 When my ex and I broke up, I took a long time to heal. And after a while, I thought I was okay now. I was just like, I'm good. Like I don't even care about him, whatever. And then I got into a relationship now with Matt. And I started getting triggered with different things that I didn't even realize that I was like, oh, shit, I'm the trigger. Why? I thought I was okay. But that's because I was healed in the context of me being single. But I still needed to heal that part of me who loves. That can only come about when you are faced with the same circumstances.