 This beauty queen is going viral for taking a hard stance on sugar babies and sugar dating, and she's not against it. She's in support. Hey, man, don't go against Leifang Tao, man. She said sugar dating. She didn't say sugar baby, man. It's different vocabulary. Oh, man. All right, guys. This is going viral. We got to talk about this. Leifang Tao was runner up for Ms. Vietnam Fitness, and she recently came under fire for her views on sugar babies. She said, and this is referring to younger, beautiful women who date older married men, she said sugar babies should be okay as long as they don't affect the marriage. And then people had backlash and were like, what? How can you say that? And then she came and doubled down on it. And she said, what did she say? She said, listen, if you choose to get married to men who don't possess the ability to take care of your family, then you will have to do two things at the same time, give birth and make money. She said, I support dating older men as they have the ability to take care of women thanks to their financial and career accomplishments. I made it clear that I was against the idea of extramarital affairs since they are morally and legally wrong. So does that go with or against what she initially said? So she was saying extramarital would, it's extramarital if not all the parties are on the same page. But I guess if the wife and the family is in on it and the husband's in on it and the sugar babies in on it, then she said that's okay. And let's be honest, you see that sometimes in very rich, old established families. Yes, I've heard of that. Yeah. Anyway, guys, make sure you like subscribe, turn on your notifications. It sparked a ton of comments about the sanctity of marriage. Is this young generation just trying to use their looks to shortcut through life? Does marriage ever mean anything anymore? There's high divorce rates. There's high infidelity rates. First off, Andrew, we got to talk about Leigh Fong Tao, man, because she kind of looks like Adriana Lima, a little bit of a Latina look a little bit Andrew, but she might have like just been saying some crazy stuff to pop off because I'll tell you this, the girl who actually won don't to toy Andrew, she would never say stuff like that. She she too proper. No, no. And also I would say this whole thing is just a very pretty person thing. Like you have to be very, very good looking, essentially to be a sugar baby. I'm not saying you have to be a model, but like, yeah, to get paid to be in a relationship with an older guy, you have to just be good looking. Like you're not just an average girl, depending on how the guy looks or what his desires are. Also interestingly enough, Andrew, when T Fong Tao has a very similar name, Andrew is about to become the first Vietnamese woman to be a self made billionaire in Vietnam off airlines. OK, but her airlines got huge valuations, not completely because but in part because she's cool doing stuff like sexy stewardesses. Oh, huge valuations for that. Yeah, yeah. Yes. Amen. They about they know what men want, man. That's really interesting. Yeah, I mean, I also think that just you shouldn't take dating or marriage advice from someone who's famous for being good looking. I just don't think that's a good idea. That's the best person. No, that's just not a good idea. I'm against it. Yeah, clearly they value beauty queens, though, because Fong Tao, the beauty queen one, she actually lectures at colleges sometimes. And I think that that's why people were mad, man, because let's be honest, Andrew, she's speaking of a dynamic that has probably existed for millennia, right? But then, you know, women's rights and there's modern society and there's modern progress in this and there's capitalism, the development of the nuclear family. It seems like we've almost moved away from it. And is it making like a return back to the old mistress concubine harem days? I don't know. I don't. I think that a lot of people don't like it because it feels like she's normalizing this behavior. Of course, this thing has happened and always kind of does happen low key. But JFK, I mean, American presidents, politicians, whatever to talk about it and normalize it is kind of weird, I guess. So is it becoming more normalized? Andrew Feichong Roura was a famous dating show in China that is famous for producing this quote. I would rather cry in the back of a BMW than smile on the back of a bicycle. And this went like hyper. First of all, there's a pretty big gap between a bicycle and a BMW guy. She didn't say civic. And by the way, before we get in the comment section, I do want to be clear that there is a difference between sugar babies and sugar dating. Sugar babies can be in a relationship with an older guy who has a family and that's common. That's a sugar baby. But as sugar dating, she's referring to just dating for finding like a financially stable man and taking that into a strong consideration. Right. There's probably a range of what she's referring to. Let's be honest. And I think she is referring to both that both should be OK as long as all parties are known and educated and OK. I told you, man, she didn't say sugar baby. She just said sugary dating like sprinkling a little bit of sugar crystals on a dating. She also referred to sugar babies. Somebody said all these high value men have age limits and she just has a financial requirement. Both are sort of unfair standards, but a lot of people have them. Right. Is it unfair standards if you have a look and age requirement for dating? Like a lot of like celebrities, Leonardo DiCaprio, they'll date younger. But then you're saying in money status, youth and beauty, blah, blah, blah. It's just a trans people. People just are all different metrics. Are they all shallow, unfair metrics? Somebody said as long as both parties are OK, then it's OK with me. Right. Yeah. I mean, that's a pretty neutral state. She did quote and she did essentially say that she would not want to be a third party that's in a non consensual relationship, meaning like that she didn't know that she was the mistress. She would like to know everybody needs to know that there's a sugar baby. I do think in Asia, Andrew, sort of the financial fitment or the transactional like equation nature of relationships, it seems to be a lot more outspoken. Whereas in America, it's almost like it's weird. It's like people are supposed to be more blue-pilled, I guess, when they're talking about the motivations behind marriage. Right. Right. Right. Yeah. And maybe it's because immigrants have always been in certain situations where somebody's like visa is running out and they need to get married. You know what I mean? Like white people are just a heritage of America is they're not going to run into that situation where the green cards running out and people need to switch over to PR and all this stuff. Anyway, somebody said only in Americanized culture do they pick broke tall looking guys that are Romeo chads over the way less good looking, less tall, richer guy. Yeah. So I guess which world would you want to live in, David? An extremely look-centric world or an extremely financially focused world? Now, I only say this as the two examples because there's always an argument because there's a lot of guys on the internet who are like, ah, women just care about looks. They want to chat a good looking guy. That's all they care about. But then they go, maybe they become a passport bro, go to a different country where their money goes further and then they become the rich guy in that country and then they get to use that to get women, right? Or to date women. Right. Right. Right. You're saying they get to become the Romeo of that. Yes. So then are both systems unfair or not? Because I'll say this, like for example in India where they do have quite a few still arranged marriages, you don't think that those two families who are arranging the marriage aren't talking about financials? Yeah. I mean, that's, that's almost just fundamental matchmaking too, right? Yeah. This is a bunch of comments against her. I can't believe this woman is lecturing this garbage out of university. This explains everything about how many young women are seen to behave around foreign men. And someone said, listen to your rubbish man and date financial. You think that women want to listen to you and date old men on old motorbikes? Yeah. No, that's true. Because a lot of people ride motorbikes in Vietnam. But if you're, you're Fong Tao, you're probably in a whip. Yeah, this comment said something interesting. It was like, yeah, sure, you might get more money from that old bloke, but you won't appreciate your relationship and your connection as much because you won't be satisfied with that relationship. No, she said you won't be satisfying the soul in a relationship with an oldie. You guys didn't even grow up in the same era. Yeah. Yeah. I think there's something of that. That makes sense. Another comment was like, from apparently a woman that said, it's 2023 and I hope women would have higher standards for themselves. She is promoting an Asian stereotype, especially for older men. Somebody said, what are you talking about? All women around the world are capitalizing online for donations, gifts, only fans, only plans, all types of things. Nowadays, what is going on? Even the Christians are getting divorced, man. What's going on in America? I gotta say that I could not date a woman seriously if she was ever a sugar baby. That would be super weird to me. And I would rather date a woman who was hustling as a streamer or maybe even had her own OF page than a woman who was a sugar baby. I don't know. It just seems like a weird judgment of character. What if she was a sugar baby that just had conversations? You don't know what was going on? Somebody said, my mom worked and brought up three children. She still does. What's going on with just our values nowadays? What just everybody wants entitlement? Everybody just wants a rich life to be what they don't even want to be a rich wife anymore, because being a wife is too hard. They just want to be a rich mistress. What is going on? Yeah, that is weird. I think that there and this is to kind of wrap up the video. I think there's a couple problems. I think there's a lot of people who don't want to work, but I understand that women, you know, they have kids, they have to take care of kids too. So I get that why the stay at home as as the stay at home mom idea has decreased. I feel like it's kind of making a comeback because it's it is a lot of work to be a mother or a wife, you know, well, what you end up doing is like either asking your parents to take care of your kid while you're at work or you hire a nanny, which is like unbelievably expensive due to labor costs and just the structure of everything in America. But then also, I just think people are just being so caught up in just lifestyle. You mean their own life? Yeah, just lifestyle about how pleasant and material things. Yeah, I think it does matter a rural to city split because in the city, you see a lot more materialism because a lot more materialism is sort of like shot at you through the stimulus of just everywhere. Yeah, you know what I mean? So it's like it's very prevalent in big cities. I'm sure Fong Tao was referring to a situation that would occur more in Ho Chi Minh city Saigon or Hanoi than just like the countryside. Yeah, yeah. Also, I mean, at the end of the day, who really loses out, David, it's the it's the average and below average dude, man, that who doesn't have a lot of money or doesn't have all the looks, they're losing out. And that's why a lot of the comments are concerned about the future because they feel like if this attitude continues to grow and spread, then where does that leave regular man? And by the way, guys, I don't think this is a majority of people. I think it's just a growing niche of people. You could say like society used to be like that in the dynastic imperial, like King Queen days, and it's almost like went away from it. It's almost like circling back around right now. But I mean, I think I like I went to Canada. I saw a lot of people still in some really like structural middle class relationships. Maybe there needs to be a comeback to a more of a simple laugh, you know, man, these people out here, they just trying to complicate things. They want so many things out of life. They want everything out of life. You know, the reason that I brought up that Fong Tao, Le Fong Tao, the beauty queen, is that so at odds with Fong Tao, the self made billionaire through Vietnam air, it's almost like, do you think it's almost like nowadays, obviously it seems more achievable to be Le Fong Tao than to be Win T Fong Tao, the woman who started the airline. Right. It's easier to just use your looks and get something quickly out of it versus work your ass off, invest for like 20 years, do a bunch of work, create a company and then become rich. Right. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I've seen a lot more beauty pageant contestants than obviously just billionaires. Yeah. And at the end of the day, listen, this is a pretty person thing to do. Like whether you're a sugar baby and you're a guy or a sugar baby and you're a girl, essentially you have to be pretty good looking and like the average looking woman doesn't even have this opportunity really. Right. Right. So it's it's just all these things are catering towards like beauty and beautiful women. But that's also a man's fault too for buying into it. But then where does that leave average women where they're like, well, I want to look good too so that my life is easier. So then so that everybody just focus more on what average women are getting denied right now the opportunity to be a sugar baby. Yeah. But but then but then I don't know if that's true because then there's a there's a variety of different sugar daddies too. Like the cooler looking ones probably I don't know guys. Who knows guys, man? Let us know what you think in the comments of which section below. I would say she's speaking the unspoken, but I can see as somebody who's like in a position of power, you're like not supposed to speak the unspoken, even though there's some like harsh reality of like raw human nature behind it. 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