 Yeah, I think the emotional piece is really really critical and a lot of the neurodiverse couples Because what you talked about with not showing a lot of emotion when you are at your wit's end That flat affects the focal monotony Yeah, and like you know one of the reasons that I Actually moved forward on filing for divorce was because I was in the emergency room I thought I was having a heart attack. My ex and I were separated. He walked in and He didn't say hello. He didn't ask me how I was doing He didn't you know hold my hand He didn't give me a hug nothing and then a few minutes later He screamed at me that he was gonna divorce me the next week Now I know