 I keep getting this question over and over again from both male and female, lesbian and straight and transgender alike across the board. I really want to find a meaningful boyfriend, but I'll just pretend that I'm okay with this meaningless sex until someone chooses me, so we ended up having sex on the first date, and I didn't even get a free dinner or an orgasm. I thought he was really into me after he sent me that dick pic, but after a week of being texted at 3am, I realized he just wanted me for the sex. I have a solution for you. Stop caring. Why'd you start caring? Seriously. Why do you care so much? Why do you care? Do you want to know the surest way to lose at poker or any game, period? You show your hand too early. So when you're getting involved with these people who show you their hand right away, they tell you in a dick pic or sometimes just straight verbally, I just want to have sex. I'm not looking for anything serious. I don't want to be my boyfriend. I don't want to be my girlfriend. Now you have the advantage at this point, because once someone tells you exactly what it is that they're looking for, you can manipulate them in any way, shape, or form possible because you already see what their motivators are. So the fact that these people are playing you makes no sense. Nice guys finish last. Now, suckers join races that they aren't even registered for. Suckers go into jobs and do all the job requirements when they're not even on the payroll. I'm a y'all out here straight acting like free executive assistants for these two timers. Booking a trip that I'm not invited on. Let me just look up some flights for you in some neighboring hotels in the area. Five star or four? Do you need your resume retyped, sir? I'm going to book your colonoscopy. I'm going to drive you there. Then I'm going to wait in the car. We get the procedure when you come out. Hopefully you'll see me do my crossword puzzle and look over me and see someone that you love when you pick and you choose. Because I love you so much. Don't you love me back? I'm going to need you to not be that desperate for love. Why? Why do you care? Why are you giving your all to this person? And if the answer is, well, I'm just a good sweet caring person. I just can't help but give all of me when they only want some of you. You're looking for someone else to put your needs and feelings first. When you have never even done that for your damn self. If you are in a short-term non-committed slash DL relationship that you're not getting the best from, stop giving your best. If you don't enjoy the sex, stop having sex. Just make out if that's what you like to do. If you don't enjoy having your calls and texts not answered promptly because you know they're probably calling a text from somebody else. Find some other people to call and text your damn self. Have your own roster on the sideline. Stop caring about the needs, feelings, wants and desires of people who make it very clear that they only want a very specific thing from you. That's the best advice you're going to get all damn day. I'm out. We're sitting here at the Chorus building. This is Chloe. Hi. So I'm just partnered with this new awesome site called WDish and I'm doing sex and love articles on there. But what else can they find on the site? Find a lot of style and beauty things, home decoratives, entertainment stories and of course this one right here. You gotta check her out. That's me. So you guys can go to the site. I have a couple articles up. This video is actually accompanying an article that's going to be dropping today. And so yeah, this is my new thing. This is my new group. And this is my new house. This is where I sleep from now on. Living right here. I just live here from now on. Leave it on the couch. That's my new family.