 This could be a hot take, but honestly at this point in my life I'd rather just be single until I go to heaven than marry a non-believer. I'm totally with you, but my question is why do so many Christians settle? And I do mean settle, because God's design for us is to be married with another believer, not to be unequally yoked with an unbeliever. But so many Christians do settle because I think they're scared they're never going to find a Christian spouse. That fear creeps in, I've been there too, like I don't want to be alone forever. I don't want you to grow frustrated and angry at God for not giving you what you want. He is a good father. And look I don't pretend to know what God is doing in your life in this season, but I do know he's working, and I trust that for myself too. I don't know what God's doing in my life, but I trust that he's working. Look I know that won't just fix the loneliness or fear like that, but you can trust him and ask God for strength in this season to keep following him even when you can't see the destination.