 Hello everyone, welcome to another NARCS by the live video. In this one I got a different topic for you. We are going to be talking about why society hates single men. Because if there is one thing that they really hate, this has got to be it. And that's what we're going to get into in this video. Yes, we're going to be talking about why society hates single men. They want us to be stuck with some woman who doesn't even care about us. A woman who's likely to be the cause to our demise. They want us to be drinking alcohol, doing drugs, going to bars, nightclubs, just wasting our time. That could otherwise be spent on working, building ourselves up as men, becoming the best versions of ourselves. I mean just imagine what better things we can do with our time. And to be wasting it chasing after women who don't even care about us. I mean how stupid is that? You want to waste months, even years of your life on a woman who just sees you as recreational use. Just an object, someone to give her attention, admiration now and again. Maybe pay for her bills, give her a place to stay. You really think that woman cares about you? You really think that most modern women these days really care about us men? You really think that they're interested in building a relationship, a connection, marriage, starting a family? Because of course that's something different. I mean you probably don't want to do that when you're a teenager or you're in your 20s. That may be a bit early for that. You want to work hard first on yourself and your life. You want to become a wise, developed and productive man so that you have something to bring to a woman's life and to start in a family so that your children have the best start in life. Instead of just going out there getting drunk every weekend, you're out of your mind just wasting your energy, wasting your youth on these women that don't even care about you. And I swear a lot of them, they don't even know that you're there. They don't even really see you. To a lot of them you are just an object and you do need to realize that. But you know what? Society is quite happy with that for you. Society wants to empower these women. Society wants you to be manipulated and controlled by these women at the bars, at the clubs, to dumb you down, to prevent you from getting ahead in life. You see what they don't want you to do is to focus on yourself, on your passions, your interests, your work. You starting that new business, you getting ahead in life, becoming powerful and successful. No, they don't want you to do that. Instead, what they want you to do is waste your time on these women who do anything with them. It's not going to go anywhere. It's not going to result in anything good for yourself. It's really not. And I can tell you the women who are watching this video right now, they may be in the live chat, they might leave a comment afterwards. They're going to agree with what I'm saying. And I know that already. I know that they will. Because the women who watch my videos, they've been involved with Narcissus. They were good women. They were there for the men that they were with. They're not like the types of women that I'm talking about, but they do know what I'm talking about. These women who are just going to waste your time. They're not looking for love, loyalty, devotion. They're not looking to follow your lead. They're not looking to submit to you so that you can build a life for them and the family that you wish to create. They're not looking to do that. But I'll tell you what they are looking to do. They're looking to come around you and take you for everything that you've got and leave you broken and destroyed to where you are no good for anyone else. You can't just go and marry another person and start a family for real. So what is this doing? What impact, what effect is this having on the world? It's tearing men down before they've even had a chance to begin, before they've even had the opportunity to meet the right woman, have a marriage, start a family, a healthy functional family. That could be something good for this world. Yeah, that's what it's preventing you from doing. When they're promoting all of this club culture, these hookups go into bars, having a few drinks with the boys every weekends. Yeah, they make it seem so cool, so trendy as though it's what you're supposed to do. And I said the normal thing you do when you're in college, when you're studying, do you really think that's a good start to your life? Can you see what society is trying to do to you? Before you've even begun at life, you've got all of these mind altering drugs in your system. You're consuming excessive amount of alcohol every week. And you know that hangover you get the next day, that's brain damage. So what good is it you're studying? Go into college every day doing your exams when you're ingesting all of these harmful and toxic substances. It's ruining your mind. It's setting you up to fail at life. And all of these hookups you're doing, these one night stands when you go into bars and clubs every week. What effect do you think that's having on you? How do you think that makes you view women? Did it make you have more or less respect for them after you did that? Now, do you think you can go off and find a suitable marriage partner and actually respect that woman? Or do you think that maybe you could have just used it for a one night stand? And she would have settled for that. Do you see how these things are impacting your mind? And many people may go to a club, knock up a girl before you know what your life is over, before you've met the right person. Or you might just meet the wrong woman who just ruins your life, just spends all your money, drains your bank account. That money you could have used for a woman that you would have married and had children with but you gave it all away just to someone who wasn't even serious about you. Someone who wasn't going to provide any value to you, to your life, to society. Because yeah, these types of women, what do they do? They drain value out of society. Take these women away. There would be nothing to tempt to entice these men from getting into these hookups, these situationships and instead they would be working hard in their studies, in their job, in their passions and interests for their future until they finally meet the right person that they marry and have children with. Now that would be better for society but society doesn't want that for us. They don't like to see men single and alone. Of course they don't like to see that. That's why there's all of this social media, there's all of these bars and nightclubs in every city in the entire world. There's all of this alcohol, there's all of these dating apps. What do you think all of this is for? Do you think it's so that we can stay single and work hard on ourselves and our lives? Of course not. It's to distract us and everywhere you look, all they do is just promote sex and hookup culture. It's everywhere you go, you can't get away from it and why? Well as I said it's to keep us down. It's to dumb us down and make us easier to control and if it isn't enough just to think about how it affects you and your health and your future. What about your ideal marriage partner? And I'm sure the women who are watching this right now they will know exactly what I'm talking about because yeah you know let's have some empathy and some compassion for the future women that we may marry. Do you think it's fair for them? We go around, we waste our lives, go into these bars, these clubs getting drunk every week, doing drugs, wasting our lives when we could have been working hard preparing for our future, preparing for these women, the women to meet at some point in the future and marry. Do you think that's fair for them? Because it's not all about us. It's not all about men and what men want. Of course we do have to consider that yes there are still some good women out there. There are women who are pure, they're loving, they're caring, they're nurturing, they're waiting for the right guy to get married, they might be waiting for you and yet society is promoting for you to go to clubs, get drunk, have hookups, that's not going to be any good for them. That's not going to be good for the ideal woman that you want to marry and have children with and it's not going to be any good for you but I'll tell you what will be good for you. If you ignore all of the distractions, you forget about what everyone else is doing, you forget about them trying to drag you off to the club, to the parties, yeah that's what the masses do, that's what they all promote but where does it get them? Where does it lead them? Does that lead them anywhere good? Of course not, it leads them nowhere and most of these people, you really think they're serious about anything, everything they do is just for recreational use, it's just for their own pleasure and enjoyment, the short-term relief, distraction, you think they're thinking about the future when they're doing that? Of course not, you think they're even thinking about you and your future if they're not even thinking about their own, no they're not, they just want to pull you into it because they know you're meant for something greater, as you know a lot of them can't stand it, they already know if they just leave you alone, they don't intervene, you're going to go off and you're going to become something great, you're going to become a very successful man, you're going to start a business of your own, you're going to make something of yourself and your life and at the end of it, the right woman is going to be there waiting for you, it's not just some woman who's waiting at the finish line, it's a woman who's being working on herself as well and that's the way that it should be, that's how it's meant to be because if you look around at everyone else and what's being promoted in society, are these things that are going to uplift us or are they self-sabotaging and self-destructive behaviors that are being promoted in society today? Yes, that's exactly what it is, society is promoting self-destructive behaviors, I mean just look at it, it's everywhere, if you really knew how damaging alcohol is to the brain, you wouldn't drink another drink for the rest of your life, if you really look into it, you research it, it's worse than some banned class A drugs, it really is, it's that damaging on the brain that hangover you get the next day that is brain damage and that doesn't mean that you can never drink for the rest of your life, I mean of course if you just have maybe one drink or rather a few drinks a month just on one occasion that probably won't affect you too much especially if you narrow it down to just one occasion every few months, once a year then that's barely going to affect you at all but what you got to think is why do you need to do that anyway? What's the point? Why do we do these stupid things? Just because it's being promoted in society we're told it's what we're supposed to do, I mean what are you expecting to happen when you go to these bars, these clubs? You think you're going to meet someone that you actually like? You think that's a good place to socialize? I mean you're pretty much just going into a dark room with bright lights flashing everywhere you can't even see because not only is it dark but these lights are blinding you and you can't even hear anything, you can't have a conversation because the music is so loud and even if there wasn't any music you still couldn't have a conversation with anyone because they're all drunk and many of them are taking drugs they're out with their minds I mean in all honesty I can't imagine any worse place to go to socialize with the loud music, the flashing lights, the darkness, the alcohol you really think that's going to lead to any deep social connection? What kinds of people do you think you're going to find there that you're going to associate with? Nobody good of course or even if you just somehow managed to find someone good it might be someone who's in a similar situation to you, someone who is misguided, misdirected yes you need the proper guidance it's a waste of time it really is just think of the amount of time you waste with women who aren't even serious about you they're not serious about the future they're not serious about commitments and not only that the time you waste go into clubs go into bars and then even the next day you're hung over you just waste the rest of the day sometimes it might affect the rest of the week messes up your sleep cycle can you see the effects that this is having on your life? Just imagine how far ahead you could be of 99% of people in the world who are all doing these degenerate and self-destructive things you could be ahead of all of them and that's exactly what I did you really think when I started this youtube channel when I was putting out these videos every day researching everything you really think I was meeting girls every day go into clubs getting drunk of course not I wasn't doing any of that but I can tell you what I was doing what I was doing is every morning I'd wake up very early have a shower of course I would feed Nala before I even begin but once Nala is fed and her litter tray is cleaned and she's sorted out for the day and I sit down on my laptop sit on the couch and I make sure the work is done every day I'd be sitting there working from seven eight o'clock in the morning until into the afternoon sometimes four or five o'clock in the afternoon I'd be there all day working then I'd go out for a couple of hours and walk about 20 minutes to the gym go to the gym for an hour maybe do some shopping buy some food walk 20 minutes back cook my dinner I'd be working again all night and then I'd go to sleep early ready to wake up the next day do it all over again every day including the weekends for years now I couldn't have done that if I wasn't disciplined and you know what I had to do before I began my youtube channel before that I was drinking alcohol not that much I engaged in activities that were very distracting and harmful to my progress before I began my youtube channel I was playing on my xbox every day for hours every night and I was even drinking alcohol every week a few cans a week smoking weed vaping even drinking energy drinks lots of coffee I gave all of that up before I began my youtube channel and then one year after I began my youtube I then cut off eating meat dairy products I became a vegan I had to create a new self image I had to discipline myself to become a role model I mean I can't just talk about this stuff without being it myself what that was just sneezing randomly but yes I had to discipline and change everything about myself and my life and I'm not saying that it was easy to do that just imagine just pretty much overnight I went from drinking alcohol smoking cannabis vaping playing xbox every day I was addicted to video games drinking lots of coffee eating meat dairy products energy drinks up late every night just playing on my xbox till like one two o'clock in the morning yeah I gave up all of that and then at the beginning of 2018 not to mention that this was recently after a breakup with a narcissist and also it was after I went through a lot of things I was being gangstalked I attempted suicide and as I mentioned before in my earlier videos when I attempted suicide I was kind of out of my mind I overdosed on tablets and then I called an ambulance they came in and they assaulted me ended up there in the hospital they were still assaulting me there I was trying to fall asleep the entire night they kept coughing keeping keeping me awake and then they accused me of assaulting them even though I wasn't even conscious at the time and then I got arrested they put me in a cell overnight for something I didn't even do meanwhile I was like covered in bruises from head to toe had a chunk of my fuck missing but yeah they did all of that to me and then they even took me to court and gave me 180 hours of community service which I had to serve over the next few months which was actually while I was researching narcissism when I first found out about it yeah I went through all of that and honestly that was just the beginning I went through so much after that as well and I maintained my discipline and honestly all of the things I went through all of the suffering it didn't make me weaker it didn't break me down it actually helped me to build my character even more to become the man that I am today and even along this journey I mean it's been it's been about six years of researching narcissistic personality disorder six years and as you can probably imagine along that journey things got far far worse than they were in the beginning and I kept at it I kept doing what I needed to do I never went back to drinking alcohol yeah I smoked cannabis a few times but I was never doing it regularly I was never addicted to anything other than that I stayed away from caffeine alcohol video games and I remained a vegan this entire time I stayed disciplined even with relationships I mean yeah I got involved with a few narcissists over the last few years but even then I was thinking about long term I was thinking about marriage I mean I've always been that person it's just other people always messed me around and that's why I've got to get on here and give you this advice because I'm not just telling you what I think is right for you to do I've experienced life myself I've been through it all already I've got the knowledge the wisdom the experience as a man I'm not a boy who has never experienced anything in my life I've got the experiences I've been there I've done it already so I'm qualified to give this advice and I can tell you most of the women out there they're just going to be wasting your time they're just going to drain your bank account they're going to empty your wallet they're going to waste your time and it's just not going to get you anywhere it's not going to be any good for them as well but what it is good for is the people who want to manipulate and control you and keep you down and guess what women and sex that is a very powerful way to do that it really is do you know how many men's lives have been ruined by manipulative women or by drugs bars nightclubs alcohol do you know how many men's lives have been ruined by that so yes you need to be very careful and this video this video right here this could be it this could be the video that changes your life forever that determines how your future pans out this could be that one video for you that prevents you from getting into all sorts of trouble with the wrong types of people and instead it motivates you to continue on your path to becoming successful and then meeting and marrying the woman of your dreams and starting a family with the woman the marriage the children that you otherwise would never have had if you did not watch this video right now because otherwise who knows what else could happen just imagine how many men out there they altered the course of events in their lives of how it otherwise could have turned out for them to where they may have married a certain girl and had a family with the right person but then that never happened because they thought it'd be a good idea to go with the boys go to these clubs get drunk do drugs have hookups have one nightstands and what at the expense of your future this is why I say delayed gratification it's always best instant gratification it never leads anywhere good I mean that doesn't mean you can never enjoy yourself of course not you can just not all the time and set goals for yourself it doesn't have to be big goals small goals of a short periods of time set a few little goals every day a few little things that you need to do and then over time I can measure up to something big over one month one year wherever it may be once you complete that goal once you do everything that you set out to achieve over one month six months one year then that is your time to reward yourself as long as you do it responsibly sensibly we need to be responsible we can't just go out being impulsive and reckless we have a duty as men to be sensible in our lives so that we are ready and prepared for the right woman when she comes into our lives and then we have the right family the right children we do the right thing for society and for future generations to come yes I do believe that that is our duty I do believe that we are all responsible and I know I get it I mean there's all of this indoctrination we're always being told who we need to be what we need to do and all of these things they just make it seem so normal all of these things that people are doing these days so I get that I understand but like I said this is the video for you now this is the video that could impact the rest of your life it could change everything for you just this one video because it's showing you how things need to be it's telling you the right way to live and I'm not saying that I am the ultimate bearer of truth I mean just think about it some of the stuff it really is common sense you really think drinking alcohol doing drugs going to clubs one night stands having a hookups with women who don't even care about you all of these types of things you really think that's going to lead anywhere good probably not but society they hate single men because they want to manipulate and control us they want us to be stuck with some manipulative woman so that we don't go after our goals so that we don't become the best versions of ourselves because when you do that it does make it very difficult for them to control you a powerful man is one who is alone not a man who is surrounded by a bunch of women that is a weak man that is a man who is caved in to his desires he has no discipline no self-control he has no mission no purpose in life and that's not saying that you've just got to be against all women I'm not saying that you can love women just love them from afar you don't need to be there all the time you've got to focus on you especially if you're a young man especially if you're in your especially if you're in your teens you're in your 20s even your 30s you don't need to be thinking about marriage yet not until you're at least 35 you've got to work hard you've got to get your life together avoid all these distractions it's just not going to lead you anywhere good these women are not for you they don't care about you they really don't they're just using you for money or validation those are the only two things that they want you really think most women these days are concerned about raising a family taking care of their men you really think most women these days are concerned about that if they were so concerned about that then why would the divorce rate be so high and why are so many women unmarried and single into their 30s and 40s it's so common these days if they care so much about us how can that be possible all things to think about I can't tell you what to do I can't control your decisions your life this is all on you I've been through it I've been out into the world I've experienced life I'm 35 years old this month in all honesty I've got more wisdom more experience than most men even if they lived a thousand years and that's with no exaggeration and I think it shows in what I say so my advice to you I would say it would be wise to take my advice again I'm not saying you can't ever have any fun I'm not saying that at all you can reward yourself sometimes yes just don't overdo it don't throw all of your hard work and dedication away and you can have some fun now and again just don't make a habit of it and don't let it extend into too much time to where it is take it up your work time or into things that should matter to you other than that you can have some fun I mean yeah if it's like once a month once every few months you can go to the bar have a couple of drinks just don't be out of your mind to where might end up in a fight or someone steals your wallets or something stupid like that don't overdo it don't put yourself in these situations to where you could be exploited just be careful be sensible no one else is looking out for you and the way that you can look out for you I swear these cartons are useless there's always something in this but you can never get it you have to point the straw in the right direction it is good juice all right it's my advice for you and this is especially going out for younger men you're in your teens your 20s especially you need to be following this advice I want the best for you I don't want you to just throw your life away just because of some party it's just because of these manipulative women who aren't really there for you they don't really care about you they're not thinking about your future and they don't want you to think about it either but I am thinking about that for you I want the best for men in today's society and unfortunately not many people do not many people do care but that's it and if this video was beneficial for you hit that thumbs up button down below it will take you two seconds and it will help to get this message out there to other men so that they can see it and who knows it may prevent a lot of problems in people's lives it could change someone's life so just two seconds hit that thumbs up button down below show your support and I know it's a different topic today but let me know what you think about it in the comment section down below and hit that subscribe 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