 Kelly says just found out after giving him space. He was seeing someone else the whole time. So what's up with that? Yeah, what is up with that? So, you know, it's one of those things I keep getting these women who are like Oh, I gave him some space and then he's you know cheated on me guys don't cheat on you When you give them space guys cheat on you because they have no integrity So this man that you're seeing Either one he has no integrity or two you guys haven't talked about exclusivity and he's just doing whatever he's doing Right and a lot of women do this as well And so it's not a you know If you guys haven't talked about being exclusive and you're giving him space and then you're like oh my god He's seeing other people it's like yeah, of course, you know You guys haven't talked about being exclusive which is why it's so vitally important to talk about it If you haven't talked about exclusivity, you're not exclusive if you haven't talked about being in a relationship You're not in a relationship. That's it. It's as simple as that. Everybody. Everybody should know this. It's so important It's like one of the most important vital basic things that you need to know about and this goes for men and women If you're a man and you haven't talked about exclusivity, you're not exclusive, right? And this this happens on both sides and be it's really really frustrating But you got to talk about it. You have to you can't avoid the conversation be like oh well He treats me so nice and sweet and so he must be exclusive and we must be boyfriend girlfriend Don't don't assume that don't assume that