 I want to give you a visual to go along with this because this will help determine whether or not it is safe to move into medium disclosure. Brene Brown talks about the vulnerability jelly bean jar. So if I'm speaking to AJ and I've never met him before, I have to imagine that there is a jelly bean jar between AJ and myself. And if I ask AJ a question, AJ now has to answer that question, which means he has to throw a few jelly beans in that jar. If I ask that question again, AJ has to contribute a few more jelly beans to that jar. At this point, he's the one who's put all the jelly beans in the jar. And if I ask too many questions in a row, the pressure and tension of having to contribute and answer those questions continues to build. In interactions, you can only ask about three to four questions in a row before that interaction collapses on itself due to AJ being the one who's contributing, who's being the most vulnerable.