 How to get revenge on the narcissist? The narcissist manipulated you They tricked you they lured you in and then they devalued and degraded you They made you feel like nothing you did was ever enough They tricked you into doing more and more for them, which they never appreciated They insulted you and put you down They put you beneath them They treated you with contempt And then when they were done with you, they got rid of you They discarded you they robbed you of everything that was good about you So naturally you may want revenge You may want to see them suffer and return for what they have done to you I Understand that but getting revenge directly is not the right way to go about it It may have a negative effect on you It may bring you bad karma and not only that But the narcissist will just play the victim They will tell everyone that you've done something to them and Then they're going to get you in more trouble So getting revenge directly. It's not even worth your time Don't waste your time doing that because it's not going to work But what will work is when you focus on yourself at your own life Focus on making your life better Because success is the best revenge You have to look at what these narcissists want What they value in life what they desire and then Become that Achieve that because they're very envious and jealous They always feel like they're missing out on something They always think the grass is greener on the other side So show them that it is and that will be your revenge Because nothing hurts the narcissist more than that More than feeder like they've lost out on something that could have helped them Because remember what they care about themselves All they care about is getting what they want And if they feel like they couldn't get what they wanted Then they're gonna feel like they have failed They may even feel regret And that will be your revenge But it's no good trying to get revenge directly It's not going to work They may not even notice And they may not even attribute it as something that you've done So don't waste your time Trying to get revenge directly on the narcissist Remember If you wrestle with a pig You will get dirty And besides the pig likes it so don't wrestle with the pig Don't wrestle with these knocks It's not going to serve you to go down to their level On their playing field Where they've had years of practice It's not going to serve you to do that and anyway If you try to get revenge It's just gonna be tit for tat They're just gonna try and get revenge on you again And you're gonna go round in circles. It's never gonna end And that's not what you want You want peace You want to forget about them and move on because what you really want is a happy and fulfilling life And that's gonna hurt them more than anything else anyway That's gonna be your revenge But even your success may also trigger them to want revenge They may see it as an attack and they may lash out at you So protect yourself Be cautious Because you never know what they're gonna do But yeah, that's really your best revenge. It's your success Julie Withenton says coercion control is Punishable in the UK for five years. Is that true? I believe that is right But just double-check it on Google just in case I'm wrong and stalking as well Is punishable by Up to 14 years imprisonment in the UK. These are serious crimes harassment not leaving people alone trying to Have a negative impact on people's lives These things are not okay, and they are not welcome in our society, but this is what narcissists do and Sometimes the Lord doesn't always notice so accept these things So these narcissists end up getting away with it and often these These victims They are the ones who get punished They are the ones who get arrested Put in jail When they are the victims, they're the ones Who had to go through all of that And after everything the narcissist did to them this happens more than we realize That's why we all need to stand up We need to stand together and continue To support this community. We can't let any more innocent victims suffer They've already been through enough The last thing they need When the narcissist is ready to discard them It's for them to Get in trouble with the law Lose their job Lose their family and friends Over false accusations Which is now a very common thing with these narcissists When they're ready to discard And it's something you should all be very cautious of Because they're all using us now So please be aware of that Remember no matter what you do for these narcissists at the end they will feel resentment They will feel like they were treated unfairly And they will want revenge on you and they will do things that you don't expect Things that you can't even imagine Whatever they think will hurt you the most They will put you through hell They're not just gonna let you go so easily Doesn't matter just because you stayed with them for 10 years Just because you spent a million dollars taking care of them upgrading their lives That doesn't mean shit with a narcissist They always want more and more and it may baffle you How after all of your loyalty and investment How they could just walk away and not not only that But how they can flip it on you and portray you as the enemy as their opposition As someone who is trying to harm them That may baffle you because we don't think like narcissists do We're not crazy, but that's why I bring these videos to you So that we together we can Try to understand What is going on in these sick people's minds? Because it's just getting worse and worse It had gone too far already, but now It just keeps getting worse So together we have to stand up against this It's gone on too long and they're just finding more and more tricks in their book Which they're using against us. They're using it to hurt you And I think it's time. We put a stop to it now. This is what we stand for Together we are against narcissistic abuse in all of its forms On a brow to your notes I've just been enjoying the sunrise here Beautiful view from my apartment got the sea there The city and then even a mountain view there as well on the 32nd floor High in the sky and Coming to you live. I do hope you appreciate this content Please show your appreciation By hitting that thumbs up button down below right now To support our community So that we can grow together and if you'd like to book a one-on-one with me You can do that on my website. 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