 Hello everyone, welcome to another Knox Viva Live video. As you can see I am out here by this river and bridge. It's quite a nice bridge behind me there and in this one we are going to be talking about why you won't hear from the narcissist and I'm going to give you three reasons why. So let's begin the first reason is because you are not susceptible to their manipulation which means they can't pull the ball over your eyes, they can't put you under their spell anymore. So you are no longer their fool, their doormat, their emotional punching bag, their emotional tampon, their personal bank account or AT game or whatever else it is that they are using you for. You are no longer vats anymore which means that they cannot manipulate you. They can't get you to do what they want you to do so that means they have failed, you have defeated them, you have won, you have crushed them, demolished them, you have torn them to smithereens, it's game over, they are finished, they are done and that's that. So you are not susceptible anymore, of course you are not going to hear from them. Why would they want anything to do with you after that, after you have figured them out? At that point you are done yourself, you are washed up, it's game over for you because that's all it was anyway from the beginning, it was all a game from day one and that was that. And it was never going to be anything more than that, it was only going to be an illusion, the best you will ever get from an artist is an illusion, I have said that before many times and I've actually done a video on that as well, you will never get anything real or authentic from a narcissist, you will never get that, it will only ever be a simulation, an illusion of love for intimacy or whatever it was that you wanted, whatever illusion you got from them, it will never be real, it will never be that and that brings me to the second reason why you won't hear from the narcissist and the second reason is because, I'm not saying they do but they may have new supply and yes in many situations that will be a reason why you won't hear from them and that is how you should know that they never belong to you, they were never yours, it was just your turn because that's how they managed to leave you and move on and find new supply because they were never serious about you in the first place and they will do that because they think the grass is greener on the other side, they think they found a bigger bit of deal, a shiny new toy but in all actuality that's is an illusion as well, in most cases they're just being sold a dream, they're being manipulated as well and they're just selling that same dream to you and they're hoping that you're going to buy it, they're hoping that you're going to fall for that but hopefully you've been watching my videos so you won't fall for that and you're listening to this one right now so you've got to be aware of it in order to expect but that's all they're going to do when they find new supply, they want to flaunt it, they want to put it out there so that you see it, they will put it on social media, pictures, videos, whatever it is, they want you to be aware of it, they want to get a reaction from you so that they feel better about it, they live like curiously through you and your reactions to whatever it is that they're doing so yeah that's the second reason it's new supply and finally the third reason why you won't hear from the narcissist is something you may not hear about much but it's true it does happen a lot, the reason is because they've taken a fall, they're not at the level or position that they were at when they were with you now they are in a worse situation and this typically happens because they've ran into someone who has manipulated them and that person may be a narcissist or they may have some other disorder it could be a player whatever it is it's someone who is taking advantage of them but that's not the only reason why they could take a fall it could be something else as well but the point is that something has happened to them and trust and believe that they won't want you to know about that because that would make them look bad and they would be embarrassed so in that situation they will ghost you they will cut you off and you won't hear from them and the reason why is because they don't want you to know about it they don't want you to know about what is going on and think about what I said with the previous reason the new supply if they do have new supply they like to flaunt it they like to put it out there they want everyone to see it they want everyone to be aware of it and the reason for that is so that they can get a reaction out of you so then they can live by curiously through you and your responses to what they're doing but with the third reason when they've taken a fall of course they don't want you to know about that they don't want you to see it so they're gonna cut you off they won't post anything on social media they will ghost you they would just completely disappear from all communication and that's because something has gone wrong that's how you know something has gone wrong for your narcissist when they completely disappear when they completely cut you off that is how you will know so yeah these are the three reasons why you won't cure from a narcissist and you know I completely understand you're going through it and for you it was real I know that you thought that you were really developing a connection a relationship with someone you were about it and you thought they were about it for real you thought that they really wanted that and then they disappear and you don't hear from them you're thinking what about all these plans we made all of these things we said about the future I thought we were going to be together I thought we were going to go on trips and get married have children I thought you wanted that but now you left me alone on my own and I'm confused wondering what is going on because you sold either stream I don't know that's how it feels when you're going through it you're just wondering why would you do that why would you sell me this dream and make me believe about all these things in the future and so you're down for it you're along for the ride and then in the end when things aren't going your way you cut me off isn't that how it feels because you thought that they were about the same things that you were about love intimacy connection the things that they sold to you especially in the beginning and the things that they led you to believe like whenever you try to talk to them try to develop something you thought things were getting serious then they would disappear no I'm too busy I've got time for that and then you're thinking in your head I wish we could just sit down and have a normal conversation just shut the world out and let's just talk about life you must have some things that mean something to you things that you value things that are important things that you can share with me and we can be vulnerable no no they can't do that and instead you're left alone and you call them sometimes they don't answer the phone you text them they don't respond back you're left alone at night wondering what they're doing and who they're with sometimes crying yourself to sleep because you don't know what is going on with them and all you want is just to experience real life you want to experience a connection with someone someone who appreciates you maybe someone who could love you for who you are this amazing wonderful person that you are and you all are do not let the narcissist destroy your dreams don't let them do that because I am here and I support all of you on your dreams what you desire in your life whatever it is that you want just know that I am here for you and I am always available for a one-man coaching session whenever you are ready go to my website anytime and book a call with me it's not survivor go could UK as you know and the important thing to remember here is not to blame yourself it doesn't mean you have to look at yourself and think that something is wrong with you just because you didn't get what you want you should never think like that remember the three reasons I said why you want cure from them you weren't susceptible they thought the grass was green on the other side and maybe they just fell off they failed and they will always fail just like they failed with you because the truth is they don't care they don't care about you they don't care about anything I'm sorry to say that but it is true they don't care about anything in life they don't value relationships they don't value love they just don't they don't value what really matters in life but we can value those things because these things are important to us and nobody can take that away from you what you really value yourself and your core even if they take everything away from you that is the one thing they cannot take they will never be able to take that they will try they will try to destroy your heart and soul but they can't they can't do that coming towards the end of the day here as soon as it's coming down everyone's out on their boats we've got the bridge here as well we're going to head back to the car now get something to eat but as always I would just like to thank you all for 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