 All right, Christina says, question. I've been online hell, I've been online hell dating forever for over a year now. And why does it seem like all men just want to talk about themselves? No one asked me questions. Are they all narcissists? What's up with that? All right, I'm gonna throw my beloved under the bus. That's Marie. I don't think she, if she was sitting here, I'd do the same thing. She'd already going, I know what you're gonna say. Okay, Marie and I got on the phone our first time together. We talked for an hour. All she did was talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk. Didn't ask me questions she told me about her life. So a week later, she reached out to me. Said, hey, how's it going? Good. She goes, would you like to talk? I go, not really. She goes, why? And I told her what happened. I said, you talked mostly about yourself. And she said, I've heard that before. Now, when she said that, I was really impressed. She said, I heard that before. And she told me I was nervous for one. Number two, I felt like I would just tell you about me and you would probably tell me about you. See, she's not good at asking questions. I'm in the business of asking questions. I'm in the business of teaching women the questions they should be asking. So what I'm saying here, if I believe she was a narcissist, which she is not, okay, she has deep empathy, she's kind, she's caring and she completely admits when she's made a mistake, okay? She doesn't gas lighten me in any capacity like that. So I'm here to say human beings aren't very savvy. Men in particular, there's a lot of good men out there. They're just bad daters. Doesn't make them bad people. So I'm here to say be careful of pigeonholing somebody who does that. He could be nervous or he might just be telling you about himself so you can get to know him. People, here's the thing folks. I want you, not that I'm, I want to talk about a book. Where is it? Malcolm Gladrow wrote a book called Talking to Strangers. The reality is, is these days we're meeting total strangers in the dating marketplace and people don't know how to actually get to know one another. You might want to invest in an app called here. Let me just pull up this app. It's called Card Dex by the Gottman Institute. Card Dex by the Gottman Card Dex. Go to your Play Store or Apple Store. These are great questions to get to know someone. Date questions, here we go. Describe your ideal morning. What is your favorite season? Describe your perfect sandwich. I thought that's weird. Tell me about your first birthday you remember. Oh, that'd be interesting. That's a good story. What's your favorite way to be creative? What would you do if you won $100,000? These are just some questions. They're not deep questions, but they're questions to get an opportunity to go deeper. And this is where a lot of people fail, okay? Don't blame guys for being clueless. Just makes them human. All right.