 I love my husband. I've been with him for 18 years coming up and I have some friends with benefits, but I am looking for someone else to be like in a relationship with that fulfills some needs that I'm not getting. This is what happens when you have a distorted perspective on what a relationship actually is about. Now you're probably not into polyamory like she is, but you might have the same mentality. You're looking for your relationships to completely fill you, but they can't do that. One of the reasons that God created marriage is that we can serve one another sacrificially within that covenant bond. The sacrifice and love within that relationship is supposed to be a reflection of God's sacrifice and love for us. Yes, God designed marriage to fulfill some of our earthly needs, like some of our sexual needs and our companion need for companionship, but that doesn't mean that all of our needs are going to be met in that one person. It just doesn't happen. So instead of trying to get more from that person, we should be seeing how we can serve them better. Jesus didn't enter a relationship with us to fulfill his needs, but rather to serve us sacrificially, despite the fact that we didn't even deserve it.