 to talk together and laugh and happily do good turns for one another, to read eloquent books together, sometimes to joke around, sometimes to be an earnest, now and then to disagree without any hate as if somebody might disagree with himself, and to enjoy that quite rare dissension as the spice to our more frequent agreement, now to teach the others and now to learn from them, to miss those who were away and to greet them with gladness when they came back. These signs and others like them coming from the hearts of those who love and who return the love of their friends, signs from the countenance, the tongue, the eyes, and a thousand free and easy gestures were the tender to set our minds afire and to forge from the many but one. Lord our God, grant us the grace of such friendships and teach us to love our friends and you.