 So today I have a question for all of you. I received this email which says, my wife doesn't like oral sex. She doesn't like to give or receive oral sex but I really want it and I know and I understand that it's a personal choice for everyone but it gets very frustrating. We have been married for almost seven years and not more than once a year we engage in oral sex. She finds it dirty and gross. She only likes intercourse hardly any foreplay whereas I am interested in activities like face sitting where she will sit on me etc but she finds them utterly gross. So my question is is it normal for women to be averse to oral sex? Is my wife being extra sensitive or are my expectations wrong? So my question to everyone is is there a solution to this? Is there a compromise in this situation? Is there a way to negotiate this situation?