 Hello everyone, welcome again to another NARCS Viper Live video. Right now I am in Kitakayushu in Japan. Just been admiring this castle here. Just walking around exploring as I like to do. This one we are going to be talking about how the narcissist really messed up this time. Because as we know, narcissists they do tend to mess up a lot. They have very poor judgement. They make a lot of wrong decisions and I'm sure you've experienced that in your own life as I have as well. It's like they specifically target us. They want to be around us and then when they get around us they start taking us for granted. As though anyone would be willing to do the same if not more for them. When the reality is that that is not even true and it would be very difficult for them to find anyone else to take our place. Anyone else who would even do a fraction of what we did for them. So beholding these false beliefs about you. About reality. Thinking that who you are and the way that you act towards them that's nothing special. That anyone else would be able to do the same if not more. As though what you have is so common. You could just walk around the corridor and find someone else who's exactly the same. When that is not true at all. It's just not true. What you have is very rare and that is why I decided to make this video. To let you know that yes the narcissist really messed up this time. They really made a big mistake by taking you for granted. By not giving you the love and respect that you deserve. Thinking that anyone else could just take your place and do what you do for them. When actually most people would not do what you do for them. What you have done for them. The expectations that you have reached and surpassed. Everything you did for the narcissist. It would not be so easy for them to just go off and find someone else who will do that. And that is why they held on to you for such a long time. But then they started getting cocky. They got a little too arrogant with you. They thought they can just treat you however they like and you'll still stick around. But they got that wrong about you. Because I know that you are a person who respects yourself enough to not let yourself get caught up in that kind of shit. Where you are around a toxic person who has just taken you for granted. It's like half the time they didn't even know that you are there. They are too busy with their other supplies. And they just kept you on the shelf. You were just waiting at home for them. Well they are off. They are doing all of these things with their other supplies. And they just keep you there. Because they already know you don't want to deal with that. They know you don't want to validate the illusion after everything you've seen. After everything you've been through. Of course that's the last thing you're going to do. You've already seen the truth of who they actually are. They ripped off their mask right in front of you. You've already seen it so many times. So you don't even need to see it again. You've already seen enough to know exactly what you were dealing with. And that is how at this point yes they have really messed up this time. And that's not to say that they didn't mess up before with other people as well. But this time they really messed up because I know you. I found my videos. That shows you care. That shows what you had with this person. It really meant a lot to you. So you were seeking answers to this problem that you were having with them. The odds are that you cared about them more than anyone else will ever care about them in their entire lives. And deep down they know it. They realize that they have messed up. Because after how they've treated you all of the things that they've done they know they can't just go back. They've already burnt the bridge. It's too late for them to come back now. They already know after the things they've done to you you're never going to see them in the same way ever again. Because they really they put you through the ringer. They really did a number on you. So much that you just can't go back. You can't see them in a different way how they want to be seen. You can't validate the false self anymore. It's too late for all of that. So they burnt the bridge. A lot of them they already know it. They know there's no going back now. All they can do is watch you. I mean that's typically what they do when they feel rejected. But they know that they've got no further chance with you. The amazing person that you are. When they know they've no longer got a chance with you. All they can do is just watch you from behind the scenes stalk and harass you. All they can do is watch what they are missing out on. They can only watch what they could have had. What they could have partaken in. If they had just played the game right. If they had just been a decent person to you because that's what you are. You are a decent person. You're very loving, kind, considerate, generous, very understanding. And I do appreciate your support. That's why I have to get on here to share this message with you today. Because this is what we should support. Good things. Not people who lie and manipulate but people who get on here to tell the truth. I'm very lucky that I've been given this platform where I'm able to have a voice where people will then listen to me. And it's great that you come on here and you listen to me. You support something real. I mean that's how it should be. You leave the nonsense behind. I do support me instead as I get on here and I speak the truth. But yeah I can tell you that the narcissist really messed up this time. And if you agree with that statement you can show me your support by giving this video a thumbs up down below because that is a way for you to show me that you agree with what I'm saying right now. I love Japanese tears really good. That's why I have to take a quick sip while I'm doing this video for you. But yes I really messed up this time. Just by taking you for granted the entire time. I mean that's really how it is with them. I've said it before this is exactly how it is. And it's the exact opposite of how I think or how you may think. If someone comes around me I'm thinking wow you must be a really high value person to even be in a space with me. Because I already know what I am. I know I'm very high value person. It's just the way I've chosen to live my life. The way that I was raised in a certain type of environment. So people come around me and I'm automatically thinking oh you must be the same as me. You must be at the same level of value to be able to come around me to where you're going to reciprocate what I'm able to give to you. Which is quite difficult for a lot of people because for myself there are no limits to what I can achieve. There's no limits in my amount of energy. I mean I am as I've said in my other videos I'm chosen by God. I am a gift from God and this is a message that is coming from the divine to you. So for me there are really no limits to what I can be and what I can achieve. I can pretty much do anything. If I really want to do it I can do that. So when someone comes around me I'm straight away thinking or hoping at least that they must be empathic. They must be a chosen one from God. There must be God's gift to me. Of course I will always appreciate that. But as for Narcissus it's actually quite the opposite for them as crazy as that sounds. This is how they think. Once you've been around them long enough your value just starts to go down and it goes even more down the longer you spend around them. They're looking at it like if you're so great what are you doing around me? This is how they think. This is how this is why things turned out in the way they did in your relationship. The longer you spent with them they started taking you for granted. It's crazy when you think about it. I mean for us of course it's the complete opposite. We're around people who are high value. People who are motivated. They're about something for real. They just want to go out and get it. Someone like that. We're around people like that. We get to know them. We know them on a deeper level. Their value just increases even more the longer that they spend around us. I mean if you're a person of worth of high self-esteem and you know who you are if that's really true and you love yourself you practice self-love you practice self-care then of course if someone comes around you you're gonna be thinking straight away. This is either a very manipulative person or they're just very high value and that's how we managed to get tricked by these narcissists as well. Don't forget to give this video a thumbs up if it's resonating so far. But yeah that's literally how they think. I don't know everyone who was watching this. I mean that's probably gonna be thousands of views on here by this time tomorrow. I'm sure all of the people who are watching this you know that this is true. When you're around them the more time you spend around them your value goes down. It goes down even more. The more time that you spend around them and it's not because of you. Because think about it how was your value up in the beginning when you first got around them. So how is it going down over time? If you're around a high value person I can guarantee if you were around me for a long enough amount of time your value would go up. Your value would go right up because any value that you give will share to me. It's not just going into a void. I'm able to reciprocate that back to you and we can keep reciprocating it back. It's like a game of tennis. I hit the ball. You hit it back and we just become fitter and stronger over time. So that's how that works. But narcissists know they can't do any of that. No matter how much you hope, wish and expect for them to do it they cannot do that. The longer you spend around them your value goes down and you will feel it as well. The way you look at yourself, your self-esteem, your energy, your confidence it all just sinks down and then you feel completely unmotivated and inspired to do anything. You just feel like crap while they start feeling better about themselves because they're around you and they're putting you beneath them. That's how your value is going down when you're around them. So they're elevating themselves at your expense because that's the only way they can sustain. They're so insecure. They have very low self-esteem. So just by being around you they already feel inferior. Automatically they've got to go to the mockery and ridicule. Having a laugh at your expense. Just making you feel like you're nothing because just being around you they're very insecure. Go, they are there. These personality disorders, mental illnesses are everywhere these days. But as for you, an empathic person we already know that they're extremely rare. Only one to two percent of the world's population and even then of that one to two percent how many are healed, awakened. The odds are they will never find another person like you again. And as for us we will probably run into a lot of other people who are just like them. But let's just make sure we can identify early on so that we can get rid of them before they manage to do too much damage to our lives. That's what they're going to do even if they start to build anything with you. They can't build anything. They're just trying to leech off you. That's where they come around you to begin with. But yeah that's all I've got to say and it's true I really believe it. They have really messed up this time. Thank you all for watching and if it was helpful for you you can give it a thumbs up down below. Let me know your thoughts in the comment section. I reach your comments every day. And don't forget to hit that subscribe button and click the bell icon so that you will receive notifications for my future videos. And if you'd like to book a one-on-one with me you can book it on my website it's NarxaFiver.co.uk and also check out my Instagram. 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