise you you'll be fleeting and I've worked with lots of people like this I have worked with very talented people who were constantly chasing passion and When they're young, it's okay. Oh, I'm moving from this thing. I'm doing this thing I'm passionate I'm bored and now that they're in their 30s and 40s. They're they're not successful They're in debt not happy. Not happy. They're looking for the next thing always looking for the next thing So well, you know what ends up happening is that you're something that you you're so passionate about you end up Working in that industry and you would find out there's so much more to it And then all of a sudden that that passion starts to fade away And then now you're stuck in this career that you you waited so long to get into because you thought you had to be so Passion about and then that all changed always greener somewhere else. Here's a great example Talk to any successful couple that's been together for 40 50 60 years right talk to them about passion When you first meet someone you fall in love with them passion dominates the relationship It's just all over the place But how do you build a long-lasting? Partnership with the person those feelings change and go away and then you have this bond that is different than passion But way stronger and more powerful and that's much more important if you're always chasing passion Here's what will end up happening you'll fall in love with someone you become passionate Passion starts to wane then you don't give the bonding a chance You don't give the hard part the part that's real important chance You end up leaving them you go to the next person you feel passionate about and that's a it's a road to failure It's a road to a poor outcome in life. So passion is good, but don't don't let that one lean on it. Absolutely