 Hey everyone, welcome to another live video here on the NARC Survivor Channel, I hope everyone is doing okay, I'm just out here, how to beat the Narcissist at their own game, to beat the Narcissist at their own game, it's not about trying to win, it's not about trying to beat them, it's not about fighting against them, it's more about going within yourself I'm just no longer being a winning participant in their game, because Narcissists, they want to play, as I've said in some of my other videos, it's a very well known quote in this community, never wrestle with a pig, you might get dirty and besides the pig likes it, and it's true, because everything they do is designed to bait you into an argument, it's designed to bait you into another one of their games, and you just have to decide that you're not going to do that, you're not going to be that winning participant that they need you to be, but it is true that they also like it, even when you're not a winning participant, they like that too, they do like it when you resist them, because when you resist them, it makes them feel powerful, it makes them feel like they have power over you, so what I'm saying is whether you are a willing participant or an unwilling participant in the game, they're going to get supply either way, there's only one way to deal with a Narcissist, and that is to not deal with them at all, the game never stops, the only thing they know how to do is to replay the environment that they were taught in childhood, and when they were children, the games never stopped, so the game isn't going to stop now, it's all they know, and like they say you can't teach an old dog new tricks, and even a young dog, you can't teach a young dog new tricks unless you separate it from the rest of the pack, something to think about, something to think about, anyway I would like to hear from you, please share with me some ways that you have beat the Narcissist at their own game, I'm sure many of you have done that already, or maybe you're in the process of doing that, either way I would like to hear from you, so please share your thoughts below, I'm out at Scotts Bay in Wales, taking the sights and just relax and enjoy partake in the beauty, Nicole says a Narcissist took me to court and blamed me for telecommunications harassment, they were gaslighting me on social media, yeah they're always going to blame you, whatever happens, whatever they do to you, they will blame you for your own abuse, that's just what Narcissists do, denial, projection, blame shifting and gaslighting and the double bind as well, those are their favourite tricks in their toolbox, cupcake explosion says short concise discussions when you must talk to them, definitely if you have to talk to the Narcissist keep it short and sweet, don't feed into it too much and anyway of course as we know with Narcissists you can only go so deep they can't handle deep conversations, really fries their brains so of course they can't handle that anyway, Mandy Alaphif says looks amazing there, could do with a break, there's your condonia, let's all come down, walk in the sand here, play some beats, eat some ice cream, let's have a survivors party, celebrate being away from these Narcissists, Nicole Parsley says still trying to hoover I don't pay attention, yeah that's good you know they will try to hoover you but it never has anything to do with you, they can't even perceive of you really, all they can really see is whatever benefits or doesn't benefit them, Shaney says no contact, the longer you're away from them the fog starts to lift and you see the game they're playing, that's very true, it's like Alice in Wonderland, you leave the rabbit hole and you start to realise it was all just a fantasy, was it real or not, who knows who cares, the point is you're out there now and you probably don't want to go back, anyway I'd just like to thank you for joining me here at the beach this evening, I hope you enjoyed it and I hope that this information has been helpful to you, please give the video a thumbs up if it vibes with you, share your thoughts in the comments, share the video, click the subscribe button if you haven't subscribed yet and there will be more premieres tomorrow, have a great day.