 I had this one essay I never wrote, but it was about a way of inhabiting the masculine yin in confronting the feminine yang, or the angry woman, where she is just on your case and yelling and really like upset and saying the most unfair things just to try to get a rise out of you and in that situation I thought there's three ways to fail to really inhabit your full masculinity in that situation. The first failure is to lose your cool and strike back. The second failure is to cower, intimidated, and to capitulate. That's not what she wants actually. She doesn't want to dominate you. And the third failure is to go numb and just not to take it in and not to hear it. But what really meets the feminine yang is to hear it and to go there and not to take it personally and to be able to hold it, to be able to hold it. For me, there's a testicular thing here to be able to hold it. And then the storm passes and you've stayed solid. You've stayed undergirding. You've been there. You're there. You're present. It's a matter of presence. That would be an example of what I would call a healthy masculine. And I don't know, in the highly polarized, trigger-happy context that we're in now, I should probably say, and women can do that too. But yeah, men and women both have all four of these poles. Masculine yang, masculine yang, feminine yang, feminine yang. It's not that that only women have one or only men of the other. So there are situations, maybe there's two women together. And in fact, this happens with lesbian couples. One of them will gravitate typically toward a more masculine role and the other toward a more feminine role. These are archetypes that find a way to assert themselves. So you don't have to be a man to be in the masculine yang meeting the outraged feminine yang who will not put up with this. That's a good statement of the feminine yang. I will not put up with this. That is a female function. They do not let it slide. They do not let it rest. We are not going to stay here. This is not the way it's going to be. I will not put up with it. I can't put up with it. That's like the expulsive womb function that the world could use a lot more than that. Actually, refusal to put up with the way things are. Out with, out with the old. Out. No more. Yeah.