 Welcome back guys, this is Unfinished, the only place where we get to finish and finish matters. Today we're talking about Valentine's because again we are in the Love Month which takes us to our next question. Do you think it's compulsory to have red on Valentine's? Let me know what you think in the comments section. It's compulsory, we found it that way so continue that route. It's an occasion for the people in love. It depends on the couples. For me nowadays it's just like a national colour which I don't like. So I think it's based on the couples for them to decide if we are going for red or for any colour. But I don't think it's necessary for red to be on Valentine's. I don't think it's compulsory but as a symbol I see people take red as a symbol of love. So that's why people embrace it and I think people put on that attire to embrace Valentine's Eve. So it's not compulsory but it's just because they want to embrace it. So you see somebody who has put on red is just because they want to embrace the day and to look good. I'd say if you have a good thing going Valentine's is a special time to showcase your bond with your partner to spend quality time and to also grow and take relationships to another level. I'd say the level of your relationship might dictate that but for me it's not really a must that blend the colour. What matters is what you really have going on. It's kind of important. It's a day where as I said it's a day where we spread love and it's something that's taken to another level. I would say it's kind of a day that we should not far to keep in our calendars every year. It brings new memories, old and new according to me. It's my mom's birthday so I think she expects a lot from me and I have no gift for her but it's the most important day according to her. And according to culture wise I don't know. Siji kitamboka wali ko api yana mawa but at the moment as well as money partiyam to mawa that's my mom. No no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no. Ya kwa nzaya redi na choma. Ya na fayangatuna kama fala. Oh I red. Actually it's a good theme yes but the love doesn't come from the clothes or the red colour it comes from the theme. So tiki se matu na baki red by the mask. Siyo ni, siyo ni any importance? Bajuna ni mtib vigorumu, mbo kufiwero mbondi mixturei. Hirawiku kufiwe inu nama wa mbo kufiwero inu w baldia That's not compulsory but if you guys decide to do it, ya. You can. That's not compulsory. The best part of it is that you guys will enjoy. Whatsoever. But i tend to tell guys to just put on red but not that compulsory. Nah.. 92 compulsory Aze daini maybe on your end. I gave up on such kind of stuff Sandu maanafia We found it before we were wearing red So it's like something is a trend People are following But to me I don't think it's a must It's not a must But for the roses I guess red is the best Ayon yu puzi Yon yu shamba Yosil asim over red Boru me pigaluku ya kusafi Ume toke Yon yu kubestu Lakin nika kila mtuna Kila mtuna stareza Kekanda kuva rea di elo Une zavatu I know about that You're supposed to wear red on valentine Only the women or everybody Yeah Why not? Why not? Yeah I don't wear red so much Okay for the ladies For the gents now So I don't wear red too much But let them be Let them be in red actually That's cliche Yeah But those ones who love red No hard feelings I don't think it's compulsory Although I actually think it's important Though sometimes people tend to overdo it Na putam tam eva red kusuka jua di tindi That's a bit too much If it was me I'd probably wear black and white A red watch, a red something Just have a pinch of red You don't have to like overdo it But anyway, that's just my opinion Which takes us to our next question Do you think men should get gifts and flowers In valentines? Let me know what you think in the comments section It's okay Kama dema kuna wezo aki kubahia weboy Receive to Yeah Siyomba No Juh Wezo gifts At least na skia fitu to kipaia Kitwingine at least Ununukona apatina At least na kupiaia kitu Adi una zampaia kitu Why not? Yeah, they should also get gifts Because If you put yourself that you are the man And you have a lady You would have given them the Gifts Not as give them the gifts For us also to show them That we also love them Sikilasa unadipen kumuna ume Genetan letia Atoelazma umusho That you can also give him Yeah, yeah, they should See, they are One half of the relationship And they also emotional people They also deserve to be remembered I think it's a wrong mindset Kukwati, the ladies are the price They can also give too They deserve to be rewarded and appreciated Yeah, monatu sipewe Kama ma demo na ita kasa Na adisitu piaia to skia What does it mean na fanyangam na tamani mawa Aya tamini piaia na skia Kama kunaio feeling Tutataka kupaia zengina But kama kunaio feeling Can give them alch Mimi niki piaia na piaia Labda kuna kiki tumuna skiaanga Kitudu niko shuata uniki kupaia leo Kesho if you don't put them well in water Ni ni zisha kufa So Kama huna anything to do with them Maybe let's try other things Still has mama on To maybe to have a kind memory Maybe it can give you good memories Let's say something like that Yes, of course Personally I do I don't just expect from him Yes, he should also Like ladies should also give to their husbands Or their partners Or their fiancys That is something they should also be doing They should not just There have been so much of boy child Nafini liwa sana So we should also appreciate them Like if you are a wife Appreciate your husband If you are a fianc And you appreciate your partner Don't just sit there To put pressure on the guy At your not received anything And you what are you doing As a girl or as a lady Yes, as much as we expect from mothers You should also play your role To appreciate another person It's not also about Girlfriend, boyfriend Or fiancys, it's also about family Maybe it's your mom Appreciate them Don't just wait like To be any, let's just play our roles well Men also Are human beings and they should also expect flowers Ya Because if you are providing Then you should provide We need to do what we call 50-50 Ya, you do me, I do you Ya, the best okay Definitely if you are into the dude So if you want to spoil, let do in a prize Ya Love should go both ways If I love him I should get him a gift too He's my lover Ya, so I guess we should get a gift too Yes, aposamina support Ya, men Ya, men nupitia vituming At least tadi madem Apreciatumen kwa sosayat Yataka kumekonaizi mambosa, femi said Apreciatumen We also need some love To be appreciated Ya I don't like me cut flowers so much You know Better to give us something You know like chocolate Or book or anything The flowers you buy them And you throw them away And they're full of chemicals So it's not so good Ya The ones that actually deserve Ya, the ones that have Wanyakwana That genuine love they deserve But the other ones Wajepan geto Ulajotunakwana feelings So ya Ya, don't mind the wallets Or a pair of socks Just crazy much for me Ya, we love gifts as well So ya As much as we like giving them out We also like receiving them Ya Absolutely I feel like this is undebatable Men deserve love too And I feel like love is between two people So if your man is appreciating you And you are not doing it But does that mean the love is one sided? So this year make sure you get your man Those kicks that he wanted That perfume he's been wanting for a long time Get him flowers if you have to Just make sure he feels appreciated We have come to the end of the show Thank you for watching I am your host Eski Gichonga Thank you to the crew behind me That is Eve, Judith, Brenda And Gina Also shout out to everyone that's watching me at home Parents and everybody Happy Valentine's That's a blur