 This is why the Narcissist will never change. Narcissists are self-absorbed and they lack empathy. They're arrogant and entitled. They have an exaggerated sense of their own abilities and importance and they believe that they are inherently deserving of privileges and special treatment. They need constant supply of attention and admiration. To gain it they will use a false character that is likeable to attract you to them. They seek endless attention and admiration. To compensate for their low self-esteem, confidence and a perceived lack of acceptance. Which is a result of their early childhood trauma and attachment issues. Because they didn't receive enough love when they were a child. So now they use people as objects to obtain what they lacked in their childhood. And if they cannot get the positive attention that they need, they will settle for negative attention. They will choose evil over doing good. They will engage in wicked and immoral acts. They will hurt you rather than doing what is morally right. Rather than being a benefit or an advantage to you. There are two types of people in this world. People who build and people who destroy. And there is a reason why some people choose to destroy. There is a reason why some people choose evil over doing good. And the reason for that is because they believe they're better off that way. They believe that it puts them in a more desirable and advantageous position. In a more satisfactory situation than they were before. Because maybe at one point they did try to do things right. But it always left them worse off. It left them to take a less significant position where they became less important or powerful. Where they had to let other people have all the power and to make all the decisions because they were given a lower priority. So they assumed that being narcissistic gets them what they want. They assumed that it gets them their needs met. Which is how they ended up developing those traits. It's how they became more dominant and controlling. It's how they became less compassionate to what you're going through. Because they believe that they cannot afford to show pity or compassion for other people. Since they were always left to take the back seat. So they developed a scarcity mindset. Where they believe that there's not enough to go around. So they don't think or worry about the pain they caused to other people. Because they believe that they would lose something by doing that. They're very insecure. They lack confidence in themselves. Because they lack the necessary qualities and abilities to succeed. So there is no incentive for them to do good. There's nothing that motivates them to change. Because maybe they already tried that in the past and it didn't go well for them. So then they chose to take a different path. How a narcissist treats you is a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves. They chose evil over doing good because they're not happy. And even though engaging in these wicked and remoral acts may sometimes get them what they want. It still doesn't make them happy because they know they're not deserving of it. They know that they don't possess the qualities and abilities that would otherwise justify their rewards. They know that they took the wrong path. They know that what they're doing isn't right. Which is why they hide what they do. Because they know it's wrong. So how could they ever be happy? How could they ever have any faith or confidence in themselves? Because deep down they know what they've done wrong. So they feel a lot of shame. But these are just the effects of their karma. Because whatever you put out is what you will get back. So they do suffer the consequences of their wicked and remoral acts. Because by engaging in those behaviors they already know they're not deserving of anything good. But yet they still choose to do it because they feel more comfortable laying it in their own filth. And they believe that it gets them what they want. They don't have any trust or confidence in doing what is morally right. Because they don't believe that it will benefit them. And they don't have the stamina or staying power. So they choose to do evil because it gives them instant gratification. This is why the narcissist will never change. But eventually they will experience the effects of their actions. Because they won't find satisfaction in anything that they do. But they may not even realize why it is happening. They may not even realize that it is the result of what they did to you. But it is their karma. It is the law of cause and effect. Whatever you put out is what you'll get back. Which is why throughout time people have known to promote good and moral behavior. But that's not the only reason why you should do it. You should do it because you know that it is the right thing to do. You should treat people how you want to be treated. Because everyone deserves to be happy and comfortable. Everyone deserves to feel safe and secure. Thank you for watching. If you found this video helpful please give it a thumbs up. Share your thoughts in the comment section. Hit the subscribe button to receive the notifications. If you would like to support the channel you can donate at paypal.me.com. You can book a 1-on-1 with me on my website. It's NARC Survivor, the code UK. Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.