 You can now follow me and all my social media platforms to find out who my latest guest will be. And don't forget to click the subscribe button and the notifications button so you're notified for when my next podcast goes live. And now they're saying at DNA testing places, they took polls from all of them. And one out of three of the samples that were sent, it said they were not the father. I just basically told guys, if your girl gets fat, you can leave. You can leave. That's not fair. I think it's harder for women to stay in a stable relationship because we have too many choices. I think it's like the psychology of choice. And we think we have more choices than we do. I just think life's about choices and trade-offs. I think it's kind of a lie that society tells us that there's like an other half or you have a person. I think you just pick and life's about choices and trade-offs and no one's perfect. And you kind of work with what you have and you try to find people with similar values to you. And that's all you can really do. One out of three men or either virgins are having a sex in the past year under 30. Hi, I'm good. How are you? Yeah, really good. Thanks. First of all, thanks for coming on the show. Thanks for having me. Very interesting. Very interesting. I've seen a lot of your TikTok videos. Very intrigued. Very outspoken, which I love. For me, everybody should have free speech and express their opinion. Some shit you've got, some stuff you've got shit for. Some stuff you've got praise for. But this is life no matter what you say. People are always going to take negatives or positives from it. But fair play for coming to the forefront, speaking out about things that... I don't know, we're living in a very softened generation where people are too scared. We've got to cancel culture. But yourself, your videos are popping off everywhere. I know you've had a few TikToks took down, but that's the way it is. How are you? I'm good. Yeah, no, TikTok's been wild. They always take away. They always take down my videos. But it's funny, even if they kick me off the app, like other people just post my clips so they just can't get rid of me. That's where I seen your clips. And then I tried to find you on TikTok and it was banned. And then I tried to go into another one. It was banned. I basically got you on Instagram. Before we get into all the madness, it's just to find out a bit of understanding about yourself. Where you grew up and how it all began. Yeah, so I'm from Chicago originally, the suburbs. I have nine siblings. And I started TikTok two years ago, maybe YouTube a year ago. And yes, going well so far. Yeah, well, your YouTube will plug straight away. 400,000, nearly 400,000 subscribers. Is that my pearly things? Just pearly things. Just pearly things, close. But that's some amount of subscribers just for a year. Yeah, I mean, maybe a year and a half now. Maybe a year and a half now. But yeah, no, it's funny. I did a lot of videos. Like I think I have like 4,000 videos on my channel. So it was a lot of repetition where I would just like do the same thing over and over again. Why was that to see what works? I just feel like naturally I'm someone that's not overly like talented at things. And in my life, like I've always had to do things a million times to like get it. And I've just found if I do things like a hundred, like I can just outwork people usually. How were you as a kid? What? How were you as a kid, a child? As a kid? Yeah. I was, I was really goofy. I was in, I was very much about sports. So I did three different sports. I did volleyball, basketball, and I ran track. And that's pretty much all that mattered to me until I was like 21, 22. And I'm really a family oriented. So I have nine siblings. My parents own a software company. And the, what kind of got me into like the, the red pill stuff was just seeing how a lot of people didn't have that like strong family unit. And I don't know, growing up, it was like good for me, I think. How was it? And a family so big, did you ever feel left out or was it so close that it felt loved? Um, I mean, yeah, I mean, sometimes, yeah, I mean, cause my dad was, is like very, is very successful. Like he does really well. So he was gone a lot growing up, but every one of my family is very like achievement oriented. And so it was always like, even though we were from like a successful family, it was always like you were going to work. You're going to work hard. And, um, yeah, you have to do good in sports or school or whatever it is you're passionate about. And my parents were really big on like following your passion too. A lot of support then. Yeah. Yeah, for sure. How do you think it affects you if the dad not being there? Cause a lot of the girls, like, cause you've clearly got your head screwed on little, but a lot of girls with the daddy issues, dad not being there, turn to drugs, turn to strippers, porn, like every porn star I've interviewed, every escort I've interviewed, I struggled at home with family members being broken up. Did you think that affects you as a kid? No, um, I mean, I think there's a difference between like a dad not being there because he's like providing for his family. Like my whole life, my dad, he told me his only goal was to pay for all of his kids college cause he was in a lot of debt after college. Um, so I always knew he loved me. I always knew like that he was, um, he was going to be there for the big stuff, but, you know, he had to build a business with like, I think he ended up employing like 300 people. So. Yeah. And you're seeing that at an L.A. Is that he was taking time away from his family to provide for his family? Yeah. Yeah. He had, uh, he built, half of his business was in India, so he would go there a lot growing up. Has my dog named brothers and sisters? Yeah. Well, it's a funny story. I grew up, I grew up with six and I was the second to six. I was the oldest girl. Um, my mom actually got pregnant when she was 17 and, um, from my dad and they gave that kid up for adoption because they were so young and they like had only known each other a couple months. Um, they ended up getting married like five years later, but, um, he grew up and then I didn't know he existed till I was 22. And then we like reunited with him and now like he comes to family stuff and whatever. And then, um, they adopted three teenagers. So they adopted my second cousin, no, two of my second cousins, um, when they were like 16. And then then there was a kid and my brother's football team that was homeless. And so they had, it was kind of like the blind side. If you've seen that except there was no NFL ending. But, um, yeah. Chazz, they adopted him. And so then it was 10 total. Where does that come from that they wanted to help others? Um, I actually, I asked my dad this when he was on my show this summer with my mom and like some of my other relatives are siblings. And they just said it was kind of like, they just, like, they needed somewhere to go and my parents were the only ones that could do it. But that's kind of how they always were growing up. Like we always had like cousins living with us or like aunts, uncles. Like I can't even count how many people would stay with us for a summer or like the winter or a couple months, whatever it was. How well you at college? Is it college, university in America? It's college? Yeah. What did you do there? Um, gosh. I played three sports there. So I did volleyball, basketball, I ran track and that was pretty much what I was obsessed with. So, um, yeah, I studied, I studied economics and business administration. Um, and then I got my master's or my market research certification too. And then my master's in psych, I'm very educated, but I only really got this educated because I wanted to play sports. So. Why does the psychology stuff come into play with sports? Oh, um, I picked it because I thought it'd be easy. It's difficult. So much fucking interest in the brain and psychology. No, I didn't really care about it. And I actually did that when I came here. Was there recruiting me to play and in order to come to the UK, like I had to get a master's degree. And so I just was like, what do I think would be easy? And so I picked psychology. When did you come to the UK? A year ago. So this is when you started your YouTube and stuff? Um. How did you start before you came over? Before I started with reaction videos and then I started with the show in February. Stuff like Jordan Peterson's, I've seen a few of your reaction videos of, but very interesting topics like relationships. Like why you, why you let go down that route and be so focused on like relationships, women, men. But why was that the one that stood out to you the most? Um, well, it started with high value men. Um, that was Kevin Samuel's like talking point and he would list like the attributes of a high value man or whatever it was. And minus the LinkedIn visibility level. Like my dad fit that description. And I was just like, this is what you guys think. Like this is like, um, and then I kind of like dove more into the red pill space. So I don't know. I'm just nosy. Like I wanted to know what the boys were talking about because it started with like pickup and, um, I don't know, like dating women. So it was really interesting to like see it from like the men's point of view. Cause every man is different. Every woman is different. We all see the world differently. Yeah. For anybody that doesn't know the red pill, what is the red pill to you? Um, you're talking the matrix here, blue, red, you know, it's funny. I've never seen that movie. I've heard this term, but like it basically, it means like men are told one thing about women and like how to be. So they're like, be nicer, treat her like a queen. And women don't actually want that. Like we don't really like guys that put us on pedestals. I think sometimes we think we do, but we don't. Um, and so it's like men basically seeing the world for what it really is. What do you think a perfect relationship is? Um, perfect relation. I don't think there's such thing as perfect relationship, but I really liked seeing my parents growing up. Um, they, I don't know, my dad was just, like my mom always like followed my dad and I thought that was good. And I always thought that I just think like relationships are hard work. And so I think the best relationships are when you have two people that like are willing to work hard and make it work basically. Yeah. Love's a powerful thing. It's to love that person. We'll get into statistics and facts and with relationship breakups and percentages and all that in a bit. But love, like does it exist? It's took me like we always search for it. It doesn't matter how successful you are, what you are in life, like sitting here doing a podcast or at college doing volleyball, like we're always searching for something. And for me personally, we're always searching for that other half. Do you think that other half exists? No. No? Why? No, I just think life's about choices and trade-offs and all like, I think it's kind of a lie that society tells us that there's like an other half or you have a person. I think you just pick and life's about choices and trade-offs and no one's perfect and you kind of work with what you have and you try to find people with similar values to you and that's all you can really do. I watched Black Mirror. There was an episode and it was Relationships. People used to meet but it had like a little clock. Both used to press and it tilt them how long they would spend with each other. I've seen that episode. It was there 24 hours, a year, five years and it was, they kept going through that even though they knew some relationships were wrong until they eventually met their soul mate. And it was interesting because we kind of do this here, meet people whether it's one date, 10 dates, 100 dates, we consistently keep meeting people. Everybody would, even men, some men want to be successful so they can get the good looking girls. Not every man though, but everybody defines success differently. Everybody defines how much money is enough for everybody to see the world differently but I think man, the relationship stuff's very tricky, especially now. Everything's so easy to get energy from or contact with a girl on any app if you want to meet somebody. For you maybe. A lot of guys have trouble with that. Do you think so? One out of three men are either virgins or haven't had sex in the past year under 30. That's hard to believe especially with this day in age. Well yeah, because how tall are you? 5'10". 5'10", that puts you top like 25% of men. Average guys 5'8", maybe 30". Why does that put women off? Do you think short on men? I think it's because we have an instinct to be protected. So I think it's just natural the same way that men are repulsed by women with high body counts. Like the same thing. What do you think of porn? Of porn? I've never seen porn. Yeah, why? Why? Because I don't know. I feel like you should avoid things you can become addicted to. And it's kind of interesting. I feel like porn has saved a lot of marriages because the dudes don't cheat as much. I don't really have a strong opinion either way. I think it's like, you should just be careful of anything you can get addicted to, is my opinion. Because one bad addiction can ruin your life. And so that's why as many things as like I can just stay away from that I could be addicted to, I try. Yeah, because it darkens a magdala in the brain porn. Oh, does it? So people see the world differently. And I think it's over 8% upon is sexual abuse. Oh, wow. Yeah. So that's why I think a lot of people gravitate towards it because it's rewarding the brain. It's a reward system. So if they're people are masturbating, whatever. And it's fucking with their brain. And then we see people's objects. We don't see them in human beings. But it's fucked up. What about sexual energy exchange? Do you know about that? Like people having sex and the exchange that comes with that. Do you believe that can because I've watched some of your videos and that's where why I reached out with. I think is it five women sleeps with five men. It lowers her chances of having a happy marriage. Is that correct? How did you know this? Rollo Tomasi. Yeah. Do you know who that is? He did a whole episode on like the effects of body counting links all the studies in it. And that's one of the ones he talks about. So what about body counts? So for a girl who's been with five men, it lowers her chances from, is it 80% to? Yeah, she's a virgin. It's 80% after 10 years. If she's slept with five or more, it's down to, I thought it was 25. I used to say 25, it's 30%. I got that 5% off. But yeah, I mean, but for guys, it's funny. Like there's marital satisfaction goes up. Like it's the best when they're both virgins, but like a dude, if he's slept with like, I can't remember the exact number, but it's like roughly four. And then roughly 10. The dude that has had 10 partners is happier than the dude that had four. I mean, I think it's just common sense. Like a lot of stuff that I say, I feel like it's just common sense. Like men always have been able to sleep around. Women always haven't been able to sleep around. And just cause we have birth control now and we can do it. You can't undo biology the same way women are attracted to success, height, muscles. Like they don't tell us not to be attracted to those things, but they tell men they can't be repulsed by hoes, but you can't undo like biology. But back in the day then women were virgins were apparently, everything we read could be a bullshit, but they say that were virgins men used to get, people used to get married off 16, 17, have kids with that women. Do you think that's why relationships lasted longer? Because it was more of a bond. Yeah, well, I just think there was consequences. I just think there's shitty people and there's good people, but if you take away consequences, more people do the wrong thing. So when birth control was developed in the 1960s, that allowed women to sleep around. If more women get the opportunity to sleep around because they can't get pregnant, more of them are going to do it. And then you pay them to be single mothers. You put in no fault divorce. You take away all the consequence. And so even people that might be on the fence about leaving their husband, if they're getting paid to do it, bye. Why do you think so many people are cheating now? I mean, I think people have always cheated. I mean, I think 8,000 years ago, it was like 17 women to every one man. So men have always had multiple girls, always throughout all of history. It's crazy though, because you've got some marriages who can have four wives. You'll get some men who struggle to keep fucking one. What's right or what's wrong? There's so much information out there for it confuses people. But I believe it confuses people that even with the porn thing and people watching porn, people have relationships. And when I was growing up, it was cool to fuck as many birds as you want. It was cool. And that was me to get numbers on the bed post and have a number and beat this number and be the biggest shag of not realizing the extent it has in your mind because it never makes you happy. In my own opinion, it never made me happy. It made me happy for that couple. You half-nur looked pretty happy. Yeah, but again, what was it all? Do you know what I mean? Yeah, I get you. Do you know what I mean? It's kind of seedy as well because we're glorifying people like this, where it's cool and people always women. Maybe I was fucking, maybe I was the happiest man on the planet, but it just doesn't feel normal. In my own opinions, I've got older and a bit wiser and educated myself on certain things and it's to see the world a bit differently, but who fucking knows? What's your longest relationship? It was two years. And how was that for you? It was good. It was cool. Have you been brokenhearted yourself? Oh yeah, of course. That's painful in itself, eh? Yeah. And then, even though I'm researching, we can do all the research, do you think that helps with someone who'll come into your life now, or do you think it'll make you more paranoid? No, I mean, I think the more trauma you've gone through, or like heartbreak you've gone through, the worse it is in the future. I mean, I like to think I'd learn from it and get better in the future, but I just think in general, the less, my parents have only been with each other and only dated each other, and I just think it's better when they don't have exes. That's not good for any relationship. Do you think Maine can change? No. Well, yes. I think they usually get worse over time. I think people, it's funny, I asked my dad this because he didn't like one of my ex-boyfriends, and I asked him, I was like, do you think people get better? Do they change? And then he's like, yes, they get worse over time, typically. It's scary to think though that if you're getting worse over the years, like men cheat and they say, eh, what is it the same? Lappers can't change their spots, where as if they can't change, but people do change, people do make changes, I've made changes, but I still question the old me, were they drinking drugs? Because every day I still think, fuck it, getting drunk, getting coke, or just having a mad one. Yeah, but you still are who you are. You just don't do those things anymore. And I think most people go back to what they know. I think there's exceptions, and maybe you are, but I think like most people, I'll give you an example, most people get fatter over time. I'm running out of prime example. I think the metabolism shows down as well, but you just, you get to a stage as well, you can't be asked, you get comfortable. Yeah. But you see men and women running in marathons in their 70s and 80s, like... Some people get better. Yeah, some people get better, but what do you think that is? Do you think that society needs that as people got older, like you said, they decline, they stop looking after themselves as much, they start putting on weight, they stop exercising, they're eating good foods, but what do you think that is? Why do people just settle? I think there's like a lot of motivation to like look good for the opposite sex when you're dating and it's like early and I think a lot of people get comfortable. Yeah. I mean, I'm young, so maybe I'll learn things over time, but I just think like, and a lot of women, they get the kids and then they get fat. They get the kids and then they get fat. What they do is they'll, they'll convene. I just think it's convenient. I just think it's mad convenient when you got the ring or you got the kid or whatever you wanted. Now you get fat. Now you put on a hundred pounds. That's mad convenient. What do you think? A marriage? I think it's the best institution for families, but I think the government ruined it. If I was a dude, I would have a really hard time getting married. It just doesn't get fucked. Yeah. Basically. I would, it's basically like a bailout for a woman's bad decisions now, because it's like, no matter what I do as a woman, there's always a bailout. If I sleep around, become a single mother, the government bails me out. If I get married and decide, you know what, I'm not feeling it. I'm gonna leave my husband. I can take half and the kids and put you on child support. It's like, whatever women do, we're always bailed out. If I become homeless, what happens? There's a million women's shelters. There's not a million men's shelters. Yeah, that's why you see more men out on the street. Yeah. Do you think men have got it? Because everybody's wanting equal rights, everybody's wanting all that. For me, I like the old school morals, I like me being out providing and the wife, I've never been married, but in my mind, the wife at home with the kids cooking and coming home and it's family time and the dinners there. That's my method. But if you say that to a woman now, they think, nah, you're a feminist, you're this, you're that. It's just, but I believe that there's nothing wrong with a man providing for his family. I think it gives a man purpose. Yeah. So, yeah, I mean, it's sad, but, and a lot of times like girls don't want to come down in lifestyle in order to like stay home with the kids. So they won't, you know, go a month, like go a couple months without getting their nails done. Like, you know what I'm saying? Like they want to work because they want a certain lifestyle when like my dad's side, my dad was one of 13 and my, my grandpa was a firefighter and my grandma stayed home and it was like, they just had a very like low standard of living and they never really got to travel. They never really got to do a lot of stuff. What do you, how do you think, do you think men have got it hard in this generation? Yeah. I mean, yeah, the laws are completely against man and like, you can't say anything as a guy nowadays and yeah, I think men have it much harder than women. I think women live life on easy mode till they're like 45. How do you, how does that, see when you speak about stuff like this, how does a woman react to what you say? Well, they just take it in and really respect me and just they're super excited that I'm pointing this out. Because it's just life. I always say this, but there's no blueprint and manual how they thought we should be living it like. Right. Who says, even the shit that we're talking about, who says it's right or wrong? We see the world differently and it shows everybody's condition to be leaving something different. And I'm not even against, like my mom worked growing up. It wasn't like she was just at home with us. Like, I don't, I don't think there's one blueprint for relationships, but it's about choices and trade-offs. And the thing is we tell women they can have everything. Like, oh, you want a guy that will never cheat on you ever. Oh, but he can also be super hot and rich. Okay, good luck. Good luck. You might find one. And like my dad was always faithful to my mom, but like, as far as, you know, as far as I know, they'll always say in the comments, no, he wasn't. But it's like, you know, life's about choices and trade and they want to get him when they're like 32. It's like, okay, good luck. What age would you think would be the best time to get married? There's a high percentage of people who get married young or is it higher when they get older? You know, the numbers say, it's like, between like 25 and like 28, apparently, or is like the highest. But then it's also like women under the age of 25 that have never lived with a guy before they have really high rates. So I don't know, probably before, probably before 28, 29. And now it's more women are cheating who are in relationship. There is more studies now that say that like women cheat more. I mean, I just think like people are people and men cheat, women cheat. Like that's not really like, I don't think one's better than the other. I think more men probably would cheat if they could, but if one in three men, like men have to work to get sex. Women can just walk outside and say, is anyone down? And so I think if something's easier to do, more people will do it. And I think women are better at lying. That's true. My mom's very good at that. Why do you think people cheat? Because they're horny. Selfish needs? No, I just think they're horny. I think women, like it's typically, because they don't see their husband as the best they could have did. And so it's like, I feel like women, it's like their husband doesn't, or boyfriend, whatever it is, doesn't have something that they like want. And they don't really respect him. Because a girl, if she really respects a guy, she's never cheating. She's never like, she won't even go there because she's too afraid to lose him. But like at the end of the day, she's not afraid to lose him. I think men, I think if you put most guys in a bad situation with a girl that's just willing and there, I think even great men would say, yeah, because guys are just like that. But temptations are always for both sides. But again, if you truly love that person and for me, it doesn't matter who puts it on you. You turn them to fuck off because of no respect for that. If they know you've got a partner and someone tries to put it on you, for more opinion now as I've got all that, if you don't tell that person to fuck off, then for me, then you have no morals for yourself because you become an easy target. Like, I don't disagree with you. But again, I just think life's about choices and trade-offs and like, men I just think are biologically predisposition to sleep with a lot of women and it might happen. What about monogamy? Do you believe it exists? Yeah. I mean, I prefer it. Like, I think that's the best, you know, for families. But I just can't undo what is. And throughout all of history, it's been a lot of women. It's like 40% of men have reproduced historically where 80% of women have. So it's always been two women to one guy. Two men? Yeah. So it's like, I prefer it. I think it's better for families. I grew up in a monogamous household. But it's like modern women or side chicks because if you look at dating app data, they only swipe right between like five and 20% of the time where men swipe right 60% of the time. And so it's a very small percentage of men that are sleeping with all the women. Do you think that's because men don't have enough respect for themselves or do you think it's just in their DNA to be like you say, horny to then just try and get that. I think it starts with the women. I mean, women control access to sex, men control access to relationships. I think it's like a lot of women batting out of their leagues. So they're like four is five, six is sleeping with the eights, nines and tens. And then they think they're on that level, but they're not. Yeah, cause I've seen one of her videos and it was talking about a man and a woman together in a relationship. But that man finds out she's been with three of his friends. Men struggle with that. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I mean, you know what's funny? I ask guys this all the time. I'll be like, okay, you get, I'll ask you as a guy. You get two choices of girls. One girl has slept with, let's give her. Let's give her four. You're one of them. The other three guys, you know personally, okay? You know them, they're in the town. You kind of see them walking around or 15, but you will never meet them, never run into them in your life. You don't know who they are, who you pick in. 15 all day long. Yeah, that's the, that's always the answer I get from guys. Yeah, but you've got to be honest as well. Logically, why is men wired up that way? Every boy, every friend I know that there's insecurities everywhere in their mind. It's not insecurities. I mean, you can undo biology. You guys had to ensure paternity historically. So if you, if you had a kid, are you the father or not? And now they're saying at DNA testing places, they took polls from all of them and one out of three of the samples that were sent, it said they were not the father. Yeah. And that's the thing. And you know what's crazy? That's not illegal. I think a girl should be sent to jail. If you know he might not be the father, like, come on, you have a type, you know, damn, like, come on, come on. If you know he may not be the father and he spends 10 years raising a kid that's not his, you should go to jail. I stand by that. That is worse. I think that is like the worst thing you can do to a guy. Yeah, if you thought it was yours. Yeah. And it's legal. What do you think the main cause of breakups are now? Cheating? Is that the main one? Are the people just fucking lighter themselves? I think women leave. Women leave 70 to 80% of the time, 90% of their college educate. I think the women, I like genuinely think it's women's fault. Why though? Why? Because like, it all, it all started to switch when we, we changed because birth control was developed in the 60s. And if you look at birth, like the rate of women taking birth control and the rate of the divorces, it's, it's, it's mad. It's like the same. It's literally like the divorce rate went up right when women started taking birth control. So it started with the, the hose. Do you think if people had more respect for themselves, relationships would flourish, families would flourish? Well, it depends what position you're in. Like, I think there's like two types of girls. So like the one issue that I see in churches a lot, where they're like promoting, not sleeping around or whatever, is that like they're telling girls that used to be hosed to like wait till they're married. Good luck. Are you going to wait till you're married with a girl that has, you know, slept with 20 people? No. Who's going to do that? Would you wait till you're married for a virgin? Maybe. If you know what was going to be forever lasting, but again, how can you judge that? Like if you come into a relationship with somebody and you were told at the start of schooling, listen, everybody stays a virgin because if you find your partner, your life's going to be amazing. But how do you, how do we know that we can sleep with that person? Because every time I, if I felt like a girl back in the day, I lose respect for them instantly. That was moan, insecurity. That was moan. It wasn't insecurity. Do you not think so? No, no. And looking for excuses and looking for flaws to then end it all the time? No. I mean, I think you're biologically predisposition to not like easy girls. It just is what it is. Yeah. And so what I see is like in the church, they'll try to like rebrand. And I couldn't figure, I couldn't figure out why, because I remember listening to Chastity speakers when I was younger, I grew up in Catholic school and I couldn't, I couldn't figure out why I thought they were full of shit, but I just did. And like what girls will do is like, they're running out of time and so they'll try to like rebrand themselves as a good woman. Like I just had a girl on my podcast yesterday. Tell me that she cheated on her husband with a child with a dude that, or with her sugar daddy, while her husband was babysitting her kids. And now she's in the church and but she's a good woman now. I'm like, okay. Do you think a lot of people act different when they're still the same person without really doing internal work to become better? I feel like you always, okay, I'll give you an example. So when I was in college, I used to drink like, I mean, I don't know I don't know how colleges are here, but in the U.S. like it's very much like you play flip cup, beer pong, you know. And after college I was like, you know what, I'm gonna stop drinking. I just, I just like stopped, right? And except my thought was I'm young now it'll probably be easier to quit now. I don't want this to become a problem. I'll just, I'll just stop. There's always going to be a part of me that wants to drink. That still is part of who I am. And once you do something like, like I feel like that part of your brain, it's always there. And you can choose not to do it, but there's always like a higher risk you're going to do it again. It's the same thing with like girls being hose. They can stop doing it, but there's always a part of them that's going to be hoe. It's crazy to think that. Same thing. Like you said you used to do drugs or whatever. Drugs gambling. Aren't there days where you're like, you're like, fuck it. I'm just going to leave this and go back to doing it. Every fucking day. Yeah, yeah. And so if a girl dates you, like she knows that's a risk. That is who you are. But you just make different decisions now. Everything's choices. I just know how good my life is. Not being that person. But every day still, it's easy to self-medicate because the stresses of pressure try to be successful or try to be a better person. It's a stress in itself. Making changes is a stress. It's easy not to give a fuck. It's easy to take lines of coke and fucking alcohol and shag. I just know how much it was destroying me. Yeah. Because I knew it wasn't working. I thought it was cool. It was cool for a while. Until then, one sleepless night comes into three, four, and then depression and then overthinking. And the thing about life is nobody saves you. You need to fucking dig deep yourself. If you're a man. Yeah. They'll save you if you're a woman. Yeah. Shout out to the simps. How is it flat for you when your tiktok started getting bigger? How did, what was the first guy doing that blew for you? Oh gosh. You know what's funny? I was on tiktok for something completely different. Like I did house videos, family videos. I did breakup quizzes. I had a whole content before this. I would say the first tiktok video that went viral was a clip of me telling this feminist, or like red pill video that went viral was a clip of me telling this feminist that like we need men or she was like, no, we don't need men. And I was like, who do you call to get your car fixed? Who do you call when you're, like your toilet breaks down? Like, and that's the thing. Women are so entitled nowadays that we aren't even thankful for the world that men built for us. Like all throughout history, you think you could just walk home alone at night and be safe? Like it's a privilege to be able to be a single woman. Like that is a privilege because all throughout history like you couldn't do that. Why do you think there's so much divide now and people, like for me there's two genders. For me there's male and female. There's two genders and if you want to be whoever you want to be. And so be it. But for me there's male, female. But that's it. There's science. It's genes. It's DNA. It's like, there's, you can't go against that. Like it's facts. But why do you think so many people are now becoming confused? So many different people are now arguing that I want to be fucking known as a tree or whatever. Like transgender. Like if you were. Oh, like the trans thing? Yeah. Be who you want to be. But don't force agendas on other people. Why is people so. Money. Like when you go down a certain route and if you don't believe what they believe, then you're fucking hated upon. Like. I don't know. I think it's just money. You think so? Yeah. I think there's money in being a victim. There's money that can make off a trans people. I just think, yeah, money. What do you think of that? Because now with schools you've got not transgender, you've got. Jail. Jail time. The kid about that transgender shit. Jail time. I swear to God, you got to get these weirdos out of the schools. Because it's not transgenders. The dress up is women. The fuck is that? It's the story time they call it, but the dressed men dressed as women and they'll get into school and they'll read to the kids and. Nah. Are the drag queens? Drag queens. Yeah, not in jail time. Jail time. Why would you? Like, why would you confuse a child? Like, that's what I don't get. Because I just think kids should be protected. And I think the schools are like brainwashing the kids and they want them. Like, I remember, I found out my little sister, my little sister is like sixth grade. And this is at a Catholic school. So that's a little bit more conservative than a regular school. But even there, they were showing my sister CNN. Why are you showing my sister CNN in sixth grade? A sixth grader, what does she need to know about it? It's like CNN kids. I'm like, the kids need to watch the news now. Why on earth do they need to know what's going on in the world at 10, 12 or whatever you're in sixth grade? I don't know. But. The schools will condition you from a young age to whatever they want to condition you to believe and see. World War I, II, the news, drag queens to her in story times. Like, whatever agenda is getting pushed at that time, then they'll flood the kids' minds because the first six years or seven years is the most active in the brain for kids. This is when it'll adapt to their brain where they'll start seeing the world whatever they've been taught even Disney films. You go back to Disney films, everybody's watched Disney films. That's that's how delusional women started Disney. Prince Chan men and fucking men and Cheyne Anne. You're going to be a you're going to be a broke girl in the in the where with a horrible mother it like and then a prince is just going to find you. Okay. But people believe that an average chick. People believe that because every Disney film's either been raised with a step-mom, step-dad, broken home, they get raised from Cinderella one to ten, like a six. A six. You tell me a six. Got Prince charming. Fine. Stop it. Stop it. Give me a nine. Why do we believe all that shit? I mean, that's a good story. That's a that's the thing about movies. All the best like films once you see this, you can't unsee it. All the biggest films like for women, it's like average, slightly above average eight, nine or 10, like like 50 Shades of Grey. What's that girl one to ten? Six. Christian Grey, multi-millionaire, nine, ten. Why do you think women are so fascinated with like 50 Shades of Grey and stuff? Um, it's like the I think Rolo had a stream on this. I can't remember, but I just think it's like the like girls want a guy. That's like has like the dark side. That's like, you know, the that stuff. But then also is like the guy you can take home to mom and dad. It's not real. It's like what you're going to have a guy that's really great in bed doing all this, you know, stuff. And also you can bring him home to mom and dad. And he's like the cookie cutter boyfriend. Okay. Fantasies. It's like one or the other. What do you want? Like it's not real. What do you think of Jordan Peterson? Oh, I love him. I just saw him speak a couple days ago. Where was it? He was at some theater in the OVO theater. Is that what it's called? Yeah. I think I don't know. But he convinced me to stop drinking. That was like part of the reason I stopped was because he had this video about thinking like long term about it. And I was like, I've only had this habit like three years, four years. Maybe I was like, I could probably quit now. It'll probably get worse if I keep doing it. So I'll just stop. It's the most glorified drug on the planet. No, weird. Yeah. We accept it. It's kind of weird that alcohol is the one that we accept out of all of them. You've got to think of the mistakes it's made from it. There's a poison, but it comes from the Arabic word alcohol, which means go, which means body and spirit. So they say when you, that's why they call it spirits, vodka, because when you're drinking it, you're so apparently, you're so leaves of body and the entities from the spirit then take over. Blackout. We'll sleep with people that wouldn't normally do it. Everybody makes mistakes. Majority men are in prison. We're here intoxicated by drinking her drugs, but it's just the mistakes that's made from, because you're not in a conscious frame. Your judgments, your judgments, there's nowhere to be seen that. I don't know how many times I woke up next to girls and I thought, fucking hell. Wait, was it a well? Was it a well? Fucking good few times. You're like, ah, shit. Thank you. Now you know what that will thinks? It's on your level and you're like, oh no. Oh no, sis. No disrespect to anybody, but standards drop. Yeah. You don't give a fuck what you're doing with life and like, it's not just relationships with girls, it's also when the drugs kick in. How low do you go? Three, two? As low as I could to get anybody involved. Do you know what I mean? Ah. And the bullshit that comes from your mouth, you actually believe the shit that you talk. I was at a, I still go to events and stuff and everybody's fine for another two hours. Fucking change, high pitched, grabbing, just talking more shit and everybody thinks, every man thinks they're a gangster, every man thinks he's 50 shades of gray. But when you break it all down, if you actually sit with men in a room and just have a discussion, you tend to see that I believe men are becoming more sensitive than women. Yeah. Yeah. Well, it's because women told them that's what we wanted. You know, it's funny, the only time women advocate for men is when it benefits us. When they're telling the like 5% of guys to be more emotionally available, they don't really want that. They want like the 5%, 10% of guys that don't give a shit about them to be emotionally available. That's what they're saying. But do most men need to be more emotionally available? No, come on. Why do you think suicide rates higher with men? Because men have harder lives. Because they, I don't know, because men are told from an early age they ain't shit and if they can't perform, the world tells them quick. So like there are men that don't even know what it's like to be, like the amount of offers that I've gotten in the DM, very weird, very stop sending me them guys. But it's like sad to me. Like I'll hear stories like, I'm addicted to hookers because I've never had a girl interested in me in my life, ever. I've never had a girl even like express interest in like talking to me. Like they don't even, and so, yeah, like and I think men, like imagine your life if you'd never had a woman ever interested in talking to you, would you really feel a lot of purpose? Then a woman's not want to talk to if you're fucking, fucking hookers every night of the week as well, do you know what I mean? Like any man can, like I believe any man can change, any woman can change. Obviously when we make changes, the old habits and patterns are still there. Like I still think about drinking drugs and casinos. Because there's always signs, but it's not acting on, it's not having the same impulse. You can make changes like for men who girls don't want to look at, then fucking make changes, get yourself to the gym, look after yourself a little bit more and start believing a little bit more and whether the law of attraction you can visualize the perfect woman coming into your life, this and that, but if you're a low vibrational being, if you're fucking hookers, if you're drinking, if you're taking drugs, if you're doing anything to an excess, you're not in a good place. I believe everything's frequencies and energies and, but again, you can fuck with your energy if you're doing bad things, like even social media, it's so fucking diluted, I crave it sometimes. Some likes, some comments, a video that pops and then you feel good for 10 minutes and then it's straight on trying to get the next one. But it's confusing that there's just so much shit out there, that everybody's heads are a hundred mile an hour. I believe anyway. But for men, somebody said that the suicide rate in women's rising as well though. The what? The suicide for women was rising? Well, yeah, it's like, I mean, I think it's over, women that make between 50 and 75,000 a year and make over, or like make over 50,000 and are over like 45 are the most depressed and lonely. Better single, sorry. Do you think that's what it comes down to is well-loneliness? Because we go back to tribalism days and feeling part of a family or having someone to talk to, like there's just, people just seem, to walk along London. Nobody looks fucking happy. Oh yeah, I had this. When I first got to London, I had this TikTok series. This was before I was big on red pill stuff. But I would be like, I'm going to say hi to like 10 people on the street in London and like, see how many say hi back. Because I just know, I'm from Chicago and the Midwest is a little bit more friendly. But here it's funny. I love London, but I couldn't tell you one reason why. I really couldn't. I think I just built the show here, so I like it, but I couldn't know that one. It's crazy in it, letting Scotland people are, it's not like people aren't friendly. I just think people are so caught on the rat race here. Yeah. Things are so expensive. They need to work extra hours. They're drinking more coffee. Every night, every office workers are in the pub. Every night just drinking, drinking, drinking, like you're escaping from reality. I don't know what the fuck life is. Whether it should be working 95 or whether you should be in a pub. Like maybe I've got it wrong. Maybe I've made changes and I've done it wrong. I just know I feel better. I just know I smile more. I still know I'm full of shit. I still know I can manipulate people. I still know I can talk shit to them. What's Stonewall? It's just people working a nine to five and people drinking. Yeah. I don't, I just, do you ever feel confused? What do you mean? About what? Just life. No. Nah. How was your day routine? It's pretty good now. Child. Oh my gosh. It was so stressful when I was building the show, but I've like hired people now. So I get to, every day I just wake up, get ready for my show. So let's talk about your show. How many times do you do it? A week, three, four times? Four. That's a fucking lot. Yeah, it is a lot. But that's all I do now. So I get to do it as a full, I'm so grateful honestly. I think most people don't actually get to do something they love for money. And I, I think it's really cool. I get to do that. And how, there's some times you've got seven people, eight people, nine people on your show. But how do you manage that? So I did it all myself at first. That was the hardest part. If you ever want to do a live show, that will be the biggest problem you will have is getting guests that, oh my God, that was hell. I'm really good at it. I will say, flex. But, but I've always been that person that just knows people. But yeah, so now I have a recruiter do it for me. And we're switching to an agency soon. But when I started, I just recruited through Instagram. So I would just like look at who people followed. And then like I started with my school and then I'd like live like a dude, I would always go for the dudes that like, I knew a lot of women liked and I would look at who they followed because I was like, they have to follow pretty girls. And then boom, just message a million people. And then eventually you get between four to eight, I would say is what I shoot for. What's your bag of, what's your bag of show? Like in terms of views. Yes. I think one got like 130,000 views. And what was that topic? Broken women equals a broken society. And it was, I was arguing with some girls about body count. And they were saying, and they also believed in like the gender stuff or there was some. What do you think? What's the average body count for people? 25? Just now, do you know? Oh gosh, I don't know. I don't know. It depends. I mean, it depends where you go, I think. I think the cities would probably be higher. The countries would probably be lower. Less men to choose from, less women to choose from. If you're outside cities, just less people to be with. Yeah. And it's where there's some communities like Mormons or like, Westboro Baptist. I watched that documentary about Mormons and they fucked up. There was a guy that kept that he believed he was a god. Yeah. And then we had like fucking 60, 70 wives. I don't know. I just know like, I don't know. I don't know what the average body count is. I ask people this on the streets all the time and I hear something from like 10 to 40 in London. Some women? Yeah. I ask people, but I ask them 31 year olds because that's the average age of first marriage in London or in the UK. So on the streets, and I think that's the most like honest answers you'll get when you go on the streets and like how many? Do you know what I'm saying? Like I think that's more honest than a survey because like I think women lie and so like I think the most honest you'll get. Yeah. So I would say between 25. It's a lot though, isn't it? For like understanding it's okay for many fucking women, can't, isn't it? Both are just as bad as each other. You should see some mad DMs from women what they say like it's fucking cringey. Like back in the day if I was drinking drugs they'd be the best thing ever. Like a man like if I fuck a bird I lose respect. Like I believe every man does because if it's an easy chase to lose respect because how can you respect someone who's gave it up so easy to then not want to do that with somebody else. So it just becomes because I know people who've been married with each other the first date or the first night but it's the men's the trust to try and trust it and if your respect goes then how can you want to be with that person? Yeah, I don't know. I mean, my dad knocked my mom up pretty quick. So so I don't, I don't know when they slept together but I don't think it took that long. To believe it like if a man and a woman loved each other that they would be faithful to each other if they truly loved each other because people who cheat if not I think men and women I think if a woman loves a man she won't cheat. I think a man can love a woman and still cheat. But yeah, more women more people who cheat are women now. Yeah, and I think it's because they don't really want to be with their husbands. They don't respect them and that's why you see so many whales after they get the ring or the kids. So you see women like, okay let me think. Like basically you have the fours, five, sixes, sevens sleeping with the top percentage of guys they sleep with them. That's who they really want to be with. Then they say, okay, I need kids. I need a ring. I need to get this done so then they lower their standards and they think they're better than the guy they're with and they don't really respect him. Fucking crazy, but I'm not. Yeah, and before that didn't happen because like people dated more intentionally even with the one night stands and like people getting pregnant when they were teenagers like they just get married before. How many of our grandparents got married through shotgun weddings? Like, you know what I'm saying? They just were like, oh shit. Okay, let's get married and figure it out. My mom and dad, they got married 17, 18, 36 years. Yeah. Yeah. And so even like, I don't know, people were just different then. It's a different world. I just think birth control changed the game. It changed the world and I think there's no going back now. Birth control so bad for women as well. Yeah, it's not good, but yeah, there's like, I just think like a lot of times they'll say let's go back to traditionalism and I agree, but like the world is what it is now. And you can't, unless you take away birth control, like... Yeah. Yeah. You're out in the world trying to be successful, trying to build a channel and do things like that. See that man come into your life and wanted you to stay at home with your mom, with the kids and he was out doing his thing to provide with you, accept that life. And I don't, I don't got to work. I'll bet. I would fucking take that life if a woman wanted to but why do you think people are so against the old traditions now? I don't know. I mean, I do love what I do. So I'd hope I could still like do it as like a hobby or whatever. Yeah. It's stressful sometimes. What's that? Because we obviously the fiddles that get took down and decked out we are talking about women being whales and this and that and... I only called her a whale. I called this girl a whale but she called me a slag first and I didn't know what that meant but I knew I was being insulted. Insulted, yeah. But I do, I do call women whales. Yeah. Do you think it's hard of a woman who's heavier to find love or to find a relationship, marriage? Do you want, do you want to fuck a 300 pound girl? Unless I was for like drinking drugs if I'm honest. What about a girl that's 120? Yeah. Yeah, I see. Yeah. That's like common sense. Why do you get shit for that? I don't know. The video that I got the most shit for was I said, okay, I said if you get fat, like I just basically sold guys if your girl gets fat you can leave. You can leave. That's not fair. If you bought her at 120, you know, some of y'all like the big chicks, that's fine. I'm sure you know, you know a couple chubby chasers, you know, here in the, if they bought her at 220, fine. Fine, that's what you signed up for. But if you bought you at 220 and now you're 250 I mean, I'm saying in pounds. I don't know what that is. And what do you guys have? KGs or whatever. KGs, thorn, bones. But yeah, you can leave. You don't got to put up with that. You should. And that's, that was the most, and I think they're mad because I'm like telling the guys they're allowed to have standards and I don't think that's that crazy. You can't gain 100 pounds in this relationship. Call me, call me crazy. You say the same for the low. If it was true, it was another feat. If the man put on weight and they were. Yeah, I said the same thing, but they were just mad at me for the women. I would think I think more women would still stay if the dude got fat because like again, it's not equal. Like men are looking for puberty, beauty, youth where women are looking for protection, protection, provisioning more. So I think the equivalent would more be if a dude refused to work. Do you think women fall in love easier? Or do you think men are more guarded? I think if women fall in love easier, they wouldn't leave. They leave 70 to 80% of the time. So I think I think that women will fall really hard for one guy. But like if you can't measure up to him, like it's really hard for her to like because in her head she's going to be settling for you. How long do you think it takes to go over a relationship? I think a girl will literally never get over it if that guy was the best she could do. There's people in nursing homes that talk, like, okay, Titanic. Why is this old lady talking about this boy she met when she was 17 when she had a whole family with this other dude? Why did so many people resonate with that? Why did so many women resonate with the song The One That Got Away, Katy Perry? It's like he's the one that got away, the one that wrecked my heart. I should have never let him go. I should have begged him to stay. He was the one that got away. He was the one that got away with that. If you listen, if you listen carefully to the songs that really go viral for women that are like women's music, it's the same story. I had to glorify the Titanic. Obviously, a lot of shit's friction in it, but she was fucking shagging a guy while she had a man. The notebook. Why not calling her out as a fucking cow? The notebook. She had the man with her dreams. Married to the poor bastard and then she's a A-Sock and Dick. He didn't measure up to the dude from the past. And so, even Rolo Tomasi, he'll talk about how it's not really, it's about the woman's body count, but it's not necessarily about the woman's body count. If a girl slept with five dudes and one was Jason Mimoa, one was Michael B. Jordan, do you know who those guys are? And then you come in and you could say, is she really going to want you or whoever it is, right? Girls slept with 15 dudes, 20 dudes, but all of them are at a lower level. It's easier to like, it's more likely, how do I put this? With the more guys, it's more likely that one of them is going to be that guy you can't live up to. And that's why body count matters, but it's not necessarily about the number, it's about the quality. Does that make sense? And so that's the thing, if a girl shoots too high out of her league, it's like, she can't ever get over it. And he's the one that got away. Why do you think some men are good? A lot of men are good, a lot of women are good, but why do you think when women find a good man, they do cheat or they do, it's too boring for them, why the fuck do they do that? Because there's a difference between arousal and attraction. And so attraction's like, oh, he's a good dude, he's there for me, I can bring him around my family. Arousal's like, he makes you horny. And like, I just think some guys are attractive, but they're not arousing. For a woman, what do you think for attraction as an animal? Attraction or arousal, attraction? Attraction. Hardworking, that's like more of like the provider. So like hardworking protects, provides. You can bring him around your family type stuff. Good guy, won't cheat. But like, even cheating is arousing to women. And so is like, rough sex. It's like, that's why I had only, a male only fans model like come on my show. And that was his number one request was like, great. Yeah. So it's like, you're not going to get that from the nice guy and you kind of have to pick, like, which do you want? Because like, but then we tell them, you can get both and like a Christian gray type shit. What do you think of the only fans? Men, a lot of gay for a parent, men who are straight, but willing to suck dicker. Fuck guys for money. But for me, that's dirty for me. You're either gay or not. I had a guy on, it was a bare-knuckle fighter. Good guy, man. Really good guy. He was, he does gay porn. Says he's straight. You've done it for the money and he's a bare-knuckle world champion. But for me, there's got to be some sort of. I could never. I could, oh no. People went mental in the comments for that. Like, he was fucking men and all that. If you're a dude and you've ever done any bi shit, don't ever tell a girl that because we can't look at you the same. Like, I equate that to a girl with a high body count. I would tell the same thing. I'm like, girl, you keep that to yourself. Like, it's literally the same for women. Like, we know you made out with a dude in a club one time, five years ago. Oh no, I'm sorry. It's cooked. Why do you think only fans are such a turn-on for people that people are making fortunes from a majority of people? Porn's free. But yeah, they're willing to spend $9.99 on one fuck. The women were fucking two kids down the road to getting their fanny out. Oh, it's because, like, one out of three men that are virgins last year, they're the ones buying. And they get, like, the way only fans work is you get, like, a more personalized, like, experience. So you might say, you know, you get to do be a part of, like, there's, like, levels. I think. I've never seen one, but this is just what I've heard. It's basically like, at this level, you get to message with me. And, you know, it's probably not even the girl messaging. And then they might say, like, at this level, you get, it's like you're paying to be intimate with a woman and you're paying for, like, more personalized messaging or media or whatever it is. At this rate, you can get dinner with me. And so, like, the guys feel like they're, like, they get that interest from a woman that they've never gotten. Do you think men are more easily manipulated from women because of a bit of fucking, like, men are so easily used that do you think that comes from the porn as well though, but for the last 20, 30 years, like, all these free sites where people can watch all this shit and then somebody, you're a, you're an engineer and you go to the women's house and you chap the dawn, she invites you in and she's, porn has meant the fuck for people's mind. Men are so easily, like, men are all perverts when you fucking break it all down, we're all fucking. I think men are always, like, but there's got to be some sort of self-control because they're talking about holding back your sperm and it makes you stronger, raises your testosterone, raises your energy levels with that. There's so many sacred things from it as well because as men, it's giving life, women give life, like, I believe women went real to the world to a certain degree, they give birth, it's them that keeps the population going, men do their part, but it's a woman who are fully in control from that side, but for men, there's so many different things you can look into from masturbating and how it darkens your energy and makes you depressed and rewards the brain and if people are sad, you think they're going to fucking wank off to a freak, but not realising the extent it eventually has in their brain, like, do you think we're just less educated on all this different shit that we've actually been taught because I question everything from a kid and I just think we could be more educated on sexual energy exchange, understanding the brain and how we're thinking, feeling, can we rewire 30, 40 years of fucking misery and lies if you're in this planet 40 years that, do you think we're just not educated enough on certain things and that's why suicide's high, relationships are breaking down, more people are cheating, more people are unhappy, but do you think it's just because we're not educated enough? No, I think to me, it all goes back to birth control, like that's the number one But do you think people were happier before that then? Probably, I think they were probably more fulfilled, I don't know if, like, happier. Do you think you just accepted that life because back then, all you had was a house phone. You ever had Instagram? If I fell out with a girl, I could go on Instagram, get a girl, go on Tinder, go on Facebook. You know what, I would say the top 20% of guys are probably pretty happy. Like, I would say, like, top 15, what they're plus. I think Drake, I feel like he's doing okay. What has happened to you? I think that's a good question. What's happiness? I mean, I think it's a feeling, I think life's more about duty than I don't even know how to define happiness. I would just say, like, how you feel in a given day. So joy, maybe. 24-7 thing, you've got to work at it to get little bursts. Like doing podcasts, I love that, interacting, asking fucking mad questions, talking shit, like. Yeah, yeah. Because it's interesting because people who watch and everybody's on their own little journey and for people to take the time and watch your stuff or watch my stuff, like, it's a privilege and it makes you feel good. Little short bursts. But for me, it's never enough. I always want more. I always want to keep doing what I keep raising the bar and you'll have little... It's fun. Yeah, and it is fun, but again, you can forget yourself and that's good. That's just when I... I forget myself doing these. It's like, you become free because nothing else fucking matters. You do this. It's once the cameras are off and the lights are out, you then back into this with Matrix or Game, whatever it is. Even the Matrix, people say it's a documentary, but the men who produced the Matrix are both now transgender. Huh? Wow. I've never seen the movie. Yeah, I think it was three or four minutes. I've heard a lot about it in the radio, but I've never actually seen the movie. What do you think life is? Life is? I feel like life is just about people and having good relationships with people and doing things that you like. I feel like life is just like a game. It's a lot of games. It's kind of a weird answer, but I feel like all the things that have made me really happy was playing a game and getting better at a game, whether it's volleyball or podcasting or even just traveling the world with my family is kind of a game. What can we go see next? What's always made me feel the happiest is the relationships I've made along the way, like playing these different games, whether it's doing stuff as a family or building something cool. Do you trust men? Do I trust? I would say overall, yeah, I mean, like, and I put it not all men, right? I mean, being in the position I'm in, sometimes I get some weird messages and it freaks me out a little bit, but the thing about being a woman is like, if you, if I was to walk alone, right, and get attacked, I trust that like, if there was a group of men by me, someone would help me. And I think that's like a privilege of being a woman because if you get beat up, you're kind of shit out of luck. I think it's human beings in general, but we are good people. If there's catastrophes, if there's bad shit happens, like our natural instinct is to help. We are good, we're just fucking confused that we just don't know what the fuck is going on. We think we've got it together. I thought having a podcast or making documentaries or making a bit of money, it would be a happier man, but it doesn't really change fuck all. You've still got to keep working on whatever it is you're working on. Yeah, I mean, I think the joy is in the journey. I've heard so many speeches where the guy was like, talking about the saddest moment of his life. It's when he accomplished his goal because he's like, what now? Like it's fun when you're just chasing something, whether it's, you know, raising good kids or whether it's finding a wife or whatever, whatever your thing is. You've got to have purpose. Yeah. A purpose to get up and go and get you out in bed in the morning. She ain't got purpose. She ain't got shit. Yeah. She's just going to feel sad, wuff-less. And that's why I think a lot of people are struggling in life because they don't have any purpose and don't have any get up and go. I've got so many things to be thankful for and grateful for, but I fucking ain't because every morning, you've got to kind of force yourself and more personal experiences to get up and go, make things happen. Instead of talking because nobody fucking cares. I mean, you break it all down. No, it does. That's so true because everyone will talk about what they're going to do, but like how many people go do it? Because I watched one of your videos is that when you were 15, you had your coach, was it Marcus? Kind of, not Grimjie, but he was kind of planting seeds in your head and then at 18, put it on you like, how does that affect you with men going older? Because we've all got an agenda. Majority of men just want to fuck girls and move on. That's the bottom line, but we've got to be honest like, how does that then affect you with trying to find a relationship? Are you trying to find a relationship? I love... Yeah, yeah I am. So does old trauma from the past affect that now? I guess it used to maybe, but I just like feel like in life, there's always risk. And like I can either be scared something bad's going to happen or I can just go forward assuming good and tight and hope for the best and it might not work out, but like everything in life is risk. That situation, I think it makes me look a little like closer at coaches. I would say more than like, you know what I'm saying? More than like relationships. Like I just look a little like, I think I'd be a little more cautious when I have kids and stuff with which men or women honestly, cause there's a lot of creepy women too, that like which adults I allow around my kids I would say. Because it wasn't like I was, I don't know, I just feel like that was a different like context, you know. But again, I had a undercover pedophile on my podcast. He was a police officer who went undercover for 20 years to catch pedophiles. He pretended to be one to be a friend of him. Oh, that's so interesting. I'll send you the link. That powerful. But what he says is, it's not just a case of them manipulating the kids first. What they do is go on dating websites, go on social media, manipulate the parents, be in the relationship for a year, two year and then to get to the kids. Shut up. Shut up. So it's not just a case of what? Going like that man there, that people, it's not, like obviously he was with people who needed the fix then. Maybe go to the park or they used to smell kids hair or some tried to grab the kids. But then he, there was other people who would go a year, two years, three years, become that kid's parent, manipulate everyone and then, and then I think so. Yo, that is, that's why that's like why I always say that like single mothers that break up homes because they're not happy or selfish because you're putting like, I don't know what the status off the top of my head, but you're much more likely to be abused or sexually abused by someone's partner, like by like the new partner. So like, I don't know, I don't think that is so creepy. But I don't know, at the same time though, a lot of times they'll try to like victimize like, even me in that situation, it was pretty easy for me to to say no and be like, ah, I'm good on that. Like I feel like a lot of times the girls try to take accountability when they do say yes to that type of thing because that happens all the time where like some dude, like a boss or whatever like hits on a girl and they'll go along with it and they'll be like, oh, I didn't know what I was doing. I'm like, hmm, I think, hmm, I don't know. You look at Harvey Weinstein. A lot of girls, men, casting couch, sucking dick, sleeping with these people to get to higher role, whatever it is. And then they're going to try to be a victim later. I'm like, hmm. It's questionable. Like, I understand there's a creepy bastard. I listened to some videos who's trying to get the girl in the room, which is 100% creepy. But a lot of these people then play the victim. They know exactly what we're doing to get that extra status or that extra role. And then, you know what else girls play the victim for? Frickin' abusive relationships. The majority of abusive relationships, they're abusing each other. So she's hitting too. And she's saying, oh, I was abused. For you, many girls have had on my podcast that say, I was abused for years or this happened. And so I asked them, first of all, did you press charges? If no, why not? Because I'm like, if someone's hitting me, I'm pressed in charge of it. Like, no, naiski, I'm pressed in charges. I will sue you for everything you have. Do not touch me. Like, I swear to God. And then the second thing they'll do is they'll casually conveniently leave out that they're hitting him too. Like, I'm sorry, equal rights, equal lefts, baby. Like, if you swing and he swings back, you were not abused. He's just, he's defending himself. And so, like, I don't know, girls like want to be the victims. I swear to God. But again, I was in, I was in McDonald's. Seven, eight years ago, two girls attacked me. But then I was the one who was charged by pulling hair, kicking, punching. But obviously I had the CCTV, which I released. Yeah. Because then the fucking newspaper was printed that I was a woman beat out of a fog. This and that. Because two women, they'd gave a statement against me. Mm-hmm. And I had the CCTV footage which I'd released and then turned to my Instagram, my YouTube channel. But if I never had that footage, that shit stays with me. Yeah. And then I'm, I'm not fucked, but. And women are vindictive. Yeah. They're vindictive. Yeah. They started at two drunken women talking shit. We were waiting for our food and then started talking shit, started throwing abuse. Mm-hmm. And then attacked me, not once, but twice, three times. And still getting that chasing me. Mm-hmm. And then if I never had that footage and I would have been fucked. Yeah. You know what I mean? Because that sticks. People Google your name and it's there. Mm-hmm. And like I say, women can, like, what's both ways? Men are bastards sometimes, but they always favor the women. So as a man, it's hard, like even with kids and I know plenty of fathers who can't see their kids. Mm-hmm. Plenty of girls who've made accusations against men. Mm-hmm. That shit sticks with these people for life. There is a college student in the U.S. that, um, this girl said that, that he raped her. And, um, then the footage also came out and she was literally dragging him home from the, like, like she pulled him in the kiss. You know what I'm saying? Like she was instigating the whole thing and he still got kicked out of college. He's still, even because she said, oh, it changed when you got into the room. Come on. Come, stop it. Stop. There was an NFL player or I think he was at college football level. Mm-hmm. Um, the girl charged him with rape. Mm-hmm. He went to prison five years, but while he was in prison, she admitted that it wasn't three years later, but that time he'd lost his scholarship, but that time he'd put on weight. I think a team, I don't know if it was the Jets, New York Jets, trying to give him a start again, but he just had lost it and, what's this whole fucking career? It was a Netflix documentary about a man powerful, but words are powerful. And the thing is that the majority of the time it was favoured for the girl, but again, there's always three sides to the story. I believe both sides and then there's always the truth, but this is a society we're in and people need to be more careful now because it's a free-for-all. There's too much. I don't know man, like if you go to a bar now, for me it was always easy. I had the gift of the gab, I was a charmer, I talked a lot of shit, but for people drinking, there's just too many mistakes, there's too many people talking shit, you need to be careful now, especially this day and age. Do you think it's more difficult now for women to stay in a stable relationship because their body count is so high? Partially. I think it's harder for women to stay in a stable relationship because we have too many choices. I think it's like the psychology of choice and we think we have more choices than we do because how many, in this day and age, how many guys are actually trying to marry you? Especially with the laws the way they are? Right, come on. Yeah. And so I think, yeah, it's just too many choices and like inflated egos, like I think girls think they're like hotter than they are. I'm like, do you think filters play a lot of part in that though? Yeah, they think they're their Instagram filters. I don't even have time. I have sister, she edits all her pictures. I see what I'm like. Okay. Because we're the guinea pigs for social media. We don't know the effects it's going to have on us in 20 years, 30 years time. Back in the day, used to have doctors smoking on commercial adverts saying it was good for you. Because our necks are starting to bend, our fingers are starting to curl. Yeah. With holding mobile phones and with the information that we're getting. I had a man on his well called Mo Goddat. Okay. Mo was, he invented AI for Google. Oh wow. He was saying AI is going to be one billion times smarter than any human within the next 10 years. The information that we're getting on our phone is programming us who we're supposed to be in 10 years. Oh wow. With AI because it's so, the shit that we see in their phones are screens. It's programming us the way we see the world. It's AI. It's in full control. Oh wow. Yeah. That's really interesting. Yeah. Mo Goddat actually looked at that. Try and get him on. Powerful. Wow. That's interesting. Yeah. But he was all about money. Cars. Had like 16 cars. Had the big house. But he lost his son. And it changed his outlook on life. Oh wow. Came away from Google and now he's, he wrote a book. The Happiness Book. I don't fuck knows, but he wrote a book and he's all about happiness. He was chasing the wrong thing in life. And he was one of the ones that created AI. Wow. And it's going to be, it's one, so he, I said to him like, can they then control the world? He says it will control the world, but it won't destroy it because they want to do good. But again, how can you judge that? The world's in control by computers now. Can we run it? Yeah. It's really interesting. I always wonder like what the adult world was like before phones. I think about this because I, I got my first smartphone in eighth grade. So I still kind of remember the world before phones, but I was like 12, you know, 13. So, you know, I was still pretty young, but I always think about like how people don't really like talk to each other anymore on like the trains and like in, and I'm pretty friendly. So sometimes like I will, I'll just be like, start conversation with someone, but it's, it's like rare, you know, to just be like sitting on a train and the person next to you starts talking to you. And I always wonder like, was that different before phones? Yeah. I think it was. I think we're becoming sure. You were, you were around. I was 16. I think so. 16 when phones came out, which was fucking over 20 years ago, but for your phone. Well, yeah, but it wasn't a smartphone. Smartphone probably 10 years, 15 years. Okay. Okay. Cause I'm like, I'm thinking, but then I, for a phone was still because it was still disconnected. The phones came out and then the smartphones we had the screens, people on Facebook. Really? Cause I feel like the smartphone is when it switched. Yeah. I just think mobile phones in general. Yeah. Because everybody, you know what it does too. It makes you have a different sense of reality of like the people you talk to. This is my dad's, my dad doesn't have any social media. And that's what he always tells me is like, how many people do you really deal with? Like how many people's opinions really matter? He's like, how many people do you actually like talk to in person day to day or on the phone? But social media makes you think you like talk to all these people that you don't. Cause comments were really hard when I first started online. And like, I would tell him like the stuff they would say, but he's like, he's like, what, what does it matter? Like, you can't change, you can't change like any of the things they're saying. So it's like, whose opinions really matter? You only talk to your family. You talk to, at the time I had a boyfriend, he's like, you talk to your boyfriend, you talk to this like, but social media makes you think you like talk to all these people and know all these people that you really don't. What's the worst comment you've had? That sticks out? The worst comment. They used to call me ugly a lot. So like, I was like, yeah, I didn't, I didn't really enjoy that, but, yeah, I would say I have mostly good comments now, to be honest. And or I kind of see the archetypes of the people that comment and I realized like, it's either dudes that like, that like, would never get your attention in real life and they're mad, or it's like, girls that are whales. But you wonder how that is? Look, people are so mad online. Yeah. I don't blot, I blotted on people on Twitter and that, but on Instagram and that, look, it's the same people who comment and you're thinking, why are you so angry? I got a lot of positive stuff, but it's the same people who just talk shit and you're thinking, why watch my stuff? Follow me. I'll tell you, I had a friend of 20 years that said she couldn't be my friend anymore because of my content. Away? Yeah, apparently she gained a lot of weight, she was mad at me. I was like, I didn't know you got fat and seen you in a minute. Like, sorry. Is that done? Friendship done? Yeah, I haven't talked to her since. What do you think of feminism now? I think it ruins women. And it lies, I don't know. Yeah, I just think feminism lies to women, because I don't even mind, like, a lot of people in the red pill space are like, team traditional all the way, there's one way to do things. I don't necessarily believe that. Like, do I think Oprah, like, should she have prioritized having a family? Yeah, but do I think like, she was meant to interview people in her life? Yeah, of course, like she's great at it. But however, like, I just think life is about choices and trade-offs. And if you want to make a lot of money as a girl, just know you'll have to probably date down in terms of income, like, because what are you going to do? Compete for the top half a percent, one percent, good luck. And he's got to be faithful to you and you want to get him at 32? Okay. Like, like, alright, good luck. Like, I just don't like that they tell it, like tell women you can have everything. You can be a, you can be a six, get a nine, like in every movie. Take the more successful the man, the more likely they are to cheat. Oh, yeah, of course, I think the more, it was just with anything, like, do I think the more opportunity people have to cheat, the more likely they will? Of course. Do I think a beautiful, I think beautiful women are probably more likely to cheat, like top 20 percent, because like they're, they're surrounding, like all the guys that all the girls want, want them, you know. So I think it's probably both ways. What about going forward for the future? What's your plans? My plans. I want, um, I want to build content houses in each city, um, and I'd like to get married and I'd like to have a family. Come on. Do you think Wendy, do you think that will happen? Um, I think when I go back to the States, is when that's going to like, I think I'm probably going to go back to the States in like six months to a year. So, um, that's the thing in London. It's kind of like, I really see myself having kids in the US, like where my family is. So I feel like, yeah, that, that's when I'm going to like, start really, like taking that more seriously. Because London's in a bad place now. You can't even fucking walk about with a nice watch. People are getting robbed, stabbed, but it's dangerous as well. I haven't really had any issues with that. Not, not nearer than I, but just if the news is on, I try not to watch the news there either, but if I'm in the car, I'll hear about it. And I find the fucking hell, or the videos on TikTok. Yeah. I find some of the traffic smash, on a pet, on a motorbike, and take his watch. It's quite dangerous here at the moment in London. Like, it's just fucking, it's a mad world. It's like, Grand Theft Auto in real life. Yeah. Um, I don't, I actually, I actually like London a lot, but I fucking love it. Yeah. I just, I'm not sure if it's the best place for like a family. Yeah. Big city in it. It's like New York. It's the first city I've lived in. Um, and I think half the reason I love it is because I built a show here and I met a lot of like really good people along the way, but I don't know. I really love my family, so I'd like to be close to them. So see if a man comes into your life, like, do you think it's going to be more difficult for you with all those stats and statistics that you've got to then, because you'll judge more. We don't want to judge, like, we're all judgmental bastards, but do you think you'll, you'll look for more signs, red flags? Or do you think you'll just accept your destiny and hopefully it works out? It works out. I think, you know, having a platform and dating comes with like a whole different set of problems. Um, but I honestly think this stuff has made me a little bit more realistic, and I think it's made me, um, how do I put it? I think it's been helpful, to be honest, because I think it's kind of like when you accept this is how men are, this is how women are, and you know, I just, I think it's been helpful. What's the worst dating story you've, you've ever heard? I mean, I've just had some guys that are really pushy and like when I, like, there's one guy in particular that I just remember like, I didn't, I told him I didn't want to sleep with him and he just got like, took it very personal. And so I'd say, I'm trying to think of anything like that crazy happened. Um, I mean, I've had an ex-boyfriend like cheat on me before, but, you know, I feel like that happens to everyone at some point. How can people get in contact with you? What's your social media? Um, so, my YouTube's just pearly things. Um, my Instagram's just dot pearly things. Um, my TikToks are just pearly things dot four and just pearly things dot five. What advice would you have for someone who's want to have a hell for relationship? Um, oh gosh. Um, I think, don't fucking do it. Um, I mean, I just think, assume good intention, because a lot of times I think like, I don't get really mad at each other and because they'll be like, Oh, they're just doing this because of this and dead. But like, most people are pretty self centered. They're not thinking of you. They're thinking of themselves. And so, like, I found like, even just in relationships in life, like if I assume other people have good intentions, like I have better relationships. If I give them like the benefit of the doubt. Pero, for coming on today, I thoroughly enjoyed that. Wish you all the best with future. I'll leave all the links in the description for people getting contact with you. I'll see you in the next video. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.