 When you finally succeed The narcissist does this So after all of the work you put in to become the person that you are today Everything you built after all of that All of the suffering you went through All of the trials and tribulations What happens when you finally succeed because remember they were always putting you down They always made you feel like nothing you did was good enough They were never happy with anything you did for them There was always something wrong with it, but they didn't like it So what happens when you do finally succeed? when you achieve their specified standard When you meet their expectations, what do they do then? I'll tell you what they do When you finally succeed They move the goalposts they change What they originally expected from you Then it becomes something else So it really doesn't matter How you succeed or what you do It's not going to change anything no matter what you do. They're never going to be happy. They're never going to be satisfied They will always want more They have these insatiable desires that can never be fulfilled Not with you or anyone else Even if there was a perfect person walking the year To trust and believe that the narcissist would find something wrong with them They can find something wrong with anything Because they're very insecure and they project their insecurities outwards onto other people or things When you finally succeed They're not going to accept it They're not going to accept that you put in the work to Achieve a certain result They're not going to appreciate it. They're not going to congratulate you They're going to say that You cheated you broke the rules somehow They're not going to believe that you Did it the honest way They're going to think that you must have done something wrong And that's the only reason why You could succeed but even then they will Take credit for your success They will steal your ideas They may even steal your money or material possessions Because remember they are very arrogant and entitled They feel deserving of whatever you have And they see it as though you're just this object that exists to serve them and For no other reason other than they just want it If they want something they believe they should have it and there's really nothing you can tell them There's no way that you can get through to them Because they're just not going to see your success in the way that you want them to see it They're not going to look at it as though okay You put in the work to become the person that you are today and that's why they hate and envy you Because they're only looking at the finished product They're not looking at all of the work you put in they don't see that They don't know about all of the suffering that you went through The trials and tribulations The journey they don't see that part of it and that's why When you do finally succeed And they see it or they hear about it It just eats them up inside They can't take it They don't like it because they're not thinking about the work you put in they're just looking at it like So you got it You managed to succeed, but what about me? Even though many of them are lazy They don't want to do the work They're just waiting for you at the finish line so When you cross the finish line, they're just waiting there, but then they're not even celebrating or congratulating you It's just they're expecting a handout so it's like a double blow Not only do they not appreciate you or Congratulate you but on top of that It's the entitlement as well so they don't value anything You do for them or give to them and yet they're still there with their hands out expected it but it really makes no sense when you think about it because Why would they want or need anything from you? If something is wrong with your success, or it's not good enough It doesn't add up But they're nothing they do makes any sense Yeah, you can be sure that when you finally succeed They're gonna move the book the goalpost Suddenly there'll be something else that you have to achieve Something else that you have to do It's never gonna be enough. It's like they tell you to Climb Mount Everest The tallest mountain in the world and it's like you get to one level And then suddenly the clouds start to fade away And then you're looking up like whoa There's another 1,000 feet And then you climb that then there's another 1,000 feet And then you get tired and you stop You just can't do any more and then you look for your binoculars You see the narcissist is standing Right at the bottom of the mountain With their arms folded And they don't look happy because they're expecting more and more, but it's like no matter what you do It's never enough. It's like you could climb Mount Everest and then They want you to climb the moon They'll always come up with something in their heads. There's always some reason Why you are not deserving of that appreciation and validation They would hold that from you deliberately to control you because if you feel like you're never good enough You're always gonna be chasing after their validation, but when you recognize your worth When you truly realize what you're worth Instead of Constantly catering to them and trying to meet their demands Their standards and expectations You're gonna look at yourself and realize that You put in the work You achieved a lot You've done well And then you're gonna look at them and wonder What even qualifies for them to be in your presence To be around you Why are they deserving of? Everything that you've worked hard for because all they've really got is the arrogance and entitlement but those aren't positive qualities They're not contributing anything of value to you But when you finally wake up and you realize that They're not gonna start putting in the work They're not gonna start trying to make things right with you no When you finally realize the game that they've been playing with you all of that time When you wake up and you see you've been getting you've been giving everything away for free To this person Who hasn't been doing anything for you And they've been expected you to do everything When you finally wake up and realize that you know what they'll do They'll ghost you They'll disappear and they'll never come back Because they know at that point you've woken up Realize that you deserve more You're looking back and you see you're so tired after Everything you had to do for them and Maybe your bank account is empty You lost all your money Lost all your time and Yeah, you got nothing back For everything that you invested you got nothing back when you wake up and you see that They're just gonna ghost you they're gonna run away That's the discard They'll devalue you for as long as they can until they've used up everything you've got Well until you finally figure out what they're doing And then I'll have no purpose for you The last thing a narcissist wants is to be around someone who realizes their worth Who realizes the value of what they're given to people and Then expect something in return An equal exchange reciprocation They don't want to be around someone like that They want to be around someone who's stupid Someone who doesn't know their worth or even people who just Aren't really about anything Because then there's less expected from them They don't have to do as much But when you're with a high value person It takes work to be in a relationship with someone like that Narcissists love the benefits they get from being with those types of people But the problem is they don't want to do the work and that's why it doesn't last long so Narcissists in the end they're destined to Either be alone or end up with people who are just like them People who do the same things that they do cheat lie steal Because that's really where they belong In the end they just go back where they belong And as for us We continue to grow We elevate We become bigger and better We become the best versions of ourselves Because we don't mind putting in the work We can recognize our mistakes our flaws and we can do something about it So that we don't make the same mistakes again Really nice beach here But it's came down to see the sunset It's getting quite dark now It's really cold This is actually the first beach I've seen here And I'm quite impressed so far The sounds pretty white But I'm sure there's even better beaches than this. This was just one That's quite nearby. It's a nice peaceful place to come down and see Now I'm getting hungry so I think I'm gonna go get something to eat. I'm still eating vegan food every day I've been a vegan since September 2019 So that's over three years now Takes a lot of dedication But it really pays off in the end. I feel so much better now. I have a lot of more energy My mind is clearer. I still have energy even when I don't get my sleep. I'm still okay So yeah, I highly recommend Becoming a vegan That is something That you've been thinking about Something that you might be interested in Give it a try Even if it's just for a week or two to see how you feel the moon is out The sunset was incredible today. It was huge I've never seen it like that before I'm bright red. I've got my car here Pulled up right by the beach. It's a Korean car Genesis G8 Something different from the usual that I get so if any of you Come to South Korea Give it a try if you're looking for Car to rent. It's pretty cool. It's pretty fast Uncomfortable the entrance is there to the shop go around the back I've never been down here before this little town. All right Just go ahead in this shop now get some stuff Then I'm gonna get something to eat So yeah, thank you all for joining me On this video at the beach Please give it a thumbs up down below if you enjoyed it and I will talk to you in another one very soon