 Welcome everyone to another live video do this to forget about the narcissist I know many of us it's hard to take our minds off of them sometimes especially when they're hoovering us especially when they always find a way to pop up in our lives again and while it is good to process the trauma and the feelings that come along with dealing with these narcissists it's also good to take time just to enjoy your life to forget about them and that's why I decided to do this live today to talk about that do this to forget about the narcissist do this what I'm doing right now you see this I'm out here walking through a forest I'm out in nature I'm on the way to check up this monument I'm in Scotland right now so what am I doing what am I doing that's helped me to forget about the narcissist well as I said I'm out in nature lots of high vibes out here with the trees and the squirrels the birds just makes you feel good so that doesn't mean that you have to travel to Scotland it doesn't mean that you have to go hours and hours away from where you live even if you've just got a local park forest a lake whatever it may be just go for a walk there just go for a walk and take in the scenery observe so many times we just move through life without actually noticing things we're always so distracted we're always thinking about something else I know many of us even if we do get the chance to just go for a walk in a forest by the lake when we get there we're just thinking about something else we're thinking about what we have to do when we get home what we're gonna have for dinner when we need to set aside some time well we don't have to think about anything other than what's in this moment right now just observing things and that is very healing in itself but traveling does help too if you can go far away that can be very healing too because these narcissists they'll often enforce fly monkeys starts me again against you they want to take away all of your family friends and resources they want to ruin your reputation destroy your career and they just make your world feel so small they make you feel like everything you had they took away from you all the potential things you could have developed they've taken ownership of that now so you can't partake in their world which they have conquered or hijacked from you they want you to think that there's nowhere how you belong you're just an outsider you're an outcast you've got nowhere to go now well I'm here to tell you that that is not true there is a big world out there huge world billions of people they want you to think that none of that exists anymore they want to think that everything you you thought you had and everything you thought you were going to develop that doesn't even exist and all there is is what you've got now what they've taken from you which you can no longer have but once you leave the narcissist world you will find that there is so much more out there more than you could ever imagine just remember all of those good times you had before you got involved with these narcissists before they got involved in your life that stuff still exists I can tell you I've seen the lights I've seen the fun I've seen the good times the people the good people the kind generous people because yes there are still good people out here and there's just so many opportunities for you so don't let them feed you these limiting beliefs you are so much more than what they have led you to believe and there is so much more out there waiting for you and for you to worry about what they've taken from you what they've sabotaged what they're trying to prevent what they're trying to limit and restricting your life yeah they want to keep you in that scarcity mindset we're then left for you you think you don't deserve anything but you need to be in a mindset of abundance and that's what this video is about it's about reminding you that there is so much in this great big world I don't know what it is 350 400 countries there's just so much to see out there so many different people so many different different cultures opportunities that there's just the point for you to waste your life worrying about these narcissists who never brought anything of value to you anyway here we are the early monument in Scotland this is what life is all about getting out here traveling around the world exploring things life these narcissists want to filter everything that goes into our minds they want us to limit the things that we think and feel and experience they want to change our perspectives so that all we can think about is what they want us to think about but you need to expand you need to grow you need to realize that there is so much more you need to realize how big the world is it's like they put us in this box it's like these there's just these four walls around us and they want us to think that that's all there is it's only when you get out of the box that you realize that there really is so much more to life don't let these narcissists take away your freedom it's sad you know like what so many people have to go through with these people they can trick you for your entire life where you think that the box is all there is where you think that there is nothing else when it's just not true there is so much more it's almost like they do some kind of hypnosis on you it's like they put you to sleep and then everything you were doing everything you were interested in everything you were so passionate about all of the dreams and aspirations you had you just forget about it all then you're left just focusing on whatever they want you to think about then you just leave all of that behind you it's really sad put you in a cage I think I just got off there I was just going to say no just how valuable you are fully aware of that if something's no good why would you ever try to control it if something's worthless and they want to make you think that you're no good but really they know your value and that's why they just can't leave things alone but yeah just take this in taking this view on the monument you can see all the ice and the mountains over there someone's saying it's my birthday it's not my birthday today it was about two months ago I was 32 so yeah do this to forget about the narcissist come out in nature breathing that fresh air observe the trees the grass so are there any questions or Elizabeth is asking where are you I'm in Scotland in Kirimu Joe Victor how do you stop wanting their attention you have to think about why do you want their attention you'll find that it's very similar to why people overindulge in food or why people smoke or do drugs or drink alcohol why do they do those things and if you look into it you'll find that the reason is because they feel like they're not enough and that's why they're searching for something outside of them to complete them because if you knew just how great you are and if you were in a mindset of abundance and you realize just how many greater opportunities there are for you out there you wouldn't care about getting that attention it just wouldn't matter to you anymore and that's why we need to focus on feeling enough because if you've been around these narcissists long enough I'm just gonna say bluntly you're gonna feel like shit you're gonna feel like crap like you're nothing I'm just gonna tell it to you straight up because you know I've been there I know exactly how it feels you don't feel good and you are around these people they just make you feel worthless of course that doesn't mean that we are worthless I mean we all know narcissists want people who are attractive successful powerful intelligent they target the best the best so as I said they know our value but they don't bring anything to the table so they have to put the focus on us to make us feel like we're not doing enough or we're not enough when it's just not true we are more than enough and we are more than capable of achieving great things in this world healing through inspiration asks tell us how to make money online like you do to further get away from the narcissist environment okay so all starts with your belief but one thing you need because no matter how capable you are if you don't believe in yourself you're not going to take action I often say to people when I first started this channel I was making videos I wasn't so sure if I really wanted to post these videos I was to think into myself who cares about my thoughts and opinions on this who wants to listen to my voice I didn't even like my voice but just imagine if I listen to that voice inside my head that voice telling me not to do it just imagine if I didn't believe in myself enough to post those videos I mean we've only got to look at the numbers to see the impact this has made 100,000 subscribers soon over 20 million views just imagine if I didn't believe myself if I didn't believe that I was worth the investment none of this would even exist there would be no knock survivor many people we never have found out about this they may have struggled to heal they may have thought that they were the problem and I'm not saying this to boast I'm just saying it because you need to believe in yourself too if you don't believe in yourself you're not going to take action or if you do take action and it fails the first two or three times you're not going to try again when it could be that third or fourth time that makes you succeed so yes you can make money online you most definitely can I am able to travel the world and you know I went from I went from living off 500 pounds a month that's how bad it was for me 500 pounds to look after myself like cat and now I made over 40,000 pounds just in a three month period I easily make over five digits a month and I only have to work a few hours a day I don't even need to do coaching sessions for the money I do it to help people I could easily spend that time making videos instead and I would make far more money but this is my purpose to provide value to people to support them through the difficult times that they may be enduring so yeah I went from living off 500 pounds a month to making over five digits a month in just over a year it didn't take long at all and I believe that everyone in this live chat right now is fully capable of that and probably the only reason why someone would not have achieved that already is as I said the belief once you believe in yourself you can achieve anything and I do offer a YouTube coaching program now as well which will teach you what I did to get to where I am now to be able to travel the world and work for my laptop all I have to do is just take my laptop on my microphone with me wherever I go and I can just explore the world and make money on the go and I have this program which can teach you to do the same thing so you too can travel the world and in plenty of money I know people say money isn't everything but let's be honest you know we do need money in our lives you know if you want a house you want a car just to pay the bills food if we want to look after our families of course we need money money isn't bad it can help us and if we have money we can give to charity we can save people's lives money is an amazing thing as long as it's used wisely so if you are interested in the YouTube coaching program you can book a session through the website it's www.knocksurviver.uk and when you book the session in the notes just say that you're requesting YouTube coaching and who knows you know maybe one day you know when you build your channel and YouTube becomes successful on YouTube and you start raking in thousands millions of views maybe we could collaborate as well maybe we could work together on this purpose of helping and supporting people and just changing people's lives I am all about collaboration as you've probably noticed with my new series of episodes posting people stories and they also have partnerships with better help and being verified and have also collaborated with surviving narcissism as well I'm all about collaboration I'm all about working together I know times are hard now we are in a pandemic and you know it can be quite a lot to afford you know for these these coaching sessions but I believe that the value that you will get from them is far far greater than the cost but as I said you know I know that we are in a pandemic I know many people may be in difficult financial situations right now and that is why for the viewers in this chat I am offering a 25% discount on all of the YouTube coaching sessions and that doesn't matter if you book a 30-minute session 60 minutes 90 minutes the discount still applies so if you get on to the website and you book a session now all you have to do is type in the discount code in capital letters NS welcome 25 and you will get 25% off the price but that is only available for a limited time so make the most of that discount while it lasts anyway that's all for this video we do have two premieres later today so I hope to see you there thank you all for joining this life