 This will cause a huge narcissistic injury This will cause the narcissist to reflect on their feelings of worthlessness and insignificance When you realize and accept that they need you More than you need them When you realize and accept that all they ever do is bring you down you put the focus back in yourself You begin to value your own thoughts and ideas more than a narcissist You begin to live within your own frame of mind again Your own mental attitude or outlook Instead of living in their distorted reality When you do that You're starving the narcissist You're taking away their dinner Because narcissists feed off your attention They feed off you feeding into their reality, but their reality is like junk food It's no good for you, but they've managed to get you addicted to it They've managed to get you to crave their validation They've managed to get you to value what they say Over your own thoughts and ideas. It's time to take your power back start valuing yourself again Start realizing that you do have the power to make decisions You do have the ability to understand a situation Narcissists depend on you giving your power to them So that they can survive But their survival comes at a cost to your health because they will feed off you Until you have nothing left to give to yourself and that is why you need to detach yourself from their world You need to leave their false reality and start living your own frame of mind Your own thoughts and ideas Begin to trust yourself again Believe in yourself Don't wait for the narcissist to validate you Because that's never going to happen Their emotional survival depends on you not realizing your power Not realizing that you are capable That you do have what it takes That you are able to trust your own intuition When you stop living in the narcissist's false reality And you begin to operate within your own frame of mind It will cause a huge narcissist injury because now they can't feed off your attention They can't have any influence or authority over you Which causes them to lose power and control it triggers them to reflect on their insecurities Which they try to mask By imposing their thoughts and ideas onto you Narcissists are fake deceptive people They are liars So they depend on your belief They depend on people to believe in them and when you don't believe in them They feel as though they don't exist It causes a huge narcissist injury Your belief has power and that is why they will do whatever it takes To get you to believe what they want you to believe But you have to hold on to your reality You have to remember what you believe to be true Don't let them pull you into their world But just know that the more you live within yourself And hold on to your own thoughts Ideas and beliefs the more narcissistic injuries you will cause Thank you for watching. I hope this video ends it with you Please like comment share subscribe Click the bell icon receive notifications For my future videos Check out the new Narc survival website at www.narcsurvivor.co.uk Where you can read my blog posts book coaching sessions and join our support for them if you were like to donate My PayPal link is in the video description Coaching inquiries you can email me at coaching at Narc survivor.co.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon