 that are people out there who will love you as you are. They are waiting for you, they are looking for you. But they can't find you while you stay attached and tethered to people who you seek love and validation from, who make you feel hard to love. So when they love you, you feel grateful because you've brought into the narrative that you are hard to love. You are not hard to love. You're just trying to be loved by the wrong people. The people who are going to love you to bits just as you are.