 Okay, y'all she was seven part two and I'm gonna title this one why a man will not leave his wife So if you're dating a married man, these are the sides. He's not gonna leave. Okay One The woman does not have her own income and he she is supported by him and she has young kids He's not going to work. Okay. You're just a side chick To if he can't afford to leave. Okay, if he's gonna be broke without her, he's not going to work Okay three If you offer to take care of him and he can come late with you and Even if he can't afford to get divorced He's gonna then realize that he's going to be in a worse-off position because now you're the head of the household You have something over him and all his family's gonna look at him crazy His kids are gonna look at him crazy his wife's gonna look at him crazy. He's gonna be broke He's not gonna feel like a man anymore. Okay And he won't be able to take care of you either you're gonna be taking care of him and the next thing that you know a man is not gonna leave his family is if He values the family like if he values family life He's not going to work He's always doing stuff with his kids and wife and going to functions and taking his kids to parks and stuff like that He's not going to work Okay If there's life insurance involved and his wife is the beneficiary and he's got all the wills and paperwork and all that stuff already done He's not going to work like it's gonna be hard for him to get a change all of that and it's It's just kind of like an inconvenience Especially if you're the kind of woman that's gonna wait around and not say anything and say oh He's gonna leave one day if you're not You know putting in any fire under him or calling his house and making it hell to live there He's not going nowhere. You know, it's too easy for him. He can have this cake and eat it, too so a Lot of women get the call and I want to talk about the calling the call from the wife and When you get the call if you get the call There's one or two ways you can go You can apologize or you can play dumb and say I don't know Blah blah blah blah blah and help him out Help him say with her or you can come clean till the entire truth and say You know, he talks about leaving you daily. He talks about you behind your back Spill all the dirt on him and what he's talking about make his life a living hell to even live there Okay, and he's not gonna leave if you don't do this Okay, if you're waiting on him You're gonna be waiting for a long time. Okay If he's not even separated if he's not even trying to live apart from this woman if he's still in her house Paying bills and stuff. He's not going nowhere you know, if you're still working and paying bills and you're dating a man who's married and Stuff like that and he just calls you to meet out for dinner lunch drinks sex or whatever. That's all you're good for so He's not going nowhere. You got it You understand this and not get caught up like if you're dating me or me Do not fall in love. Don't fall in love make him if anything make him fall in love with you But don't fall in love with him Even if you got a date other men and he doesn't know about to keep yourself from falling for him Okay, because the only reason he's perfect in your eyes and a good guy in your eyes It's because his wife probably made him that way She probably taught him how to deal with women how to talk to women how to dress how to do this how to do that, okay? Most guys are better when they're married And then when they're not married their house is dirty their clothes don't match, you know, they don't have that That quality about them So a lot of times when we see a married man We think we see somebody all put together and who has their life together financially stable because they got a house And maybe that can be mine. No, it's because he and that lady did that together. He and his wife did that together, okay? so You have to kind of respect that And if you're not willing to step up to the plate and take what you want You got to leave it alone and go find someone who's single, you know There are two types of women in this world ones that stand back and let things happen That's you know, however, one that take things into their own hand and make things happen, okay? Now, which one are you? There's two kind of men in this world One who will have their cake and eat it too and enjoy it until it's over Lie to you tell you they love you even though they're not leaving their wife and kids and they're just using you And then there's two other card. They kind of is genuinely going to do right thing If he's not in love with his wife no more, he's gonna say, look, I'm gonna learn tomorrow. I'm gonna leave. I'm going with this person blah blah blah blah Then you have Then you have the in-between. Okay, because they could go either way So one day they might be this one and one day they might be that one But if you have a wishy-washy one, you got to help them make up their mind because there's a lot of people who Have hard times making decision. So you have to throw something in the game to get them to make the decision Okay Now if they choose their wife, you can't be mad because they're already married to them Okay, you just got to go move on and find a single man. Now guys Guys who try to date married women, okay? Most married women are not dating to leave their husband And if they are they're trying to find somebody with more money or They're just getting revenge because their husband messed over them. Okay, so y'all gotta y'all gonna know that Okay, or they're just bored and don't and not in love with their husband anymore And they don't think they're gonna get caught and they're using him anyway So what you got to do like guys if you're if you want a married woman to leave their husband You got you got to be better than her husband That's just point-blank. You got to have everything. He doesn't like I said like this one guy was watching my video He's like stalking this lady who's married and he's like Been knowing her forever and she's like married and he's When I own her was like one date a long time ago before they got married and He's like I call her she tells me to leave her alone And how can I get her to leave her husband and be with me? And he's like is there anything you can do and I'm like Anything I he's like anything I can do to convince her to leave us like win the lottery Anything else besides that I was like well if you're stalking her and she doesn't want you around and doesn't want you to talk it to her and To leave her alone. No, there's nothing else you can do but win the lottery Then she'll change her tone. She'll be like, you know, who is like you and I admire how the how you chased me I admire that. Yeah, go in the liar. You'll get her. So Yeah, and some guys to they'll leave their wife or woman with more money, too So if you're a woman that money you date a married man, and you have it like that. Yeah, they'll leave you for them Yeah, they will. Okay Money talks And I'm not trying to say it's right or wrong, but it's true. It's true Now there's there's certain people who are comfortable and money won't matter to them because they have everything they're like, okay Well, I'm not gonna leave you because me and you don't have this agreement on this And if I come out of this situation and get into that it's gonna be worse So no, I'm gonna stay here where I'm comfortable and in control so You know lots of women and lots of men pass up wealthy people at the time who try to steal them away from there Because of how they think You know So it's also you have to also be Inagreate in an agreement in this like there's some women who run their husbands. They they are you know over their husband their husbands do whatever they say if they get a man and He's not letting them run them. She's gonna be like, you know, I'm better off with him He can do whatever I tell him to do same with the same with the husband If their wife is like submissive and like, you know Fixing dinner and being mother to the children and you know doing everything that a wife's supposed to do or once a man I want his wife to do because I don't do that, but He's not going anywhere and if he is like tempted to leave the side chick and she's stubborn and Spoiled and stuff like that. He's not gonna marry her So you have to know how the wife is and you be her times, too Even if she's a bitch Even if his wife is a bitch you gotta be a bitch because that's what he likes obviously because he ain't going nowhere so This is why men don't leave their wives because they like their wives They might talk about her to you and everybody else But then they they're not going nowhere because they like that what they're really doing is spewing out all this stuff that She says to him that's probably right, but he just needs someone to say that she's not right Because he knows that he's wrong, you know, so he'll go get some back up To feel good about itself to stroke his ego and then he'll go right back home. It's a yes. Yes wife. Yes wife so If you get a man who talks trash about his wife, he's not going Why because he just needs you to vent to to give him everything that he doesn't deserve at home Like he must be doing something not to deserve the treatment that she should be giving him, right? So basically what he's doing is going to get it somewhere else Talking about her then going back home to her so That's another one if he talks bad about his wife to you You're just the ear and the shoulder to cry on and the side chick, okay If he doesn't say anything about her if he won't talk about her That's how you know that it's a little bit more you know About something else So if a married man is trying to get you to date them and you sit no no no no And he's still calling at first of all ask him. What would you do if your wife found out? Watch his face if it drops He's not ready to leave if he smiles He wants to get caught. Okay, some men cheat so they can get caught Y'all know this but some men cheat so just so they can get caught so they could have a reason to leave without looking like you know abandoned you know they'll say well we can work it out I won't do it again and He's lying and he knows that she knows he's lying So basically this is a way to get his wife to accept a cheating and most wives won't do that So sometimes they want to get caught So if you ask the man, well, what if you got caught watch his face? If he goes like this if he's at a loss for words, you know That means he don't want to get caught if he smiles He want to get caught so Use that body language to make your next move As far as you know continuing to see him or You know taking matters into your own hands, but like I said You you can date a man for years and years and years and they will never leave their spouse You can date a man for two three four months Take matters into your own hand and their spouse will leave them. Okay, so it's it's all a matter of what your goal is Okay, there are women who will date a man and they will fall in love with him and they will you know If even if they're married they will leave their husband for him and then he won't leave his wife and then not now They're stuck. Okay, don't be one those stupid people or the situation that they're in They can't leave first. Okay, they can be first that way, you know, he's serious so And then there's some women who are too morally good and kind and sweet Who would never take the next step as as far as calling the wife or Making paying a visit to the house or to the job or whatever like that making yourself known There's some women that won't do that and those are the women who are easily taken advantage of because they don't know How to take matters into their own hand now like if you're out with a married man and He's introducing you to his circle and his friends and they know he's married and you you know He's married and he's not ashamed of it and He introduces you was like hi, this is such and such He doesn't give you a title like this is my girlfriend This is my he'll say my friend and if you're if you tired hearing friend Say no Hi nice to meet you. I'm such and such his side chick Give yourself the side chick title make him embarrassed and make everybody embarrassed for him Let him know that you know your position and say wouldn't have for long like Telling him your future plan and just you know a little hint so he's gonna like Embarrassed first of all gonna be embarrassed that you said that he's gonna start thinking what she mean not for long She leaving me. She's gonna take my wife now. He's gonna be scared Then you're gonna be like he's gonna be like why did you say that what why am the side chick, right? I'm not your wife. I'm not your girlfriend. You're still married, right? So like let's not talk about this here. I'm like, okay. Well What do you want to do You want me to see other people? Because you're seeing someone else And he's gonna like oh, I don't want to talk about this I'm blah blah blah blah blah blah. I said well, you know, I'm not exclusive to you Say that say I'm not exclusive to you. You know, you're married. I don't have to be exclusive to anyone Who's married start making him feel stupid and bad and embarrassing him and Treat him as if you are already his wife Okay, when you when the side chick start acts acting like the wife When the side chick starts acting like the wife He then feels a familiar feeling and it draws him in closer. I know this is crazy It's reverse psychology it draws him in closer to you because now he feels like you care about him as much as his crazy wife does because now you're threatening him and Giving all tomatoes and embarrassing him and treating him less than a man, which is like most wives do anyway Now he's like, okay. What if I leave my wife? I the same feeling of you know her Feeling this way and I like it it feels comforting to me and I feel like she really loves me now So if you use the law of attraction to become a wife act like a wife, even if you're the side chick Okay. Now if you're saying how do I act like it's what everything he complained about his wife Everything he tells you about his wife start start emulating it start acting like it. Okay. Do the same stuff Okay, do the same exact stuff. He's going to see what he sees and her in you and If he's getting it from both sides Decide that's treating him better giving him things he wants and you know Making him feel good about himself. He's gonna