 Welcome to Psychic Medium Tony Green. I am Tony Green, said Psychic Medium. So I just want to welcome everybody to the show today and happy memorial day to those who celebrate. I am going to be doing a little bit of PSA, just a little bit. First and foremost, I will never reach out to anybody and tell them they need anything, want anything, not on social media, not any place ever. So if somebody is reaching out to you, please reach out to me, first of all report them and then second, reach out to me and let me know so I can also report them. Next, if you'd like to ask a question about love, life, career, finances, any aspect of your world at all, or connect with a loved one on the other side, the call in numbers 845-277-9131. I go live every Monday and Wednesday at noon central time and you can call in, ask any questions and or connect with loved ones on the other side. You can also join us live on YouTube and join the chat and ask questions there, which is a lot of fun all the time. I want to say hi to Kate, Vaughn, hey Heather, Ann is here, Sal is here and of course Mimi's here. I want to also, I never do a very good job at promoting myself, never ever. But I am a psychic medium, I've been a psychic medium for as long as I can remember as a child, you know, those things that go bump in the night I would basically talk to them. So yeah, there's that. I think that's funny, I don't know why I think everything's funny. And I also am a hypnotist and I do healing work also. I don't do it, the angels do it, but you know what I mean. And then I am the author of seven books, one of them I have right here, What If? A Transformational Journey. All of my books have been channeled. So there are two books of poems that I adore. I just love the poems. Some of the poems I can't even get through. I like they make me break down like seriously they do. And all of the books are available on Amazon. I prefer you use the link in my, if you go to my bio, there's a solo dot to dot Tony green, whatever, and it'll take you right to my author page and you can look at the books that I have and see if any of them are right for you. But this book is so awesome because it's this cover is super dirty. It's super loved. And I'm always holding this book for some reason. It's not like these are not when you look at this book, you might think, Oh, that's a lot to read. It's really not the way this book works is it's to open up your understanding of yourself and the world and the people around you, basically. So each page has a question. And then after each question, there's space to write your answer. Now I always tell everybody on your first go through don't don't write in the book, use a different book because by the second and or third time that you go through this book, your answers will be completely different. But this is an amazing book to go through with your partner, with your family, with a good friend. I love this book as a group book, especially with people that you care about, because it'll open up your understanding of each other and and again your world. So the page I just opened up to to tell you guys about it says oopsie, let's not pull the hat over. Okay, this one is the question, the question here, and I'm going to say it and hopefully everybody will understand it. What if how you treat others is how you treat that spark of God within them? Okay, so you can see where that might make you sit and ponder for a second. Let's all ponder. Now everybody has a spark, our soul, we all call it something different, our soul, our spark, our how yourself, but it's that connection to the all that is the universe, whatever it is. So how you're treating another person is really how you're treating their God's center or soul and then the all that is God. And if you don't like the word God, that's okay. Just replace that word with whatever is comfortable for you and go from there. So that's the first question. I'm going to just do one more, say when, when? Okay. Oh, we're not going to do that one. Okay. Here we go. This is a good one. It's probably this one is totally probably meant for me too. What if you stop escaping and TV games, computer, etc. and start living? I think that one's for me. Okay. So that's it. What if a transformational journey. That's the book. There are six more books and I'm working on number eight, which I'm very excited about. It's very different than these books. It is it's extremely different than these books. It is very but it's still I think it's good and it's all channeled. So there's that also. Okay. I hate Jessica. Hey, mares. I'm going to get started. I'm going to start today with colors and then go back and forth between colors and questions online. So please be patient, everybody. And here we go. Three, four, seven. What's your name and where are you calling from? Oh, hi. This is Katie. How are you? Hey, Katie. I'm doing well. Where are you calling from love? New York. Okay. How can I help you love? Moving and I'm moving to North Carolina, Charlotte, North Carolina, and I I'm trying to I went to see some places that I'm trying to narrow down that area or the because I've seen a lot of places. So I'm trying to figure out so there's an area called like uptown, south end and university, but that's like further out. And I wanted to get guidance like uptown and south end of the city. I want to get guidance about the area. And if my guys feel I actually saw the place that's good for me already like that I actually see that place yet. Okay. So the first thing I hear and I'm going to try to do this quickly. So I don't forget south. The one that says south, that's the one I got the yes on. And then yes, when you asked did I actually see the place yet? I feel like you did. If not the exact place something very close to when you said did I see the place yet? I did receive a yes right away on that. Okay. I've seen some in uptown and I've seen some in south and it's just all these particulars with like one place I really liked it. And they said, well, I thought, well, what about the deposit? And she says, oh, we don't do a deposit. If a deposit is acquired, then we just make you pay either $500 or one month's rent and you don't get that money back. I'm like, I've never heard of this. I'm like, I've never heard of these practices. Yeah, you know, that's the thing every state has their own set of rules that they are allowed to do and they're very different. And I know now with renting, it is crazy. Some places are requiring two months advance and last month, like you're having to show up with like four months worth of rent in some areas and then write an essay. What? An essay. You have to write why you want the place. Well, because I don't want to be homeless. Let's start there. Like seriously, I'm like, when I'm hearing these stories, like of how people are and the rents have gone, like a little crazy. Yeah. And that is very, what I'm actually telling people and I know this would not apply to you, but for me and my friends and some other people who come in, like some of my clients, I'm saying, listen, if you have a good core group of friends or family and you, let's say your single girls or whatever the case may be, even two families and you can't or don't want to do a house on your own, get a side by side of duplex or four plex together. And then all of you live in that. That is going to be the next wave of purchasing, not purchasing, purchasing for people, because it's when I'm looking online, these prices are ridiculous. I know they're going to fall out eventually, but that point is not happening yet. And so when we're looking at it, we have to just come up with a system where if we really don't want to pay these high rents and have them keep raising them every month, we need to get with a somebody we trust and get shared, like not a roommate situation, but like a side by side or duplex or something like that and go that route. But for you right now, the place I hear is south and yes, you did see the place. Don't worry about the policies that they're using. That's what's just normal for them, okay love? And I hear also the last time is the sooner, the better. The sooner, the better. Do this. Like secure it, get it, move sooner rather than later. And what about the uptown area? They said no. Don't do uptown. I'm just hearing no on uptown. When you asked all three areas, the only one I had a yes on was the south. And I know sometimes we think we want to be in this area, but here's what I'm going to tell you. And sometimes we don't realize, and this is for you specifically, what all that area entails and what it's really like, for example, at night or what we're getting ourselves into more or less. So when I hear a yes, what they're saying is your energy will be a good match to this particular energy. Plus, it'll be the safest and that that I didn't think that's what I was going to say. But that's what just rolled up off my tongue and blew out my mouth. It will be the safest area for you at this time and point. And once you get there, you're going to see and understand why this was the best choice. Now, I will typically tell people the further out you can move at this point, the better off you're going to be in the long run. In the long run, we are not going to want to be near cities. We're not going to want to be in the city and we are not going to want to be near cities. And that's going to come in in a year to two years where we're really going to have to really try to be a little further out. I don't know what that I, I, I know there's like, I think urban is city and then suburban is outside of city. But the next one outside of that whatever that's called, that's the goal. That's the goal. Get it get as as far out of the suburban areas, but still practical for getting to and from places. That's going to be the goal within a year to two years for everyone. Okay. Yeah. Well, thank you. Thank you so much. Oh my goodness. Absolutely. My pleasure. I hope this was was helpful. And if you do have other questions that pop up, like you're between three places that you're looking at, please don't hesitate to give me a call back. Okay, love. Yeah, you are welcome. You are so welcome. Okay, you guys, I want to do a couple of names from the other side that are here. And I think I just did 347 and 860 is next. But if I'm wrong, I apologize. Yeah, 860 is next. Okay, a couple names from the other side. A couple of names that I'm hearing from the other side. Remember, this could be your name, this could be your loved one's name, or your child's name, whomever they're speaking to, or they might be giving their name, Joe. Joe is the first name that comes through. And then I hear Giuseppe. Now, I know Joe is, I think Joe and Giuseppe are the same thing. But I hear Joe, and then I hear Giuseppe. And so those are the first one or two names that are coming through. And then the next name I'm hearing coming through, well, it's, it's, it's the song. Her name was Lola. She was a show girl. She wore her something and a something in her hair. She did the cha-cha. I don't even know. Well, if you know the song, you know the song. That's all I can say. And that song is coming through for someone. So if that song means something to you or somebody on the other side, that's for you. And it can be for more than one person. Please know that. And then I'm seeing, oh, this breaks my heart. I'm seeing a little being, a little baby in a, in like a crib or cradle. So there's a baby on the other side, letting you know that they're, they're still with you in spirit. They're still with you. And then the name that's coming through, okay, Maria. Maria's coming through. And then I hear that song, Maria, Maria by Carlos Santana. And then the name, they weren't gonna, that, that, whatever, whoever that is for, just so you know, then we're very persistent and we're not gonna let me move on until I said that name. And then the other thing, okay, I can't, I don't know that I can say this name. They're trying to spell it out for me. It is, well, I'm just going to tell you who's, who's saying the name. It's a, it's a man who is African or black and has, he's thin. He probably was a father and or grandfather to somebody listening. And he had lost weight near the end. He seems like he had chunked down. Now the way they show me they lost weight at the end is they're usually wearing clothes that are a little bit baggy on them. And so he is here and he is, he is saying whomever this is for, there's somebody involved in the situation whose name is Kisha. And I have goosebumps. Oh my gosh. I have goosebumps everywhere. There's somebody involved in the situation. And or, or somebody else not involved in the situation, but somebody else whose name may have been Kisha. And then, because I can say that name, I just can't get the A name, right? Is it Antoinette? I don't know. I don't want to say a name because I might be wrong. But whoever that's for that was that that took a little longer than I thought. And I apologize. I really do apologize. And then there's a Martha up here, a Martha up here that is saying, you just, you let them know I love them now. You let them know I love them now. And always has always loved you not just now, always. And then the last Viola. I couldn't even finish saying my sentence. It just flew out of my mouth. Viola is also here. So those are the names of the people coming through today are or the people that they want to connect with. Another song for today is working on it. I don't know if this song I don't I don't don't please don't be offended by the song. It's just a song. And I know that it might be whatever. But I think it's working on the I can't I can't even get all the words for it. But it's for the people who used to put the train tracks together. I think that's what this song is for working on the chain game. And they are showing like, they're showing people with those big things that would hammer the spikes in or slam the spikes into the the the things for the train tracks. Man, I sound so like I don't even know what I'm talking about. But you you guys if if it's for you, you're going to know exactly what that is. So apparently somebody who worked on the train tracks is bringing that through for you. Holy cow. Today these these names and these songs and then um and then okay and then the last song I'm going to do is they are bringing me things I don't even know today. Sometimes I know the songs and I know the people I can get the names in the songs. I just hear the name Marshmallow for the last song. I think maybe that's a group. Maybe it's a song. Oh, I get this one. Okay. And then they're just using the statement. I don't know if this is a statement from the song or this is this is definitely from it's a message from someone on the other side. I was so high I was so high and I'm not singing it to the beat of the song. It's somebody who OD down the other side that's coming through. It's a male and he was very thin and Caucasian or white and he'd lost a lot of muscle and stuff due to the drugs and um the song that's not the song but the that that's the person who's trying to come through. Okay. Holy cow. Let's move on folks. Let's move on. I'm going to go to eight six zero eight six zero. What's your first name and where are you calling from? Hi. Hi to me. It's Amla. Hey Amla. What's going on? A lot has changed in um very fast pace me because of Gemini stuff going on but I just was wondering um I just feel I don't know I feel ready for a relationship and I don't know what uh they're uh what are they called detour people are popping up. I'm just wondering when you feel somebody significant coming in. Okay so Amla what I'm gonna do first and it's really important um I don't want to ask her that question okay um it's nice that I argue with spirit out loud. I tell people don't argue don't argue with me argue if you don't like the answer go to spirit but here I am going I don't want to say it and they're saying just say it okay so Amla there's something in you that's not quite ready yet and I know what it is and I'm not going to I'm not going to blatantly say it but what I am going to do is um anything stopping or blocking Amla or anybody else listening and watching from a healthy loving relationship has cleared I get a no all that caused this and kept this has cleared and released I get a no and Amla one of the things I'm getting is um I'm getting like a hundred different things right now for you and one of the things is we have to be we have to be in a position where we don't care if we want to really if we're in a relationship or not we don't we can't we we don't care if it's here we don't care if we have it we're we're and not because we're bitter not like I don't ever want another blah blah blah my life again they can all go you know blah blah blah we can't not that that's that what they're talking about we have to be in that position where we're like my life is so good my life is so full I'm so good if somebody comes in great but they better be bringing like they better be the cherry on the top not like my life feels incomplete without this person because we all go through a phase where we are given given given the opportunity to be um whole on our own and that's what our single time is for so if we don't know how to be whole on our own a partner will come in and manipulate and change our course and we can't have that and we can't have that so if you're in a relationship and you're not whole on your own you know your angels will come in and keep nudging you and nudging you and nudging you and then when we're single and we're meeting what you're calling detour people it's for your angels or whomever you they're saying to you look would you really settle for this is this what you really want and the goal is to find somebody who just who loves you and who respects you and who wants to be with you and they're showing you this by their actions and what their how they're showing up for you now I'm not if we as women are in the position where we're taking the first steps making the first steps and I hate this term I hate it for myself and I I don't like using it for anybody else to men or our partners it's a sign of desperation and then they feed on that and so we have to be in that spot where we're like I don't care if you're in my life or not like if you want to be in my life yay good for you but this is what I want this is how you have to show up and this is how it's going to be and until we can get that to that spot the right person isn't going to show up now I have a friend who I think is really good at knowing what she wants and stating it but again for women when it comes to men we can get really confused between the brownie with hot fudge and ice cream right that looks really good and probably tastes good for a minute but then we regret it for the next five years while we're trying to work it off right and the really good guy now the good guy can be a brownie with hot fudge and ice cream um but we can't just go at the um whatever I don't know where I where I was going with that but I think everybody else knows where I was going at that I think everybody else gets it so what I'm going to say is I love when when you're in that space of what yes go ahead sorry oh no just when when you're in that space of not wondering when the person is coming in not caring when the person is coming in you are going to have that big epiphany of you giving you everything you want and need and being full within yourself with with yourself right okay I am going to say one other thing and this is on relationships and I know a lot of people will not appreciate this and that's okay um it doesn't go for everyone if if you're a person this applies to hopefully it will help you everything I say is to help people okay so so and it comes through me from spirit so there's that too one of the things is when we're looking for someone to save us we often get somebody we need to save when we're looking for someone to take care of us believe me there is a if we're getting like I'm going to use up two examples here um from the extreme of the sugar daddy type of thing to the just like you know marry me and like take care of everything so I don't have to there's a there we end up in a situation we can end up in a situation where we're giving out more or we're putting up with things we would never put up with for so-called security okay now when we're in that space when we have saved ourselves when we have come full circle when we and this one is for you amla you know who you are but you don't believe who you are on the surface okay now let me explain this for you and every other person listening right now because this is gold nuggets falling from the sky for everybody I know I am A B and C and these are my titles okay I know I'm an author so amla you know you're an author you know this you know that but you don't believe deep down inside of your value worth whatever it is and it could be one of a million different things you don't believe deep inside of that you don't believe that's who you are and most people don't and that's okay I mean we will see um we will see doctors and lawyers that fall on their title and and and and and uh just of any field actors whomever it is and they fall on their title um of what they do and they because they we are in this space in this time of this is what I do that makes me relevant we don't look at who I really am so you know what I I agree to an extent but I really I do want to say something in the sense that really quickly um my past has been like that I because because of my outside circumstances in my personal case of facing vision loss I've only had no I had no choice but to look inside and now I finally believe in myself so it's like the past guy that I was interested in he was like very close to what I'm looking for but it wasn't reciprocated he was kind and generous and nurturing and everything that I've been looking for right that's what was so so confusing but I understand now what I deserve which is I deserve a person who values me as a person and that's what he did for me and we actually are friends now but I mean I needed to go through that to figure out to say you know what you do deserve a caring supportive even when he dropped me off after I asked him I actually um shared how I felt for him he had to let him go as a friend to first was I know who I am now and I believe in who I am and the universe is actually reflecting that towards me it's just not necessarily the right so I'm love if you okay so here's and I need to get to the next person because this is um taking actually a little longer than I thought and here's what I'm going to say to you if you understand that this person showed up and they're they're kind and they're loving and they're not the person and um you want to keep them as a friend that's great but if you're saying to me and I'm just going to confirm what I said that you were giving or whatever term you used more you weren't he wasn't reciprocating right there the moment that that happens for you when you're in that place of self-value and self-worth and I know that you corrected it but that when you're in that place those people don't show up when you're in that place of true knowing it you literally look different your energy is different and our energy I'm I'm just going to say this and I'm sorry if somebody disagrees that's okay I don't mind if people disagree your energy pulls in a match of what you need to heal what you need to see or once you're there who you are so and I'm going to say this and I I'm I'm going to say that when we lead with what we think our downfall or our it's not your downfall but when we lead with our our I don't want to use any of these words because um our justifier for lack of a a kinder word um we're going to also get somebody who has a justifier so for women and men it can be different and what I'm going to say is and I know this is going to be so sensitive to some people and I apologize but oftentimes we show up and we say what we think is our handicap what's wrong what what we've been through instead of how strong we are and where we are and what is good so if we are still in that space of this then who shows up is going to have some it won't be the exact same thing but it will be something it will be something so if we think we're lacking we will find somebody else who is lacking whether it's physical emotional mental we have to like be in that space where we are whole regardless of what's going on regardless of what's going on it is not a I don't know I don't know the right word to say and I hope everybody understands that I I hope everybody understands that and it wasn't too in the way I said it was not insensitive because I don't mean it in in any way as um in a insensitive way okay I'm going to go to the chat and answer some questions yeah uh Jay Francis I do believe that is um that is uh Barry Manilow with uh her name her name was Lola um Angie hey Angie hey Tony may I please get your insight into my future husband thank you okay Angie um if you're still here make a comment because I don't answer unless people hang around oh my god Kate his name was Rico yes I had even forgotten the second verse oh my goodness yes working on the common going on yeah that's the second song thank you guys thank you I love the people on YouTube they will definitely come through with those songs that I'm having trouble with um thank you Heather yes everybody listen to Heather disagreeing with spirit doesn't work yeah it does not work at all not doing what they want doesn't work either they will they will push you into it for real for real um Jay Francis says I need to have a disagree with spirit I just get more of the same yes we do yes we do oh yes that is yeah that's true okay okay Angie you're still here okay Angie for you the first thing I'm hearing Angie is be open to how you feel um relationship dynamics work or titles in relationships okay don't be focused on and I know you're not and I'm going to explain this don't be focused on um getting married because sometimes we will get a person and then maybe overlook some things and there's this message is specific for you Angie so please pay attention here overlook some things because we're so in that place where we just want to really get into that place where we are getting married so we find a guy who's willing to do the same thing for some reason they're saying that to you be more in alignment with a good union a good partner and I'm going to say this again and I know I say it very often and what I'm going to say is look at this person as though you own a business and you're bringing them in as a business partner and then would you allow them like the keys to your bank uh the keys to your building the the codes to your bank account um as in a business sense because a lot of us are you know excuse the excuse the way this is coming out a lot of us are allowing people to enter our private business when we wouldn't even let them drive our car by themselves to the grocery store and pack because we wouldn't be sure how they would treat our vehicle and that just says everything right there that we need to say and I know yes I do I'm sorry if that was a little bit much um so Angie the bigger thing I want to say here is you have the potential to meet somebody in June it's not your final person it's um it's a person you're going to learn and grow with and then in August someone else is going to come in and this person will be somebody again uh that you will this person will be a significant person in your life now when they say a significant person in your life you can take this as far as you'd like it to go um in this relationship it doesn't have to go if things go well you can take it to that point the person you meet in August not the person you meet in June um the person you meet in June is to it's like sometimes we get that test person because we say I'm ready I'm not putting up with this or that or the other thing anymore and then this fear goes really let's see here's one he looks really yummy he's that brownie with hot fudge and ice cream are you going to put up with it because he's so cute or he knows the right things to say or he makes the right amount of money or whatever it is and then we have to make that choice of you pass the looks or this test but do you pass the rest of the tests on how you treat me and what we do okay uh so June is uh learning and growing and uh no I said no to this I'm I said no I mean no it's a complete sentence sort of thing going on but in August you have the possibility of this man come or this person partner coming in who is who could end up being the whole package for you um somebody who is going to be a very significant person in your life so again the June person don't waste don't you know what interview whenever we date we should be interviewing these people like we're hiring them to to for a business so that we can like know sooner rather than later if this is what we want it's not about what they want it's also about what we want and then in August this other person is going to come in and I know that was a really long answer I hope you understood it Angie um when this person comes in in August go slow I don't care if I said this is going to be your forever after person that doesn't mean rush to the finish line that means you still take time and learn things about this person and figure out how you two work together best because sometimes once we skip some of those steps and then we're in in we can't we lose our negotiating power for whatever that means for everybody okay so I hope I hope that's helpful Angie I really do I hope that's good for you hey Pawn uh everybody in the chat is talking and I'm trying to keep up with their messages and I love it um I'm gonna go to 757 757 what's your name and where are you calling from hello my name is Kate I'm calling from Illinois how can I help you be a little beautiful I was calling to see what you see from the entire self-relationship okay I'm gonna ask a quick question here just so I don't have to play in as much energy is she single right now are you single right now love yes okay do you have somebody that tries to dip in and out of your life because when I asked if you're single I get yes no yes no yes no which tells me either somebody is like a boomerang they go you throw them out they come right back you throw them out they come right back or um you're you're meeting people and it's not the right people so you're single you're not you're single you're not um it does that fit for you because I'm sorry that person has been that person has been blocked I love it yeah good girl keep it blocked keep it blocked do not let that person back in because they will find another way to come back in trust me they are going to try to find another way to get back in okay love it's tried multiple ways um every account that I have I did do that I deactivate the account uh like I don't want no communication at all okay good for you uh yeah he's been trying to get through any account as possible I deactivate any account yeah so let's no wait I'm really proud I'm very very proud of you for doing that and be strong because he's gonna find another way to show up like I feel like in like I pray not yeah let's hope not because yes but let's talk about what's coming in because that's more important okay and the more important thing is somebody's coming in I feel like the potential for somebody to come in for you I hear July and August so one July August somebody's coming in it might be near the end of July into August it's a brand new person you do not know this person you have never met this person they are going to come in and they are going to um they are going to want to actually have like a like go out on dates and go to places with you and do things with you they're going to want to have a more of a normal or an old school relationship it's not going to be the let's Netflix and chill sort of thing it's going to be like hey let's go to let's go to dinner let's go see this movie let's go to jazz in the park whatever it is that I'm not saying it's those things exactly but they're going to want to get up and go out they have a zest for life they really like to do things um you are going to need to be in that space of being ready for that type of relationship like transitioning back into the whole actually going out and doing things with this person and I don't feel like this is a beginning of the relationship thing I think this person likes to just be out and about I do feel like this person whomever it is might like to dance um and want want to go and do that every once in a while even if it's like like later on after uh while like even just doing it in the living room like sort of thing I feel like this person will just want to like you know get up and dance if a good song comes on whatever that means for you I do also feel like you're going to be a little bit hesitant when this person comes in you're going to be looking for the red flags always look for the red flags because in the beginning of a relationship you know you earn your credit just like everything else in life you earn your credit once you've earned that credit though we allow you we can feel safe in it I do feel like you're going to be looking for red flags um don't create them is what I'm hearing don't create red flags don't create like things um you're going to feel like this guy is a little too uh you might be excuse me you might be nervous that this guy is a little too he goes out a bit and you're going to wonder if he is um out there too much is the way I'm going to say that okay excuse me for a minute I have a little I have in my smoothie I put kiwi so one of the little seeds is a little caught in there someplace so um the other thing that I'm getting is this guy is he is a loyal person when he's considers himself in a relationship so no like know that but also know when you are in that relationship and when you're in the dating stage because some women are loyal from the the moment like we decide this could be a good person to the end and even in the dating stage and other people might be just dating not necessarily getting you know uh getting down with or getting you know uh having sex with other people but they might be still dating other people and talking to other people have that conversation about like hey when when we're monogamous we're you know not not like that but um like uh just have that conversation uh when the time not on the first date but when it's appropriate about if they if you're still dating other people and just say listen and here is one statement that really I know not all people are honest male and female but one statement that really works is uh listen I really I like you I like where this is going but I don't get intimate until I know for a fact we are monogamous okay and don't be afraid to say that don't and and and go from there um so that's that's what I'm getting for you and this person July August I feel like you will meet them at an outside event you're going to meet them naturally and organically an outside event can be anything from a farmer's market to um again I don't know why they keep saying like music in the park or something like that okay all right sweetie I thank you so much you are so welcome I hope that was really helpful for you that was I just don't want to have a guy showing up um I'm sorry I just don't want the other guy showing up I don't know what else to do I feel like filing a putting report on him I'm just tired yeah if he does show up um all you can do is just you know I uh all the best is just ignore do not respond in any way um and my favorite and I'm gonna say this if somebody shows up face to face uh from the past and you are not wanting to see them just say excuse me I need to use the restroom and go into the restroom and like you know phone a friend or do whatever you need to do at that point and uh go from there that's that's my my walk away point is I need to use the restroom and uh get into a place where they can't go into okay sweetie okay thank you so much you are so so welcome you have an amazing day if you'd like to ask a question over the phone the numbers 845-277-9131 you can also ask a question in the group chat on YouTube Jay Francis says um some oh yeah nope that's not a question uh hey Kavita how are you uh Kavita wants to know if there's anything significant happening for me this summer thank you yes so Kavita I know you get a lot of readings um and talk to a lot of people and you've had um readings that have um said when somebody's supposed to be coming in and timelines can be off a little bit and it can be February but we don't know what year I mean it's crazy I'm just saying um I'm going to tell you that I'm hearing something I don't know if this is for you or a friend but what I'm hearing is there's an engagement that's about to happen or an engagement is going to come in this fall Kavita I'm not saying that's for you but I am saying this Kavita this engagement will be important to you but it might not be your engagement we're going to have to wait and see and if it were your engagement they may tell you but they may not want to ruin the surprise I am getting that the engagement is significant and it is um it might be somebody you care about rather than yourself so that's what's going to come in for you I feel like it's more around fall than summer but your that is the big big event that you have to look forward to all things going well I believe that that is going to come in for you um I'm going to go to nine four nine five four nine five four what's your name and where are you calling from uh this is Mary I'm calling from Florida okay Mary hi thank you so much for calling in how can I help you today um I just wanted to see um have an ongoing health condition that I've been um getting tested and being live specialist I'm wondering if you see some resolution coming for me regarding this manner and um some better assistance that I've been getting for answers um um okay for the sake of the show and everybody who's listening and not getting reported I have to say I'm not I'm not a medical person I'm not a doctor uh what I am getting for you is you need to go to a different kind of doctor uh if you keep going to the same type of doctor that you've been going to you're going to keep getting the same answer but if you go to a different type of doctor so let I'm going to put this in two different ways if you've been seeing a regular md or been dealing with all hospital doctors so to say they're going to keep giving you the same answers however if you go to like a a natural a doctor of natural medicine an herbalist an acupuncturist you're going to get a different answer with different results okay so you have to be if you're willing to step outside of I'm going to be seeing new specialists they're not natural best I'm wondering if they're going to be able to help me or if I have to go off to um more like uh I'm here is what I'm going to tell you um and I'm going to say this and whatever you decide to do is up to you and I'm I'm not the boss of anyone okay when I become the boss of my very own bladder I will try to be the boss of something else but I'm the boss of nothing at this point so what I'm going to tell you is that I know right every woman every woman feels that pain I'm just saying um what I'm going to say to you is when when we're in certain establishments they run test after test after test after test and eventually they might come to a conclusion and a medication that works best for for them or what's what they can give you if you step outside of that establishment and I I don't care if you're seeing a natural doctor and then and you're not getting the proper answer step into an acupuncturist step into a whatever it is step into a dip if you're not getting this answer that you need consider stepping outside of that and going to a different type of resource now going to the specialist there's going to be a lot more tests I feel like you're going to have a significant number of tests before you get any stated results and they're going to give medication that will uh not heal you but in in some ways help in some ways not help okay we all know all medications have side effects okay however if you step outside of that I have a referral I've never been to a blood doctor and I have a referral to one and I have some other specialist to see besides my primary do you feel any of those will be helping me okay um sure sure sure here's what I'm going to say for the last time you're going to go to the specialist take the referrals do all the tests and get the medication and 90 seconds hopefully it will help um when you're ready you might want to step outside of that establishment and see if there's a way to get healed from what's going on um but again I'm not the boss of you I'm not in control a specialist all the referrals will have you do more tests and get there okay if you posted a question in the chat please hang around um please just let me know you're still here and I will answer that question after I go off air the show has to be within 60 minutes because it does air on TV thank you everybody so much for being here today I am so grateful for each and every one of you