 Life is a game just like all other games. The key components of a game are a set of rules challenges Interactions and a goal all of which exists in life However, there are two sets of people whom you never win in this game of life Those who do not yet realize that life is a game and those who realize that it is a game But do not follow the right rules because they assume that their opponent is the next man Here is a list of 13 of life's rules which you must apply to win at life If you're an entrepreneur or an ambitious person We specially invite you to join our motivational channel Which was designed to give you daily inspirations so that you will have the strength to pursue and achieve your most important dreams We call this channel hunt TV and you can join in the description box One mind what you say the words you speak are like seeds once spoken forth They are planted into the universe and in due time They will spring up as giant trees of delicious fruits or thorns your words are of great power This is why Joyce mayor says words are containers of power and you choose what kind of power they carry Your words have the power to either make or mar you as such You must be mindful of the words you speak about yourself because the universe listens As well as the words you speak to others because they can either open a door for you or shut the door against you Two face your fears Everyone has phobias and fears often these fears tend to be a limitation In most circumstances when faced with these tough fears the easiest way is to turn around and run from them But then turning around and searching for safety and comfort means accepting that you are weak and having surrendered to defeat You know what is said about losers. They are quitters who give in to defeat even before trying Hence in order to win at life you must face your fears Even if you get knocked down you get on your feet dust yourself and try again Never stop trying because that is what winners do Three stay humble kill pride pride. They say comes before a fall No matter how highly placed you are you must always remember where you are coming from and where you are headed Where you are coming from reminds you that there are still people in that lower position Who wish to be where you are now and where you are going to remind you that there are people ahead of you And there is still so much to achieve These two things ought to make you understand that nothing in life lasts forever And as such you have to be humble because there is no guarantee that you'll keep being whoever you are now As often as possible meditate on these words of zig ziggler humility will open more doors than arrogance ever will Or don't throw stones in the marketplace An anonymous person once said never throw stones in the marketplace. You just might hit one of your own That sentence is a powerful one and only if you understand what it means Whatever actions we carry out in life is like throwing a ball to a hard wall It bounces back either straight to our faces or someone close to us or behind us This means that in whatever you do you must be cautious because all your actions are connected back to you Either directly or indirectly thus if you must win you must learn to throw good and fruitful balls So that whenever they bounce back you will have no regrets Five be honest in your dealings Good name is better than riches says the wise king Solomon of old One big mistake that many people make is doubting their name and reputation because of a petty immediate gratification Man is referred to as a social animal with deals daily which is surrounding including the people around Doing things that will make people lose their trust in you is a sure way to crisis in life In all you do endeavor to be honest and speak the truth It may cause you to have so many haters But in the long run it will surely reap the reward of honesty William Shakespeare concluded in all his welder ends well by saying no legacies as rich as honesty Six be yourself at all times wherever you are and in whatever you do you must always learn to be yourself Pretend and hypocrisy will get you nowhere in life Rather it will swallow up the uniqueness in you and cause you to be a photocopy of someone else No matter how well packaged the photocopy is the original is always the original It is needful to have mentors and role models, but never aspire to be them Instead learn from them while you seek to be a better you Seven develop a win-win mindset the unhealthy competition going on around us today in schools organizations and even religious gatherings are the reason behind people's belief in the win-loss mindset Having a win-loss mindset is an open door for envy pride Arrogance and even hatred to win at life your mentality ought to be programmed that whatever the outcome You either win the proposed reward or you win in lessons and experiences eat collaborate For you to win in life You must learn to change your view about life from the aspect of independence to the point of interdependence This is the understanding of the word ubuntu the story goes that in an african village a visiting anthropologist challenged a group of children to compete for a basket of sweets The one who gets to the basket first has all the sweets However, these children held hands and ran together towards the basket and they shared all the sweets together The perplexed anthropologist asked them why they did so they replied ubuntu, which means I am because we are The ubuntu principle translates in a belief in the universal bond of sharing that connects all of humanity 9 go for knowledge ignorance kills Many people stick to the notion that ignorance is bliss. Well, I guess so but this is true only for those who are nonexistent in this world For you who are living ignorance can never be bliss your lack of knowledge about an action does not stop it from taking place Instead it leaves you in a state of vulnerability for you to win at life. You must aspire to acquire knowledge at all times 10 be dedicated to a course Going through life without a purpose is not living at all to win at life You ought to discover a course which you are passionate about and be dedicated to it Just like Nelson Mandela fought against appetite Martin Luther king jr. Was dedicated to the fight against racism You must deploy your resources into a particular course to live a life of purpose and to win at life even after your demise 11 be proactive The concept of proactive has to do with doing what you are supposed to do when it is important and not urgent Instead of waiting for it to become urgent first do it now If you can learn to to some extent pattern your activities and do them before there is an immediate need Which may lead to panic then you will continually win at life in the words of opera win free Doing the best at this moment puts you in the best place for the next moment 12 never look down on anyone many are times when you are elevated to a higher position There exists the temptation to look down on those who are subordinates However, if you desire to win in life, you must never look at anyone with disdain if you must succeed in life You must accord respect to all Islam cleric Ismail Meng once asserted that always have your feet firmly planted on the ground and stay humble Don't look down on others no matter how less well off they appear Remember the one you look down on today might be the person you might have to look up to tomorrow such is life 13 always be thankful A bunch of folks have the opinion that happiness is free. However, this is not right There is only one key to happiness and it is having little and being content with what you have Contentment means being thankful for your small blessings while aspiring to get better ones Being thankful is a habit that only a few people have been able to master Nevertheless, a thankful heart is a happy heart and a happy heart is a heart that wins at all times A heart that is grateful in every circumstance Even in difficulty does if you want to win you must always be thankful If you have thought that your opponents are those around you I trust you now see that they are not your biggest opponents are inside of you They manifest themselves as limiting beliefs fears bad attitude negative thoughts and likes of them If you must win at life, you must understand that life is a game and apply the right strategies And just before you go watch other videos on youtube If you're an entrepreneur or an ambitious person, we invite you to join our motivational channel The objective of the channel is to give you daily inspiration so that you will have the strength to pursue and achieve your most important dreams We call this channel haunt tv and you can join in the description box We love you