 Let me see here On that y'all give me one second let me put this Here so So what I'm doing here is a In my free time trying to go live a little bit Every now and then Y'all give a little chant give a little second so I can Send that out To the bless tribe Try to go live here every now and then just to Have us a little chat and Let me see was that right there? Let's see here Now they sent this here probably be in the chat. Let me see Got that right there Okay, somebody have a question and want to come on the Camera, but I want to have this chat today and I'm gonna tell you why here in a second but this very important to me because We have We have a lot, you know, it's it's bothering me When I see because I'm gonna tell you when you in this space in the space of love and relationships and You in it Reluctantly at times is very bothersome to see so many people in the space talking about love and relationships without a real Commitment to it without a real Dedication and purpose and passion and you can kind of tell when people are just doing it because It's something to do just talking about relationships because it gets a lot of traction and That's something for us to think about and you really got to ask yourself and really say well why do topics on love and relationships? Get so much traction Because when I started on this journey Nobody was talking about love and relationships 2007 social media. Nobody was talking about love relationships and It was you know, just general life business motivation but I started to see over the time where Guys who talk about business guys who talk about just strictly business making money Motivation started talking about love and relationships because they started seeing People like myself have success and they started seeing things and they thought that oh, man He got that car from talking about love relationships not knowing that I do real business behind closed doors They have nothing to do with love and relationships but They they didn't know that because I was trying to stay in my lane and not do too much talking on business and entrepreneurship and so I'll take and do a seven-figure deal in My media company where we working on something totally different scripted films documentaries and making plans in that and trying to figure things out in that space and Out of my money I'll take and buy me a car out of my pay and People will assume that oh that car came from talking about love relationship. No, that came from a business deal Over investment and so it started to make people jump in When I remember I had this Maserati And people started commenting on it because I'm when you're in the car You can see the stitch on the seat on the back seat see the Maserati emblem So all the young guys thought that came from talking about love and relationships Not knowing that my documentary company my film company had did a seven-figure deal and we was producing documentaries back to back to back and So they're thinking that the Maserati came from talking about love and relationships So next thing you know guys started commenting. Oh, man. You got a Maserati. Oh, man. You got a Maserati and this was 2015 so this eight years ago and at that time it was nobody who isn't who wasn't a Relationship coach. I'm not a relationship coach an athlete or an artist a music artist with Luxury items like that with a hundred and sixty thousand dollar car. It wasn't a theme online and That's why I'm trying to get y'all to back story sometimes and then you always have idiots Oh, you that bragging. Oh, you that bragging. No, I'm telling my story And so what happens is when you come up as a minority and You are minority and you see and you didn't make it in sports and you don't know how to do music and Then you see a minority Talking on love and relationships and then you see material things and you assume Oh, wow That came from talking on love and relationships. So guys start to jump in They start to jump in and they start to make money from it doing books selling t-shirts Doing speaking engagements doing tours and it became a money grab and that thing right there that ticks me off that tick me off more than anything because it's lives hanging in the balance and then What happens is we start to get now today we got a lot of women We got women That's jumping into the love and relationship space and what i'm starting to see now is Red pill women women who Want the the praise and the admiration and the adulation of men So they say what men want them to say They say what men want to hear from a woman And they assume that they're getting cool points But in fact they're getting full points And when you're talking like that and you're talking As a woman red pill talk, you're just going to attract bomb men Who's going to play on that because as men we can look at a woman and tell If she know what she's talking about or not so when women come out here and start to Seeing the praises of men And start to say oh As a woman you need to do this for a man do that for a man do this for a man But we as men have not earned that have not put in the work have not grown as men now it's like a gazelle Trying to sleep with a lion And it's dangerous and and that's what i want these y'all women who out here talking You got to be very careful when you Serving yourself up on a silver platter to a man In the mantle spear so it's women going into the mantle spear and into the red pill and into the mixtile Trying to get praise from men and Some of them just like the men now somebody's women Is the the the equivalent of the men, you know look like Just then had a rough life then then been overlooked and been mistreated Was never her and just like sometimes the guys was never him And they and they operating from that space and now got a platform got a voice and want to talk about something but it's really just to Get the praise from either men men getting praise from men or women getting prayed from men or vice versa And operating from the wrong place And when we see that we got to call it out And it gets crazy and one thing that i never understand And this this what let me know when a woman don't know what she talking about When she doesn't understand the savagery of men And what i'll have to always remind people of is like When you turn on your news and when you look at this stuff going on when you talk to your sister and you talk to your auntie And and you hear what they have suffered At the hands of a man At the age of two at the age of three at the age of five You don't hear the equivalent when you talk to your homeboys as a man and you living as a man You don't hear the equivalent Of what men going through at the hands of women As children now. Yes, some men gonna have that story, but it's not equal And so it's very dangerous when you have women popping up and Defending men As men we don't need defense We don't need nobody to defend us What what we need as men is accountability As men we don't need sympathy We don't need sympathy what we need as men is direction We need instruction and we need accountability because as a man We could crush everything we could crush everything we got brute strength We got anger. We got frustration. We got will we got determination If a man can make a billion dollars Like jill baseless j.z. Tyler Perry Mark Zuckerberg then a man could learn how to be a man So now we got women coming out trying to defend men like men Like men are being victimized like we victims and that's dangerous that dangerous when When a gazelle start to feel sorry for a lion It's like when you out here and a woman is getting hands put on Every nine seconds hands getting put on a woman every nine seconds We cannot say the same about men Every nine seconds hands getting put on a woman men don't have that same statistic So we don't need women up here defending men And giving excuses for men somebody after telling what you mean by women coddling men What I mean by that is I change when a man in the pulpit called me a pump For putting hands on a woman That's when I change when a man held me accountable for being a pump Change I ain't change when when men start to and women start to oh I feel so sorry for you. You've been through so much in your life That ain't gonna change man when men see weakness Men pounce on weakness when men see gullableness men pounce on gullableness when men see naivety Men pounce on that Men don't sit down. Oh, you feel sorry for me. Oh, let me love you. Let me take care of you Oh, you feel sorry for me. Uh, let me flip you and toss you Oh, you oh you oh you understand my plight. Oh come here. Uh Let me flip you and toss you that's what you got to realize and this is why I try to help women understand Try to help women understand Who you think in that other country? On the top of that building looking through that scope Looking through that scope on the top of that building who you think up there Now what you think got to be going through his head To be able to do that to a stranger On the word of what a month what another man told him Another man had told him a these people over here these are ops So I need you to go and get all this training. I need you to go get on top of roof And this man that you about to put this right here between his ears He got a wife. He got kids He got a religion. He got all of that, but that's our ops And the man signed up and say, okay. Yeah, I got you. Yeah, I got you Bum same thing in the streets same thing in the streets of these inner cities When a man say, hey, this guy right here. This side off I need you to spin the block I need you to go put in work and the man say, okay, cool This man is is is somebody's son This man is somebody brother Somebody husband or boyfriend somebody cousin And because this man over here say he done been offended by something this man said He tell this other young this other young man Go put in work Go take this person Out of existence put his mom in a black dress Oh, okay. Y'all gonna go do that This the mindset of men. This what man dealing with this what man living with and then today in 2023 we got women that is instead of holding men accountable and um Why do men need to be held accountable every human needs accountability? Nobody changes by themselves but you have to understand who has Influenced in somebody's life women need accountability a woman don't change by herself. She might have It might be a woman helping her and sometimes it's her husband. Sometimes it's her boyfriend. Sometimes her father Everybody need accountability and that right there is um ellie That's that right there is of the devil And this why I try to tell you is we got to call it down the middle It don't do good to go from one extreme to another So it don't do us no good to say Hey, don't Don't coddle a man But then at the same time say don't hold them accountable coddling And accountability are is not the same thing You know what accountability mean Accountability mean when a man cheat on you You walk away You tell him I refuse that's accountability. So when you say why do men need to be held accountable? That's why because if you don't walk away when a man cheat on you when a man put hands on you when a man cursing you out Now you teaching him how to treat you Now you teaching him that that's okay That's why men need accountability and that's why women need accountability too Because it might be different for a woman, but it's some women who come from the mud It's some women who out the trenches. It's some women. I I met a guy who his woman was strong she Grab him and slam him on the hood jump on top of him start whooping it behind bust his nose He put hands on her because technically he's stronger than him But that's what she come from that woman need to be held accountable And so accountability go both ways And that's what we got to realize Can a woman ever come back from humiliation and bad first impression when it comes to potentially getting in a relationship with a guy? Or is that it after now for one this ain't no q&a y'all And and so that's nothing y'all need to be held on when y'all come on here y'all hear somebody just talking talking talking now Don't just go throwing questions out there That's the both accountability You see what I'm saying come on. We don't hear having to serve y'all taking me all over left field come on This ain't a q&a when it's a q&a. I put q&a in the title. So I want y'all to understand that now And and yes, we live whenever it's a live that mean we live if it's a premiere That mean it was recorded earlier and it's just playing like it's live But whenever it's a live Kimberly that mean that it's it's live I'm just in update y'all on the youtube streets and how this here work And I know you probably ain't never seen me live twice in a day So you probably wonder man what the world going on talking on here a second time But when it's a lie that mean lie Premier mean it was pre-recorded and it's just being shown being aired So listen to me. You can't go from one extreme to the other But one thing we do not need we do not need women Feeling sorry for grown men We don't need that We need women who are going to love themselves And stand they ground out of self love Now in my mind is four levels to love The first level is lust In the dictionary lust is a part of love It lust is a love for a strong liking of That's one of the definition Meaning you attracted to this person The next level is like And like is when you like the personality Of this person The next level of love is love When you actually love this person Meaning you will sacrifice for this person But the highest level of love in my mind is the fourth level of love which is self love Which means you love this person But you love yourself enough to walk away if they dog in you out And that's where men and women need to operate from from a place of self love Which means you love your neighbor as you love yourself you can give love But you also know how to stand your ground when it's time to stand your ground And that's what we need. We do not need Women in order for men to grow we don't need women to hold a man hand And make concessions for a man and say hey Because it's hard for you to be faithful. I'ma allow you to cheat. That's not what we need as men We don't need women to say hey because it's hard for you to be faithful I'ma be one of two two wives or one of two or three women. That's not what we need from men to grow Because when when you make those kind of concessions for a man All it's gonna do is just Have us go buck wild And it's gonna hurt us more than it helped us It's kind of the same thing what we do with friends and family member even our children If we say oh, well, I don't want to be mean so I'ma just let my child eat candy Whenever they want to eat candy now your child eating glazed doughnuts instead of rice and broccoli Because the doughnut tastes better and yes, it's filling them up But they're gonna have diabetes by the age of 13 So do you just let your child have doughnuts because they want doughnuts every meal of the day? Or do you say no you need to eat eat vegetables The same thing with when we hold an adults accountable You don't say hey because it's hard for you to talk to me With respect and talk to me like a human being I'ma just let you talk to me like trash. That's not what you do You don't do that. And so that's what we have to understand and come to the place to where We can hold each other accountable But see I'ma tell you something The title of this video what I was talking about how society is focused on the wrong part of relationships is We right now are focusing on The dynamics of relationships We're focusing on The way men treat women and the way women treat men When the focus really needs to be on introspection Having a inner view a inner view meaning looking within And interviewing yourself on what you need to do to grow to heal and to change addressing your mindset addressing your perspective And doing the work internally because if we can hold ourselves accountable And if we're willing to look in the mirror And do what we have to do the relationship gets better But we're not doing that instead. We're just focusing on the dynamic. Oh, this is what a woman should be doing This is what a woman should be doing for a man This is what a man should be doing for a woman And we're looking at those things and we're going about it the wrong way We're going about it the wrong way and that right there is what's breaking us down Because nobody's looking in the mirror. So now you have so many women today that are submitting to a man That does not deserve submission Because he has not submitted to God's will for his life So women are submitting to grown boys Women are submitting to punks Women are submitting to weak men And then wondering why they ending up hurting and lost and confused and Cheated on because you giving something to someone who has not earned it And then we got men who are praising women praising her booty and her beauty Instead of looking at who she is internally And men rolling out the red carpet for a woman because she's beautiful But not evaluating her character and vice versa And that's why the relationships are losing And people talking about relationships dead the relationships are dying because Individuals are dying meaning not doing the work Not doing what needs to be done And that's why we are losing But when you start winning as an individual And you're working on you and you're doing what you need to do Then the relationship benefits from that And if your partner does not want to grow with you Then you let them go So you can grow and so they can grow And that still benefits the world Because you're not reinforcing toxicity And so this is where we have to come to but we live in a world that There's so much virtual competition There's so much social competition that Humans are growing more and more To hate ourselves because we're comparing our Behind the scenes our private lives to someone else's highlight reel or public life So you can't compare your private life to someone's public life And so people are in relationships And not doing the work Because they're looking at a couple online posting reels And not realizing that couples who are posting reels Are also paying bills So when you posting reels You're paying bills And when you have children to feed You're going to post those reels Regardless of what you're going through in your relationship So the other couples Are looking at couples influential couples posting reels And saying they are happy Because they're smiling And laughing and joking in that reel and there's no way they could be smiling and laughing and joking in that reel And be unhappy in their relationship So then women are sitting and getting mad at their man And men are sitting getting mad at their woman because You aren't treating each other the way this reel is showing you a couple behaves And the thing about it is is it's not real And the fact that it's not real Even though it's on a reel We don't We don't identify that we can't see that we want what this reel has But it's not real So therefore we stop doing the work in our lives And that's why the relationship dies And then people say oh relationships are dead. They're they're dying because of comparison They're dying because we are standing on our grass Killing our grass because we're standing still Just right on top of it and we're looking at someone else's grass And we're looking at their grass not realizing That's not grass That's turf They've laid in artificial turf But because we are looking at them on a reel And not understanding that the real pays bills And that that money from that reel has bought artificial turf We standing on real grass looking at fake grass And killing our own grass and then hot and then we smoking grass Because we stressed out from standing on our grass looking at somebody else grass and then We go through a divorce with irreconcilable differences and then everybody saying love is dead Love is dead because ain't nobody growing Ain't nobody working everybody sitting on the phone As a zombie comparing lives Instead of doing the work But see when you do the work Then that's when you realize you ain't got time to compare When you're doing the work, that's when you realize you ain't got time to promote Guess what? Me and my wife had a beautiful valentine's day Probably in my mind the best valentine's day we done had in our 16 years of marriage And neither one of us made a valentine's post Now I guarantee you her friends and family my friends and family who don't watch the lives And other people who follow us look at our instagram And probably think it's smoking the city And Don't realize ain't nothing smoking but our barbecue grill And we had a time you hit me a blast and neither one of us made a valentine's day post And I guarantee you 50% of couples who made a valentine's day post Was arguing that day and and ready to break up that very day But that's how it goes and you know why and you know how I know that because we done been there We done been there So see when you really in it and you really build in something You know what's real from the faith. You could tell what's real from the faith So the day we got a lot of people talking on love and relationship just for the clicks Just for the money But they're not dedicating their life to get better They're not dedicating their life to live out what they're talking about They're making a living and one thing One thing that is a killing is making a living One thing that is a killing is making a living And that'll go over some people here and listen to it 1920 time One thing that's a killing is making a living so When we make a living From doing something A lot of time we stop doing the living behind closed doors in the dark Because what we are perpetrating what we promoting is making a living And that happens to us all I went through that phase to where I was more so caught up with giving advice Then taking my advice And that almost cost me So I know if I went through it everybody go through it because humans have the same experience just at different times in different seasons and so That's why I see people I've seen a man talking the other day One of one of y'all a young lady who interviewed me sent me this interview this young man did And he taught my celibacy And he was talking about his celibacy journey How he was celibate before a couple times But he did not say He abstinent it's not celibate. It's abstinent Because the celibacy is different than abstinence But we don't read definitions. So he ain't say he's abstinent right now And then he went to talking and he was talking about You know if he dealing with a woman and then he get intimate with the woman Then the woman realized it's more to him Than just you know being deep and smart and all of that and that Basically he nasty in the bed What that was right there was a call It was a cat call to all desperate broken lost Hurting women What that man was doing on this interview And what the lady probably didn't even know who was interviewing him Because of what her spirit at And she let me know her spirit off because she asked him to take off his shirt at the end of the interview and told him he looking good In that shirt and she married And her husband probably was on the set because I saw a point towards him earlier So what she didn't realize is she showed what her spirit at And what he realized is he showed what his spirit was And when you read the comments every woman in the comments saw that spirit on him And that's what we got right now fake relationship coaches who are not living it But using the platform To reap the the benefits To reap the spoils Playing on the lost and the desperate, but then what we have too is we have hecklers We have idiots. We have detractors Who have no discernment no spiritual discernment and they lump all of us in Not to realize that the only woman i'm sleeping with is my wife And I need to say the only person i'm sleeping with is my wife because there's some men Who say oh I ain't sleeping with no other woman, but my wife and they're not sleeping with another woman They're sleeping with men It's a lot of women today Who husband is gay And So many women be so desperate for love That they don't pay attention to their husband popping his mouth And licking his fingers And crossing his legs to high heaven now It's a lot of guys sit where they lay across But it's a certain way men sit where they lay across that let another man know You got something in you You got something in you and it's a lot of women today With a man who like men So he could come out and say He don't cheat on his wife with no other women And he ain't lying because he got him a man And that's out here rampant you hear me that is rampant And you can't just look at them and tell either just off You got to have spiritual discernment to tell who these men are Because I don't have some of these men hired me for coaching Some of them booked me for a speaking engagement so they could meet me in person And when they met me in person And they felt my energy And they realized I don't get down with the get down play boy You got the wrong one You got the wrong one. I don't move like that boy I never heard from again. We never have to talk about it. They didn't come on to me But they just could feel energy and a man who like men Know another man who don't like men And a man who don't like men Could easily recognize men who like men And so it's a lot of men today Who like men But the world don't know it. They in the closet Getting toe out the frame You hear me urge packing and i'ma tell you why they're doing it They like that because Of pornography Because when you give into lust And you get turped out at a young age Lust cannot be quenched like thirst. You got the star of lust and death when you feed into it What they go from they go from looking from looking at a woman Then they go from looking at a woman on woman with a man Then they'll go from a woman to looking at a woman with a man of another race Then they'll go from looking at a woman To two men Then they'll go from looking at the woman with two men To the one with three four five Then they'll get to Looking at a man Then they'll get to looking at a man on a man Then they'll get to looking at a man and a man of another race and it just go down a rabbit hole And before you know it They want to try They want to try because they get tired of women because they done and seen it all And now they want to have them another experience because they've been turned over to a reprobate mind and that's what happened in Sodom and Gomorrah And we've seen that what's happened when the man went to the city And the man came and went to knocking on the door a brain of men out here They said brain of men out here So we could dig off in that and talking about men This was in the bible days But all it is Is it come from these men who claim to be straight? Going down that rabbit hole They go down that rabbit hole looking at that right there and you see how i'm talking When i go to talking like this right here in Palo Alto They go to messing with my wi-fi they go to messing with my connection And they go to acting and i got good strong wi-fi pay three four hundred dollars a month They go to messing with it Then they go to limit in my video. So what i'm gonna have to do i'm gonna have to move my stuff off to my own out And put it behind a paywall because see they don't like to hear the truth They don't like to hear you have an opinion and you speak on what you believe and what you're seeing They don't like that because it's set up to please everybody It's set up to please everybody, but the truth is the truth And what's wrong today is the deception that we have in these relationships And i'm gonna tell you it's these spirits See this is the thing When a person goes through something Early on They get turnt out They get turnt over To that spirit So you will see that person becoming adult male and adult female And you will see that spirit goes to calling for Other spirits to come And they spirits having a physical experience And the reason why they continue to do it is because The spirit is not fulfilled because they are they doing this in the physical Let me explain what i'm saying When is certain spirits within a man or a woman They get online and get a platform And they start sending cat calls to like spirits And all they're doing is coming and just bumping bodies Because they're looking for a physical fix To a spiritual problem They spirit Is dead So they trying to feel alive in their body And so That is why That man is still single and given relationship advice all the single man out there Because what they are doing Is that seductive spirit Is seducing weak and lost and broken women So that the woman doesn't even process The contradiction in the man's message When he is lifting her with his words But then demeaning her with his actions So he is giving her wisdom Giving her the gain But then playing the game on her By sleeping with her Knowing he's not going to marry her or give her a commitment So he's saying god And that he has a relationship with god But yet in fornication With a person who he is removing from god He's taking them from god by having them in sin So what the adversary is doing The adversary Is putting Devils In the clothing of angels And he's sending men With a spirit And he's sending women with a spirit to seduce So let me tell you what happened When when when somebody see me It's women with spirits Who they will come on my page And on their page they got a lot of videos with no clothes on With just bathing suits, thongs And they'll like my posts, shout my posts and do all of this And what they trying to do is be seen Because they know That 99% of the men they done that to Them pounced Because they know when a gazelle walked in front of a lion That lion get ready for lunch But see what they don't realize is What they don't realize is is different types of lions They don't realize it's different It's lions of Judah They don't realize it's lions of Jesus They don't realize that it's different types of lions And they everybody ain't just no No savage And so they come and they bring that and then when they realize oh this different This man interact with me this man had a coaching session with me This man collaborated with me and still ain't came on to me And then that's when they realize the difference That's when they realize the difference Some women will come And they'll make a man fall That they'll they'll fall with that man And then they'll come back And try to get that man to fall again And that man be done grew That man be done changed and that happened to me in my life When I was out there and I was lost I fell in the scene And then people will come back around And I learned I done grew and I done changed And I addressed the situation differently like whoa, oh, okay. Wow change is real Growth is real So this what we have today We have people Who are not doing the work And so I'm seeing so many men and women Who are not working on themselves But they got all the advice for everybody else So they sitting And telling you to try afterness While they in fornication But by telling you to try afterness is making them money But they in fornication And you know how I know Because I done been there where I was giving advice and not taking it And so when you'd have been there You know what it looked like And you know what it sound like And when you change your life It become even more easier To be able to pinpoint it And so that's why I speak on this to let the people know because see One thing about this coded language Is that the people who are out of line they know they are out of line And when they know that I see them Then they understand Spiritual eyes see things in the spiritual realm But see corner eyes cannot see things in the spiritual realm So that's why if people come to me And they say tony you ought to collaborate with this guy You ought to collaborate with this woman And I look at who they talking about And my spirit jump Jump all the way back Because the spirit no spirits That's why in the bible Every demonic spirit knew Jesus Every demonic spirit the demonic spirit in the in the new testament say we know We know uh jesus We know paul We know abraham Who is you See spirits no spirits and see that's why I know that's why it's certain podcast And it's certain media outlets that'll never call me Because of the host spirit The spirit no spirits They know that when I see them i'ma tell you one time I met this I met this young man And he was almost shaking He was almost shaking and he was nervous And he said to me he said man i'm around the biggest stars in the world and i'm never nervous He said but for some reason In front of you i'm nervous And he was a big name and I was not nervous at all Because i'm moving with the spirit of the lord and with the knowledge of the lord comes a strong confidence So I don't get around a man or a woman who make me nervous because I know god and A little while later That man went to jail For putting hands on his woman When his spirit met my spirit His spirit started to tremble because he knew his spirit knew that my spirit was there And if I had stayed there and worked with him What's in me would have cast out what's in him? But we only just had that one interaction and it was an interview and that's why People say tony go on this podcast go on that podcast go on that podcast I can't go on the podcast because the host Are addicted to pornography And they know that my spirit Knows that They know that my spirit could look at them through youtube and tell that And they don't want to feel judged They don't want me to mess around and say that they don't know if i'ma say that in the interview They don't know if i'ma ask that And so that's why They say no i don't want to i don't want to have no parts of that And so that's what a lot of people don't understand that it's spiritual and it's spiritual warfare, but it's humans having the spiritual warfare And that's why it's lines in the sand That's why many are called fewer chosen chosen because it's lines in the sand And so I already know Who I am in the dark So I already know When I meet another man And he don't want to rock with me and I ain't did nothing to him He don't know me from a can of paint and I know i'm living a pure lifestyle and he don't want to have nothing to do with me With his podcast with his business with his outlet That's when I know right there He's living wrong in the dark He's living wrong in the dark. That's why he stay away. Let me tell y'all something All these guys it's a lot of celebrity men that follow me I could click on my post where i'm speaking truth And I never see 99 of them never like a single post and they follow me And I know they see what's on their timeline because when I go and I look at other posts I see their name on every other post I look at But they liking the post of men Who messages do not challenge them They hear in my message But they don't want to let the world know That they saw that message and that they like that message And a lot of times when they hit like on the message It's because they in the dog house with a woman and they woman follow me too And see this the spiritual warfare this the spiritual warfare is As men we don't want to be talked to And that's why I got to talk and and that's why women will say Tony I wish more men will listen to your message. They listen They listen they just not going to comment Because men learn in the dark Men learn in the dark because men cry in the dark So if you Don't walk out the side and see men crying at the red light like you see women crying at the red light If you don't see men crying on their homeboy's shoulder in public like you see women crying on their homegirl's shoulder Then you can't expect to see men in the comments In a positive way And the men you do see they those are rare exceptions And yeah, we need to see it more but I don't worry about that Because I know I know as men. I know we know see I know we inquisitive I know we listening even when we don't want nobody to know we listening That's why I still speak the message because I know they hit me And I know they're gonna hit me when they need to hit me even they don't want to hit me right now And I know that they know and i'm gonna tell you one thing I never to this day Never in my life have had a man approach me and say tony you be lying on them videos Never Every single man that meet me in person He pay homage and he a salute to you my brother keep sharing that good word every single man But why don't we see that same energy in the comments of these messages? Because men are more worried about romance than romance Men more worried about looking like A quote-unquote alpha male Or a quote-unquote sigma male To the homeboys And to other men Than to be seen liking and commenting and supporting A message that is calling men to a higher standard of living That is calling men to A better way of living to a more responsible way of living because as men we have A man code we got man law And it is a work of the devil To keep us in bondage Because even my son who 15 years old be talking about sigma male and alpha male And be mentioning these lost men That it show up online And he'll do that because he don't get to see they behind the scenes He don't get to see their addictions He don't get to see how they really treat women But he'll get to see me and his mama have an argument He'll get to see what we go through So he'll end up thinking i'm a weak man And looking at this man online Who got women trapped in a basement Who got women trafficking who trafficking women and call him an alpha male or a sigma male And not realize that a real man is right in front of him But it's because of the deception of the devil and what the devil shows Online and in the media as a man to where even Young men don't know the difference between a real man and a punk A real man and a grown boy Because men who are weak Men who are scared men who are insecure are being called real men Because of their stance online because they want to put They foot On the neck Of a woman they being seen as real men And then men who love their wives Who will cater to their wife Who will treat a woman like a woman ought to be treated Are called simps across the board And then men take pride In telling a woman screw you Men take pride in arguing and debating with a woman In debasing a woman and putting a woman down And then on the flip side you have the same spirits In women in a lot of women who are now attacking women who got since Calling them stupid Calling them names Yet doing it because of that spirit There's certain spirits in certain women and certain men that wants the adulation and the praise Of the opposite sex so therefore They take And they say stuff That does not make sense That is not beneficial in the household To get that praise online But see here's the thing the adversary always emulates so somebody'll say well Tony the same thing happened for you You say stuff that get praised from women But what you have to listen to what i'm saying is what i'm saying Look at the application of it When you see the application of it it produces healthy fruit It produces happy marriage and healthy households but see A man over here who is Doing this red pill talk And then alpha male strategy talk and sigma male or whatever this different male mixtile talk When you apply what they're saying It demeans the woman It makes the woman feel Manipulated it makes her feel controlled it makes her feel like she's losing her mind It makes her feel like she's desperate and she's thirsty and she's hungry for his love and attention He bread crumbs her and he has her eating out of his hand like she is his slave And he's doing that because of his weakness And his brokenness And calling it an alpha male strategy. No, that is a beta male strategy A alpha male strategy Will love a woman the way god intended for her to be loved Will praise a woman will uplift a woman will encourage a woman Will let a woman keep her freedom instead of trying to steal her freedom and silence her and debase her And see we got to realize this as a man because see item been a beta male posing And caught in thinking that that's an alpha male But see what an alpha male is an alpha male don't have to control a woman And it takes us time to get there See an alpha male don't have to trick a woman an alpha male don't need a strategy Because when you truly a real man, you don't need a strategy all you need is authenticity So when you understand and I want to paint a picture for this So I earned seven figures But I don't have a strategy All I have is authenticity. I don't have a funnel I don't have a clip funnel. I don't have a lead page I don't have a system I don't have Thumbnails I don't have a full description box. I don't have keyword tags I don't have fancy reels I don't have all the fancy microphone hooked up on everything I'm doing. See see I got the microphone But I ain't using it. I'm talking through a computer microphone See I ain't got no strategy. I got authenticity And when you got that, guess what you still gonna grow you still gonna win And that's the same thing in A relationship when you authentic The relationship gonna benefit you don't need a strategy You don't need no tips and tools on how to game and manipulate and trick AT uh, go crank up the uh sprinter And make sure the tater ready and you ready You ready Her up son. We leaving 5 20 And so you don't need no strategy Because you could be a real man And so today we got to confuse or what a real man is See a real man gonna grow A real man gonna change A real man gonna fail A real man gonna do everything While people was calling me a self My wife was going through hell on earth dealing with me dealing with me because of the pain and because of the spiritual warfare I was under but men was calling me a self Because I was talking right But I wasn't walking right What I mean by that is I was teaching communication But I wasn't communicating the way I needed to communicate I wasn't being the man that I needed to be And it came to a point to where and see I share this and I teach this Because It's lessons in the blood So I'm gonna let you see me bleed So that you learn what not to do so you don't get cut in the same way that I'm being cut But see what we got so many people doing is coming on like a knight in shining armor like I'm listening to the man do the interview The single relationship coach and he just sitting there talking about how amazing he is Well see the thing about me is When a woman experiences me I set the bar so high that no other man can reach that bar And it just kind of ruins her life because she will never meet another man like me because I'm an exceptional man and You know as in and it's like once she sleeps with me And I'm like what in the world? She's sleeping with you far If you're a single relationship coach you supposed to be asking it You supposed to be sleeping with your clientele How you knocking down The women you supposed to be building up how you Nailing these women To the bed and you supposed to be helping them stay out the bed And and you know, I'm just I'm and the man said I'm a top one percent man I'm actually higher than one percent I fell out my chair I fell out my chair I'm like, oh no Oh no Now and see this high pallor out to play They hear the word they hear the word of the lord So they're gonna pause my thing on The devil number not the witness 672. They're trying to be funny. So I'm like man I'll say boy if that ain't nothing but devil But women can't eat now the women saw it now. They was in the comments. Oh, he sounded full of himself Oh, he sounds so full of himself I'm gonna shout an interview with the blessed tribe on own publicly Bash people And we're on speak names, but I teach from what I see I shout an interview with the blessed trial I can't shout with everybody because I don't want to be drawn up in no mess because the work the lord the lord Still working on me to nine in a sense, uh The lord working on me So that's why I don't speak names because if somebody speak my name the wrong way That's my own speak name Because the lord working on me So I try to be respectful because I know how I get about my name But I still have to teach from what I see And so this one I'm about here sin. I'm like man So I share this with you And the reason why I share this with you Is so that you could learn from it So that you could see like whoa Tony was teaching and yet still struggling yet still learning Tony was Was was was helping me But yet him and his wife was still going through That's real life But when you say that we so ignorant in our society That when I say something like that people be shocked Huh How you was open to cheating the first two years of marriage? And I'm like for one you wouldn't have knew that if I ain't tell you Two you better appreciate that I told you so that you have a reality when you go into your marriage Three you better understand the type of man that I'm trying to be and the man that I have become to know that If I'm going through that saint if I'm going through that feeling with the aspirations to be a better man Then what you think You're scamming Boyfriend or husband and drug dealing and lying and manipulating and We smoking and lean drinking man going through he gonna go through what I went through and worse But but women will sit down and get offended that I'm being transparent That I'm telling that a men struggle with faithfulness men struggle with changing their life like that I'm thinking that's common sense I'm like my goodness y'all up here. I can surprise I'm like wow Hey, but god bless y'all got to go Got to go I don't think this right here could be saved because I'm on this other out thing out of upgrade to say this And on across the aisle. I don't think they let you post it on there But hey god bless you got to take my son to soccer practice And for those y'all in the coaches Helping coaches group coaches mastermind life coaches mastermind. We got to call the night at nine o'clock and um why Call this year But hey god bless you And we'll talk soon and thank you to the moderators God bless y'all