 it may not progress in the same way with autistic people than others, because we don't tend to be, I mean, some of you are a typical zone, but we don't tend to be as sort of adherents to social norms if it doesn't suit us or if it doesn't fit us. Some people might not want to live with a partner. Some people might not want to spend every night on the couch sort of watching TV with a partner. They might want to be off doing their own thing, you know, they may not want to see you more than once or twice a week, even. You need to ask and not sort of enforce greater sort of societal expectations on the progression of the relationship.