 Hello everyone, welcome to another NARC survivor live video as you can see I'm just out here at the river today Just enjoying a nice walk. So yeah in this video. We're gonna talk about What happens when you run into them after no contact After you've Stop talking to them for a while You haven't seen them for some time And then you run into them again. It could be At a party Or in a restaurant maybe you're walking on the beach could be anywhere, but you see them and They may Try to love bomb you again if they believe that you are still susceptible To their manipulation then they will try to pull you back in to the relationship because They believe that they have a chance and whether they do or not Well, only you will know that. I mean, it's really your choice and again Whether you want to give them another chance or not but I would take a guess and say that you wouldn't do that after you have watched my videos and You understand enough about them now, but yeah, that's one thing that they may try to do If they believe that they still have a chance If they believe that you've forgotten about what they did to you They believe that you are forgiving them Then that's what they're gonna do But if they know that they can't do that Then They're gonna provoke you to react in some way they're gonna do something to try and get under your skin maybe they'll If they're with someone else They might use them to provoke you to try to make you envious or jealous That's typically what they're gonna do or They will deliberately say something in the conversation that you're uncomfortable with When some cases if you're lucky They might just completely ignore you They might not even look in your direction. They might just pretend you're not even there and that is really the Best result that you can get When you run into one of these people, I'm just gonna let the boat pass See the boat there I'll have to jump on one of those sometime They have time in the next few days Yeah, they're gonna try and get under your skin in some way. I Mean that's just the way it works with them. It's either You accept Their proposal or they're gonna turn against you Because remember they have a black and white mentality either with them or against them and there's just no in between So that's just how it's gonna be. It's either they're gonna love bomb you or they will try and get under your skin And if they do try to love bomb you they may even come back with the fake apology and acting like they've changed and things are so much different now and They're sorry for what they did to you and they want to make it up to you But as always they will say that in the beginning but guaranteed they will never follow it up with action It's just future faking. They're only coming back to get something out of you Because they think that you're willing to give it to them But when they know they haven't got a chance then you can expect them to try and hurt you in some way But if they know that not only do they not have a chance and they also cannot hurt you Then they're just gonna completely ignore you Because at that point you really have nothing to offer them anyway If you're not gonna give them a positive or negative response And you're just gonna gray rock You're gonna act indifferent As though they no longer anything significant in your life And why would they even waste their time with you, but this is the thing though when that does happen Many of you take that as rejection when they don't even care about you as a person They don't even see was a separate person So it's not really a rejection at all It's just you either gonna give them something or You have no use to them. So if you're not gonna give them a positive or negative reaction But you're not gonna give them whether it's supply or Money a place to stay Whatever it is that they want if you're not gonna give them that and they know that why would they waste their time on you? That would be a waste of their energy. So that's just how you got to see it Because it's the truth you have to remember that narcissists are self-absorbed and they lack empathy. They don't care about you all they care about is what they want and And Yeah, I mean they're only going to if you run into them Wherever it may be They're only going to come up to you or start a conversation with you if they believe they can get something out of you You have to remember they are not like normal people that is the only thing they think about is what they can get and Yeah, if it happens to you, I mean You know, just don't think too much about anything that they say or anything that they're doing and Just focus on what you've got to do for the day because that's what it's about As soon as they see you in their radar It's all about pulling you out of your reality and pulling you into this so You just got to remember who you are what you value in life and Where you're going don't worry about them and don't worry about what they're trying to do It should be of no concern to you once you know what they're about and yeah, that's all you really need to know I love this river though. It's really nice peaceful walk down here I wish you the other day at night time and I knew I had to come back to make a video and It's perfect weather every day here as well. Okay. Thank you all for watching If you enjoyed it as always, please give it a thumbs up. It helps to support the community Spreads the awareness and I will talk to you in another video very soon