 And where we really have an issue is if outcomes and results actually define our self-worth, then we have a problem. You're big on setting goals and we want to set really big and aggressive goals. If your entire identity and self-worth and confidence and self-belief is wrapped up in outcomes and reaching goals and achievement, then that means half the time you feel good about yourself, half the time you feel lousy about yourself. And I don't know about you, but life's too short to feel lousy half of the time.