 Hello How are you? I'm good. Thanks. What do you got for me? so my issue is first of all, I'm new to Atlanta, but My issue is not finding high-value men. It is Finding one the same as the last young lady finding the ones that I'm attracted to I think So I was just gonna ask how important that is, but I think you've already answered it while I was waiting I'm 41 Why are y'all ladies still so attract What let me ask you why is attraction so highly ranked For me, I can only speak for myself Yeah, it's uh, I Want to be able to make him feel the way that I know that a man wants you made to feel if I'm not attracted to him Authentically it's not gonna come out. It's gonna feel forced Okay, but you also mentioned high-value man, right? What percentage of men do you think are high-value? Well from watching you I've learned that it's 1% I haven't validated that for myself 10% of men are high-value 10% but unless you're talking to a man making $500,000 more So the only the only reason why it would need to be high-value for me and maybe need is a strong word, but I Make a couple hundred G's already and I'm not you know, I'm not it feels like a downgrade for me to Date some money or connect with somebody. Yeah, so I've already done all that So I would prefer a man that already has children because I have children. So I want us to be equally yoke That's really all I'm looking for. So equally Equally yoked So here's the problem they're 40 what 41 yeah Are you kept these black? Preferably Is it a month? I mean, have you seriously dated non-black? No, I've tried I've attempted after every time I said seriously The numbers are not on your side Do you have the TV on another phone or something? I don't know what there's nothing You have another window open Well, the problem is Your age is A kid is a factor your income is a massive factor And it comes down to the man who fit into the category who are your TV Oh No, there's literally no noise Yeah, everybody's in there definitely background. Okay. Um, I don't know the music Let me do this request to come back in problem is The amount of black me to earn the amount amount of money you talk about is less than 3% So you got a you got to have 3% of men and That's 3% whether they're married or unmarried Homosexual not homosexual whatever 3% then you got to be attracted to But they got to be attracted to you and the and they have all the they have all the control, right? Access to relationships. Mm-hmm. So why do you need a man who's making what you're making? Let's start there Um Need Attraction is easier to deal with than our income Agree, I agree. I've met some men that I'm attracted to that didn't make the same amount of money. Yeah, but would you take them seriously? Um, I think so. I think so. I think I'm very big on chemistry and the connection if the connection is there I've become less picky, you know, you know, you know the meaning income for black man is in this country I've heard you say somewhere in the neighborhood of fifty thousand forty two forty two Yeah, so that would mean if you met a forty five thousand dollar year man, and you make two hundred Yeah, there's no way I couldn't go that low the lowest Well, then you still talking about eight percent of black means effectively Because I gotta be real I gotta be a hundred percent honest you may be a perfectly lovely woman For the black man single earning hundred fifty thousand dollars or more You're gonna go out and like it go get a younger woman so they can have children that is only thing It's not good. And even if he doesn't want well, he's done having kids. I did for me Or see, but here's the thing you gotta understand men like to be in control and Let's say you met a fifty year old black man making a hundred There's nothing new to do with you you already own a home right what you mean you know what I'm listening you're on a home, right? Yes, okay, so buying a home There's nothing new to you. That's you've already done that You've already bought your own new car nothing new Right, we're gonna go to Ruth Chris a folk of the child is nothing new We're gonna go in pairs of nothing new There's no nut. There's no new magic with an older woman because you've lived life and experienced it Bucking some red bottom. Oh, is that from last year's collection? Nothing new? No, I mean the nothing new part sure I think as we age then things become less new but I do feel like I know how to make a man feel So that that is a benefit. Yeah, you make him run, but that assumes after he picks you Well, I mean as the over the course of him figuring out whether he likes me, right? So what I'm saying is man like to be in a power position But they're one man and if a man is dating you Let's say he's 46. He's dating you. He's also dating a 27 year old 31 year old You competing guest all these women I Generally don't have an issue with it. I Don't generally I'm just asking about whether or not this topic is dating down. So I wanted to specifically ask you about whether or not the attraction thing is something that is Unrealistic if that shouldn't even be on my radar. That was really the question Yes, because it sounds like money is a deal breaker. I'm sorry Attractive me in who make what you make and I'm gonna go for younger. I don't win it Because everything I just said is a factor with me I think women gotta realize the older you get The you don't get the same deals you got when you were younger And it because money is so big man That's really the deal break Because you say you don't have you say you don't have any problems are you involved with somebody like that right now? Who's there in that kind of money? marriage not not dating but you see dating Men who are wanting to marry start out wanting to marry. They don't decide to marry later I know. Yes, there's there's someone but the issue was out There have been a few and the issue has been that I'm not attracted to them and that scares me because I Yeah, I mean that's it's really about them more so I want to make sure that if we're together that they get what they need That's and if if I'm struggling to feel aroused then that's a problem That's nothing I can say about that. Here's what I'm saying. Here's what sad is me That we will that our culture is allowed So far out of their feminine nature to where this is becoming something that's keeping you single But you know, no other group of women is this looks driven Just as a driven by looks at Typically ranks looks the highest like other groups don't have this whole Pookie Ray Ray street thing most women go for men with resources and accomplishments Sisters want a man who's over 60 tall or jawline in every plant And then you want him to have a million dollars and you wanted to like your kids and you wanted to like your dog It's like I got you. Yeah, I get it. All right. Have a good night. Bye. Yeah. I mean, I understand People want what they want but can't have it all ladies the older you get the less you get The older you get the less you get Unless you can even start to ask for