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It is women's month as we speak It's just and they can do us nothing Take us nowhere My name is Bellino Dede. I'm a student of life. Mm-hmm. Yeah Your hair is looking all types of adductor be last. That's my weakness. Oh, boy. Oh, somebody apologize I Okay, what's your name? Oh, my name is Kalebikian. I'm a student at the University of Nairobi. I love student for that matter Yeah Oh It's okay so safe space right so on our socials we have been asking you a question and It was a bit pointed to somebody but the basically the question is is it okay for celebrities to come out and apologize to the public? For things that they have a done in private. Are we together so things that a celebrity has done in private sir So do you not want me to say I mean you come home, but I really don't know But is it okay or is it a must for the celebrity to come out and tell the public? I am also sorry to you. What do you guys think? Dance on the way way. No, no stop looking. Okay. Thank you for giving me this opportunity Number one. I believe in a very unpopular principle, which is might not be known to many That men should lead in everything including the process of reconciliation However, you should not be apologizing for unnecessary situations You go to you mean by unnecessary situations. You don't just be like apologizing If you continuously Apologize Whether you tend to be weak But if you remain strong I Like for example That was a mistake. Yes, I'll say sorry, but not that I need to beg But of course you need to be apologetic But not for all stations And the line that I'm unnecessary Once something is a mistake, it is a mistake. There's nothing like a necessary mistake or an unnecessary mistake Mistake is a mistake. Are we comparing it to like a sin? There's no big thing and there's no small thing something like that There are just components of seeing they build up to be a scene So there's nothing like a unnecessary mistake once a mistake is a mistake you have to admit This is a mistake and then you stick the necessary action Yeah, so what I think when you say when you talk about apologizing That simply means you're seeking for forgiveness. You've realized that you're wrong. I think this thing cuts are close Forgiveness is divine. It doesn't care about whether you are a man. You are a celebrity You are a woman or what once you know you are wrong. You must either you must apologize You should apologize, but there is a very thin line where wisdom steps in When you are a celebrity and then you come up with something, maybe you went to error outside Then you come in public and say I'm sorry about this all my wife for giving like just they what I read the other day Now the problem will come that this maybe to say me What do you think your child that I'm a mistake. Why was my dad apologizing for bringing me? So that's where wisdom now comes in But you must apologize mistake is a mistake. No, no, no, me I can't exit why He's saying that you must apologize You should you should there is a way how you create power There is a way how you create a good name by not apologizing for every situation if If So why does he have to apologize to the public he has a personal life Now I want you to imagine a different scenario and this is not really a lover spat or anything But it is a high profile person in society coming to apologize He was apparently Quote doing things outside coffee hours. Yes, and then he was brought to justice and he even resigned from a particular position And he apologized to Kenyans. I'm sorry. I should know better. I am a leader I should be treated by example does that make him less of a man. No, that does not make him less of a man That is in the public domain Whatever he did was against the public statutes and we all know that it's against the law to be found out during So he was against even this the state So it was like necessary for him to ask for an appointment. What I mean to also did Was immorality. No, no those against it's so such a culture. I will not support you madam That is not immorality. She has a life to live. Yes. Let me remind you Yeah, for a fact. Yeah, he has a wife. Yeah, and he made vows and he made vows to her Yeah, we were not there. Were you there when he made vows? We are not if they were legally married you get so are you saying that even the first wife is also Let me tell you this. Yeah, things do happen. Yeah, and we should not like poke It's none of our business Is the one who brought it we did not ask him for apologies. No, I'll see my share too, but he did it he brought it So once you present something at the table, we eat the meat It was not our business we should not like be apologizing for unnecessary situations Which is this unnecessary situations? Where is this particular and necessary situations? Yeah, according to this Maybe some because according to some Edo is like he violated some societal rules. Yeah That's why you felt guilty if there are some people who look up to him like maybe fans Maybe sibling so it does that I'm really not giving this for the best example The best thing I should do is just to come out and apologize. There was nothing wrong with that But now when I say to some extent wisdom should also Creep in because this is a child that will be coming then she will be told that you know her father Apologize for having brought you into this one. So I'm a mistake. So that's what I was talking about there But apologizing was just okay. No I'll say that actually he did not do good by apologizing articulated an aspect of weakness Apologizing We don't owe him his life We are not his brothers. We are his fans. You know, sometimes fans can depress you But you know The funds did not ask for it. Yeah, he is so it within himself, but it is right Let me set this this thing straight. So it is not our business. No, no brought this meat on the table And we are now eating it. He's wrong. He's wrong. He's not wrong. What he did is right Let me just clear the air with some Edo This is according to how I have seen the full story Samidha went on to social media to apologize simply because whatever happened that I don't want to say scandal But whatever happened behind closed doors see it came out it came out the public now What the public did they started trolling his wife They started now going to her social media platform and telling her things perhaps that we're not pleasing to her That is why now Samidha came full circle and said So who brought what to the table it happened the fans or people had about it And instead of maybe addressing the person who actually committed the act went not to his wife Do you understand? So for all we know for all we know Samidha already apologized to his wife I talk as a how he is Sunny but with two social media those guns are close to one another and that is why he came out to the public So he was not to apologize It was The one he did to the the wife The one he did to the wife see I took what we didn't hear so I wanted to hear him say it Okay, I have a couple of more examples of people apologizing and and now that we have started local We've talked about the kaja. We've talked about Samidha Now I want us to just open our minds a little bit and we're going to look at three people One of them is Chris Brown Chris Brown your time at Lechapa Rihanna Yeah, so maybe my able team will do that for me Meanwhile numbers are white by phone Facebook white by 4 channel Twitter white by 4 underscore channel on the ground Why 254 TV on tiktok hashtag is why the morning? I am Chris Brown Since February March. All right. So there we have it We have a couple of very very high-profile gentlemen apologizing for various things So we had one of them was Kanye West. He said something about Taylor Swift The other one was Chris Brown after his domestic violence situation with Rihanna. We have Johnson's a kaja after breaking curfew and Tiger Woods after cheating Now, let's go back to on the ground uncle after so much care on the water. I'm a confess comes up this conference Well, maybe come come I tell you What what is the difference between Samido and Tiger Woods? Maybe if I could just because they're in the same situation They did the same thing, but now they publicly came out to apologize I may not be well conversant by the story of Tiger Woods. He cheated. Don't worry. Okay. It's the same type situation He cheated then he went and apologized to the public. Yes, I I would I would rather say this. We don't need painkillers for other men's headaches So if you cheated on your wife Go and apologize to her in your own bedroom in your own house or rather go to a forest We'll be alone. I apologize to her. We don't need painkillers for other people's heads You know, I am saying no Like we just said these are these are leaders These are people there some people are looking up to them So just like what senator Sakaja did he had an option of going to Senate committees and telling them This is what I did in a closed room and what were the other the public going to say come on Senate and they're gonna come back as a seat at Jamie me. Yeah, Jamie me. Madame says it up The difference between Sakaja Tiger Woods and Samido is that Sakaja is a political leader. These are all leaders No cheating. We cannot politicize cheating Cheating it will go away. I'm gonna be back. I'm gonna be a condom. I'm gonna and it's not our business I'm sorry to use this example We don't know what happened behind us Let me tell you what apology does it relieves you you that you are saying you are asking for apology You also get free then the subjects will also be free. Yeah, then apologies to relevant people So somebody like the president who are the who are the subjects the public? Yes, so you denying it? No Secret are your mother. Yes, but then somebody like senator He did whatever he did. Then he said I must own this. This is a mistake that I've done And because there's some people are looking is representing some people. Yeah, in fact, the public Somebody else will not do the same but Senator So it's trying to save the innocent Yeah, it's trying to look at it from the Positive side. It's not just about killing your ego. Do you justify cheating in marriage not? Definitely, no. Okay, and why? Okay, like let me ask you currently speaking sincerely speaking I May not have worked that video for kibaki, so I cannot believe what what you're telling me. Oh my god, it's so true Yeah, I after this okay after this. Okay. I'm doing low. So I need evidence you show me that This what kibaki say not proved enough Okay, let me give you that the facts pertaining to this particular announcement That particular time when he was announcing that his only one wife was a period where the cabinet had just been shuffled So we were expecting that the president is going to not tell us why he has But instead he came out and declared that he has only one one way then this was after rumors of It was clear it was around. Yeah. Yeah, you know What if when the politician then Another commander Mokwengi and I think we're going to be in you will clearly come out and say that No, that's not Problem is and let me correct you. He was not apologizing. He was making issues clear But we didn't need to know we are not all at home with him In the public domain Listen, it's the same thing that we've discussed us. I mean, you are now we are not taking panna dough for his head And he's a whole you're talking about power Yeah, you link power with forgiveness or saying you're sorry and the more you say sorry apparently But if the head of nation He was trying to make This is what I did. Okay, the public this is what I did. It was a mistake, but I apologize. I've done it That's what it was I wouldn't I wouldn't let's try that. I'll stick with some ego. I'll stick with some ego because actually madam I Was the endanger cheat then you come to why two five four to tell us that my husband has cheated and And I'm not a kumbum summer in public Yeah, so They may go to the family gathering. That's also public. No, we are talking about why two five four These people do not come to why two five four I cheated on my wife missy so did it and I am apologizing Will you be comfortable guys all over know that your husband cheated on you? I think maybe what he's trying to say with a lot of passion is is it necessary for public apology Will that make you feel better? Then why should you apologize to yourself that okay? I did this now, you know God you are just you yourself You are probably why are you even apologizing? Okay? I have a very clear question for you madam. I Let's take an example I'm a prostitute And after I have gone I'm a funny because you come here and I'm cuckoo They may move It's now time. I stopped So we could have a power to fight for our matter to say me in the Al Jazeera Me in the new album Samaha. I make me in a lullano and all me will do become the thing is yet No, no, no, let me just know no no no listen that the point is you're missing accountability You are in your own life Somebody there's a touch to power. Yes. Yeah, not really You are attached to someone you understand so me does a wife Chris Brown was Rihanna's boyfriend as in You come and tell us sorry, but you are not accountable you didn't have a wife You didn't have a girlfriend these people have okay. Let's let's take it. I have our answer to Hey, let's take it. I have a wife higher I have a husband for that matter Husband or wife whatever your sexual preferences and perhaps umemko say your problem is coming to say it out loud Now my questions are to number one. Do you have a public influence? Why are you doing something for us? Like why you are humanitarian? Mm-hmm and only corner to pig a day be a man under to kind of pen a chakula or something like that Did you have something that you were impacting into society number one number two is? Do you feel as a person where we owe your partner that a public apology is is what you need? Like it's a size time I do not believe he's sorry until I see it everywhere until kill them to a joy Is that now between you and your partner? Is it a you think that? That's the kind of parameter we're in I love when you leave this wally come out I think some are sorry in a very empowered lady asses question Why did you co-seer the person in the first place if you're not ready to say sorry? We are humans and human is I love we're not saying that ladies should not apologies and it's not just ladies because ladies teach how do you feel assume you have a wife I'm you and then you realize that your wife went to a bank account and they do everything That's what I'm sorry. Yeah, you're Nikifo Then everybody Not literally Kiffo Actually You have to ask yourself. Why did she do this? Yeah, you talk Yeah, and maybe there's not just Stealing cheating why did you do it? But it's stealing if they're together, so it's their money Stealing She'll not go to the public I Sometimes you're so hostile and I don't even think it's one so I'm dead So the best thing let me go to work in a valley where at least this security I say oh my ass But I know wherever you are you're listening to me. Please. I'm very sorry We have more opinions on the ground remember you can send your videos or your comments to at work I found Facebook quite before turn on Twitter hashtag is why in the morning? In the genuine Then I don't going through public because I don't really come to see Asia No, I don't think I'm going to be able to see something About men apologizing and confessing and when they do something wrong for me I wouldn't like maybe I'm dating someone and then I catch him doing something And or something like that. I'll find apologize publicly Publicly if we are dating the two of us that relationship at today to a community So when you do something wrong when Amanda something wrong, I would like for them to come personally Look for me to sit down and your politics. I will take you seriously But not go like post it online like when this relationship to people. We're not like a community so um When I'm my knowledge is like that, it's genuine to me because they have equals and for them to look for you and apologize I'm sorry. I will take that genuinely and maybe consider My name is Timur But not in public, but if she insists I might consider posting it, but I'll play with the settings We can and I have a point Me know them too. I'm a bitch. I'm a bitch. I'm a bitch. I'm a bitch. I'm a bitch Nature calling me happy on the issue of apology. I prefer it being privates instead of Apple for in Jeff because I believe it if we look at each other, it's not good to lamp towards red and also prefer like I Need to Jeff is to face up on a judge instead of point up at the end because it's more generally that way and I'll feel like Whether I'm a major or not Because it's better Hi, my name is Confessions and being apologizing when you've wronged someone so I think in apology and confession if you've wronged me Just be ready to apologize whether Jenny or not I think it's applicable that when you've wronged someone Same case if I've wronged you I will apologize to you and the other issue of Apologizing publicly. I really don't think it's applicable to apologize publicly If you tell me privately if you text me if you call me if you DM me as long as you're honest I Think We wrong each other, but I think When it comes to I think if you someone that you have you should just take your pride down Does it either publicly or privately just? Sorry is a strong word and that it heals a lot and To make the both of you Wow, it's like we all have very very many opinions And your entitled to your opinion by the way I'm to ask one be are we together as long as you're not hurting anybody The white platform Facebook white 5 4 channel on Twitter white 5 4 underscore channel on at the ground And it's white to 5 4 channel on take talk forgive me white 5 4 channel on take talk hashtag is wire in the morning All right, ladies and gentlemen, we are both finished and I don't know why our time ends like this so far so fast I think it's because we are very passionate. Okay, would you like to devise what you want to say or you're sticking to your ground? It's what I'm saying We will always we will always learn through accidents and As a man like I said in the beginning as I started From even from the biblical perspective Men I've always been known to lead in everything The process of reconciliation And I we cannot run away from From apologizing saying sorry, but it's cut us But again, we must look at the channels. Where do I need to say sorry? How how how should I say this story? There are some things that we should be doing them behind behind the scenes If I cheat on my wife This something that does not concern the public domain. It's my family that I should apologize to if I have like We need like to understand there is Some people apologize to the public and some people apologize Who are you talking about in a husus? No I don't know what to say ma. Pili pili you see a little in a quashia name So come I was who's who watch and is your party? No, I come in a husu then let them have it you get so actually that is what I'll stand with We need to understand when to apologize and when not to apologize and that's why I said Do not apologize for unnecessary situations For example that issue with Honorable Sakaja. That was in the public domain We all understand that no one should be found out during a few hours. No one is above the law And for that matter Honorable Sakaja was the parliamentary head of the COVID committee. That's why he resigned Yeah, so it was up to him to all up to own up for his for his mistake. No, so actually We need to understand that is my stand We need to understand when to apologize and when not to apologize, but it remains being apologetic Apologetic is quite catch us. Yeah, it's just sometimes the public does not really need to know Yeah, we don't really need to know Oh Belly and tummy What I think is trying to address There's no unnecessary situation that does not call for apology once it is a mistake What really matters is the audience you want to address the people that are concerned the people that we are trying to They people that we are trying to address here are people who they owe something to the public That's what we call them celebrity. There's this is a musician or maybe he's doing something to the public So the public the general public will see it that if this one This is this is somebody I've been following I've been looking up to him and these are the things is we then withdraw their support So you owe them apology. That's where they had to go to the the public Of course people making mistake if only you made a mistake But we don't know because I too sue none So the audience that you are dressing is what you are trying to do, but there's not unnecessary apology whenever you make a mistake Apologize because forgiveness is divine Yeah, yeah, I conquer it. Yeah, it is the audience you are trying to Who are you telling but the people that you are dressing here? They owe something to the public That's why they have to tell us come up with fun. Yeah, you know, that's easy. I'm about to look for that funny Yeah, so Kaja I could not put them to the game. Yeah You you pay only one celebrity to not only not with a role model So he's here so all model one good. Yeah, I'm not a star key. No, I'm a pastor So that's a nice and I'm what I'm me whatever you preach in the church is contract. What is doing? They will draw their support. So no, no, you owe them an apology. That's why you went public But I think the public should understand that In as much as we look up to them, they also have their lives to live you get what is the public? You know public is a congregation of people. Yeah, that's your answer about Audience should understand that they have a life to live and like we always say human is dweller They also make mistakes in life. Yeah, and we should like understand them. We did Yeah, that's why after apology now. We don't have problem with some So actually that's why I say we should not be apologizing No, they are They are apology safe the situation what we're not say many valley funny Macosa. No money. Oh Macosa We don't know how to get a funny Macosa. I'm a pastor. Can I be like nice after my cousin? What's your tomb some air? Do you understand that a kid or a T? Nice a funny Macosa no cost a comb. I'm some are but you change your ways No, really, I can't do it. Come on. Let's see. Do I got another man? I'm not Okay, I think we're going to agree to disagree because we have, I think, just a few minutes till time, so please allow me to finish off with the words on the ground. Again, we have looked at a couple videos, now we're going to look at our Facebook page. Please also do not be afraid to use our Instagram or TikTok, by the way, Rukia. Alright, so we have an Uncle Dennis Miner says, Hodi hodi bila syakani ani kodeno to care the United States of Kerita, UG County, watching the program. Thank you. Saddam Solomon says, White 5-4. First of all, I'm keeping love from Karatina University. Nikiwa na dedan na kinai David Cimeo and Mr. David. So, I was right. Ali Fundisha and Auli Mwengo, let's emulate this hero. My university comrades say, Pashub Ali Kim as well. See me, me. Fidel Kim says, wife and children are an investment. No man would ever lose someone you meet for a while. Agastin Kavifia says, good morning, life and direct. Manome, kumbam samahi oni umadhe jikaushe bana. Brann Mukabwa says, Manome, kumbam samahi oni umama. Watching from Rironiki Ambu County. Okay. Okay. I wonder why people do their own things and then come to a college. Why didn't they tell us when they were doing those things? Do metchoka na homa, celeb by the way, it's sometimes Ujinga. Vaniz Enduati says, I'm a lawyer here in Bamsama, but I'm a lawyer there. I'm a lawyer here in Kosoa. When I was in kota, I was in Mery-Bi. I was in Bamsama. I was in Mungo. I was in Murliz, I was in Kosoa. Noma? Avocado, Avocado. Okay, so we have Missy Tautras. Alright, I'm DJ Mezi from Ngomongo. Yeah, he did a nice thing, but says he apologizes to the public. When he's engaged to the public, oh, that's it. I'm struggling, in fact, he's just telling me, DJ, what are you called? I'm struggling very much. Kibbe Kittru says, mimi, pombay, but no day, pombay, but no day, but no day, but no day, but no day, but no day, but no day, but no day, but no day, but no day, but no day, but no day, but no day, Thank you so much for watching this video, please stay tuned for tomorrow's hip hop Thursday, you do not want to miss that sauce. I love you Ninguine. Yeah, just thanks. Have an amazing day for me, Faith and the rest of my panel. We insist on going to Skopor. Bye.