 What's going on you guys welcome to the single guy channel? My name is Lloyd bring you practical and actionable dating advice that really works today We're gonna be talking about why women suddenly stop responding to you over text and in fact I'm gonna give an example about this guy who wrote me and he says Lloyd I was I met this girl. We hit it off great We were texting really intensely for about two weeks and then she went on a trip to a different country She was there for about a couple weeks and then when she came back She stopped responding to me completely and I haven't heard from her since what happened Well, the answer to this question is actually pretty obvious You know a lot of people talk about being needy over text message a lot of people talk about You know, maybe you were sending too many emojis or you should just do no contact Whatever it is look the reality of the situation is that she probably found another dude There's like 95% chance that she found another dude sure There's like the 5% chance that she lost her phone. She died or something horrible happened 95% chance though that she found another guy that she likes better the reason why I say that is because it was going really well at the beginning and then she went on this trip or She's meeting a lot of new people and then suddenly you don't hear from her Okay, this has happened to me before and it'll probably happen to me. I don't know. It probably happened to me again You know never say never But in these scenarios It's very common and it's very common for guys to phone, you know Some traps where they feel like oh, I had this really good feeling with this person So now I'm going to try to do everything to try and save it and that's the wrong mentality That's the wrong thing to do what you should be doing is you should be moving on Going and talking to other girls and ironically this is not just gonna be the best thing for you But it's actually gonna be the best thing to win this girl over in the end Which really shouldn't be your goal because you know if you look at this What just happened in this situation obviously it's not being built on a very good foundation But if you are the type of person who does want to win this girl back and you think that oh It would be good if I you know if I pursue her if I maybe she didn't think that I was like showing enough interest or something Like that and that could be possible if you're not texting her enough You're just giving her these kind of one-word bland answers all the time She might stop responding to you, but it'll usually be like a slow burn It'll usually be like a slowly takes you know taking hours than days and that sort of thing if she suddenly stops it means something happened something changed and This can drive you crazy because it's uncertain. It's you don't know what happened for sure, but probably you do I mean in this case, it's pretty obvious. I mean it happened to me a while back too I remember this one girl we were messaging back and forth. We actually hooked up It was super great and then you know afterwards we're messaging she goes on this short trip comes back Don't hear from her at all and I messaged her. I think I messaged her twice or something like that And then after that I was like, all right. Well, she's gonna respond to me She's gonna respond to me if she doesn't she doesn't know big deal So then I go out and I'm like dating a few girls here and there and then I think I ran into her at a bar later on Frigga with the name of the bar was but it was in San Francisco. I run into her at this bar She's like, oh, hey Lloyd. What's going on? I'm like, hey girl. How you doing? Like, you know What's going on and she's like she said we start talking for a little bit and then she's like, yeah I'm sorry. Like I didn't respond to you. Like I've just been really busy and bullshit And then I'm like busy. Oh, I thought you found another dude and she was like Yeah, I actually did but like it didn't work out like he's kind of a dick And I'm like I just kind of like laughing I mean like I don't really know what you want me to say after that point I'm just like cool. You want to get a drink? So then anyway, we got a drink. We ended up hooking up again that night I think we hooked up the next night after that And I didn't really talk to her after that so it kind of had a happy ending where I ended up getting to sleep with her again Which is cool, but not so much of a happy ending These girls that leave you at the drop of a hat like that for another guy or for whatever reason that just they just Stop messaging you they just kind of go out of your life and you don't hear from them They're not good news. They're not girls that you should date that girl who I was just telling you about no matter how hot she is and she was Don't go and aimlessly pursue those types of women like they will make your life miserable Okay, they'll give you like a little a little piece a little like a tone of affection here and there enough to keep you Interested and then you'll see pursue them for God knows how long The right thing to do is ask yourself this question Is this woman right for me and my life stop worrying about whether she likes you stop worrying about whether she's lost interest or whether You've been too needy Those things are good to reflect on To improve yourself in the long run But at the end of the day if you've been thinking about them too much if she's this girl's been wasting too much of your Brain time you need to ask yourself that question and if the answer the question is no she's not good for me in my life Which if she drops you at the you know for another guy just at the drop of a hat This girl is not good for you, man And you need to have the strength of character to be able to move on and stop craving those feelings That you got when she was interested in you because that's loser behavior That's the behavior of a low-value guy that who ultimately nobody really wants to get with people want to get with a guy who Values himself who values his time and if you're going after an aimlessly pursuing a girl That's clearly not interested or clearly does stuff like that. That's not the idea of a high-value guy I'm all for pursuing women, but not when they do shit like that. So if you're in this position Absolutely go out there improve yourself talk to other girls get more options That's the main thing and if you're wondering how to get those other options If you're wondering how to improve your dating life as a whole shoot me an email at the single guy 2017 at gmail.com If you may didn't consider subscribing I come out with videos like this every single week If you had a situation where you were texting this girl and she suddenly stopped responding put in the comment section below I would love to talk about it usually with different scenarios It's like you'll usually get them like slowly fade out, but if she suddenly stops I think like nine times out of ten that's usually she's found somebody better And she doesn't want to like I guess make things awkward for the rest of you So it's not the most mature thing to do But it is things that the most people end up doing these days and you can't get mad at the process Just get mad at your reaction to it if you still choose to go out for that kind of person So that's my advice to you guys good luck out there