 we are in the days and the night of Bibi Fatema. It's important we learn a lesson or two from the life of these great personality. Lesson or two because no doubt Sayida alaiha salam is everything that we have as lovers and followers of and Sayida as you know she has so many titles given to her either by Rasulullah or by scholars and there is one fascinating title which i want us to look at then we done that is the title of ummu abia she has so many titles zakiya zakiya radia mardia you name them and i always tell people you know these titles are not just there for the sake of being there they've got meanings they've got lessons they are oceans they carry important message for the lovers and followers of now ummu abia what does it mean literally you'll translate in arabic the mother of her father but no that's not there it indicates to three important relationships three relations between the holy prophets and Sayida alaiha salam the fast relation this name indicate is emotional relationship between the holy prophets and Sayida Fatema alaiha salam and you know the highest form of relationship is emotional relationship i always tell people people comes to me they said chef i find it very difficult to wake up for tajut this example so the question i ask people is it do you believe in tajut he said yes i believe in it but why you don't wake up i don't know maybe tiredness maybe work i said no because you are not emotionally connected with it whenever you are emotionally connected with something irrespective of the pain and difficulties you will attempt to it emotional connection is crucial and i always mention women are good at that you know women when they are in relation they are highly emotionally connected to certain extent sometimes when there's talak divorce a woman will look at the husband and say look i may i'm going out of this but i will never forget you my life that's emotional connection anywhere rasulullah said fatema to umu abiha is trying to say there is emotional connection between me and fatema alaiha salam emotionally connected with fatema and there are traces of this emotional connection in the traditions of alul baits and the traditions we reported from some of the wives of prophet when discussing the relation between rasulullah and fatema alaiha salam for instance isha reported that i've not seen anyone who truly resemble rasulullah than fatema saying in fact the way she would when you would see a standing you would say rasulullah stand when you would see a certain you would say rasulullah is certain certain extension said whenever he would see a coming he would stood up and then he would make sure you go to her and he would held her he would brought her and make sure she sat where he was sitting this emotional connection so when he said umu abiha he's trying to say i am emotionally connected with fatema alaiha salam and of course you all know rasulullah did not know the love of parents you know very well he lost his mom and he lost his father beginning father then mom this call is mentioned fatema alaiha salam replaced that she replaced that to satanist in that tradition when aisha saw rasulullah kissing fatema alaiha salam said why are you kissing her like this she's a lady so la said no when i was taking to my journey of ma'raj i was giving food from juna isn't it took that food when i came back i had my time with my wife khajija and this is fatema to zahra now the question is what lesson do i in ulan food food makes a person lawful food makes a good person hans Quran mention falyanzu linsan elatame as you go about your work try as much as you come to end lawfully wallahi yes it's emotional connection we learn that but at the same time we learn also food because there is a relationship between the soul and the body when the soul is in trouble body is in trouble when the body is in trouble soul is in trouble and where does the soul get his nourishment food where does the body get his nourishment food be careful especially young ones you go out about your works about your businesses and lawfully don't evade tax don't rege tax do genuine work visabili la and Allah would put baraka because there's a big discussion about the nasha of bb fatema when they discuss about the nasha they bringing up of bb fatema ali asala this is one of the most important factor of a nasha is that the food was lawful food not just a lawful food it is from jan natal ferdaz so that is number one the second relationship that this rewaya is highlighting fatema umu abiha they call it ala kanuria is the relationship of a light which light fatema ali hasalam she joined two lights together the light of nubuwa and the light of imama rasulullah nubuwa amir al mu'mineen imama fatema ali hasalam brought them together so rasulullah said umu abiha meaning i've got this relationship of like illuminate illuminous relationship whereby her light join my light to the light of amir al mu'mineen ali hasalam and last but not least where rasulullah said fatema is the mother of her father is simply means my name remain and it will remain because of fatema tazahara you know every single person's existence your existence my existence has two sources master al-haduf and master al-baka every existence master al-haduf is your mom and your dad that's it but what will make your name remain it could be your money it could be your knowledge it could be your children when you die your name has to remain it could be good name it could be bad name now rasulullahs name remain because of fatema tazahara we have been given kufa in Allah bless fatema tazahara with all our imams and through the imams the name of rasulullah is chanted all over the world today