 This you must create if you don't create this you will always live in fear In India, nobody says just no listen. No, no, no, no The fear the devil may come in if you close the door Can I say yes to anybody for anything? I had a question. How do we learn to say no when you know that? something is Like saying yes would affect you in an adverse way But you must change of what's happening. I said no I mean a lot of times that I want to say no, but thinking of what the other person would feel I tend to say yes So how do we stop that? I Know in what context you're asking No That's not what I meant I meant to say small things in life this and that But I have been always Encouraging people to say yes and yes for everything Yes, or no if I ask People around me always say Sadguru. It's always yes. Tell us what? So for you to say an absolute yes to everything one important thing is you must create an atmosphere of integrity and trust Hmm if you create an atmosphere of absolute integrity and trust all of us can say absolute Yes, when we know nobody will misuse our yes, we can all say hundred percent yes for everything, isn't it? That's what we should strive for If it's not possible in the whole world at least we must create small circles where we can say yes And there is no problem. Nobody misuses a yes Very important Very important for healthy unfolding of every life that you need at least a small cocoon of Life around you where you can be a total yes Without fear or favor you can be an absolute yes This you must create If you don't create this you will always live in fear Being exploited is one thing Being living in a fear of exploitation is actually more damaging than exploitation itself So today we are creating a world where Well, there is some reason for it also There is reason for it also. I'm not trying to live in some utopian world I know how the world is but I'm saying you must create your own little world where you can say yes Without any consequence to the yes It's important if we do not do this then we will always live in walls No is a wall, isn't it? In India, nobody says just no. There's a no no no no no Have you seen this? No, where else it happens only in India. No, no, no, no They think one know won't stop them No is a wall. Yes is a doorway, isn't it? If you open your door a devil could come in or the divine could come in The fear that devil may come in if you close the door You have also closed the door for the divine but in unfortunate life Yes or no You not only closed your door to negativity you closed your door to everything because some negativity once came through your door Don't do that to yourself once you live here There are dangers of life, of course but Because there are dangers to life if you close all possibilities to life That will become a very Observed and sad life the walls that you build for self-preservation Are also the walls of self imprisonment Hmm? If you build a wall to protect yourself today After some time, this is your prison, isn't it? So no no no no no you built a wall around yourself Can I say yes to anybody for anything? No, that's not possible. We've still not created that kind of a world That's too high up there That's why you must create at least a little world where you can say yes without consequence Very important