 The older I get, the more I believe that the most radical thing you can do is love yourself as God loves you. Completely. Don't let anyone tell you you cannot love all the people you have been and all the people you will be. Live into your yes and. When you refuse to limit yourself, when you insist on loving all of yourself, you live into the fullness of a God who is fluid, a God who shatters boundaries, a God who is present even in the yet unformed spaces. This love is the good news of the Gospel and in it you are and always have been whole.