 Don't feel sorry for the narcissist they may have discarded you Well, you may have left them And you may start feeling bad for them You may start feeling guilty You may feel like you want to help them And that's why I decided to create this video To tell you why you shouldn't do that for one thing Just imagine if it was the other way around Imagine if it was you and you were asking for their help They wouldn't be there for you They wouldn't do anything To make things better To help you out and that's why you really just shouldn't feel sorry for them and many of you may be thinking that So easy for the narcissist They just move on They ride off into the sunset They've got no problems Well, that's just what they want you to think They want you to think that they've won But sooner or later, you will begin to see the destruction Just as it was when they were with you They caused all of these problems for you And at some point, they're going to go through it all over again And you're going to see that at some point They will try and hide it from you But at some point, you're going to see something You're going to know that things ain't going right for them Just as they did it with you, you're going to see that And I'm telling you, you should not feel sorry for them You should not feel bad You should not feel guilty Because just think about it, if it was the other way around They would not give a shit about you Just remember all of the stuff that you went through All of the things that you had to deal with They were never there for you They never cared So why should you now care about them After everything that they did to you Everything they put you through And that's what I'm saying when I say that you should not feel sorry for the narcissist Because they would never feel sorry for you They would never be there to help you So why should you start thinking about them Why should you go out of your way And be there for them when they were never there for you That's just how you've got to see it Because I can promise you that If you start thinking that way And you think you're going to go out of your way And spend all of your time, effort, energy and money On helping them I can promise you they're just going to take advantage of you You may see them laying there in the ditch And you may start feeling bad for them You may want to help them But I can promise you If you put your hands out And you help them out of that ditch When you do that they're just going to turn around And push you in there And then you're going to be the one who is stuck You're going to be the one who is going through it So you've got to think about this Before you do that And realise that Helping these people is just going to put you in a difficult situation Even more That's how you got involved with them in the first place Remember at the beginning They played the victim They asked for your help And then look at who's the one who's going through it Then it's you Then you're the one who is dealing with all of the problems And they ain't doing nothing to help you Now you've got to go through that all on your own And it's just going to be the same thing all over again You're not feeling sorry for them You cannot feel sorry for a narcissist They're just going to see your kindness and generosity as a weakness And they are going to take advantage of it So please think about this in advance It's freezing cold out here But minus two But my passion for this Makes me feel like I'm burning alive I have to get this message out there to you I need you to know That you cannot afford to feel sorry For these people You cannot feel sorry for them at all You've got to start thinking about yourself Just think back and remember all of those times you were taking advantage of Remember all of that time that was wasted Remember all of the money that you lost And no one was ever there to repay you For your efforts So what makes you think that this time is going to be any different? It's not Yeah, you may help them out a little bit But trust me, it's going to cost you You're going to lose a lot in the process And then when you're struggling No one is going to be there for you Think about it Before you choose to give your help in hand Think about how it's going to affect you I mean, I'm sure most of us Who have got involved with these types of people We can say that it all began when we chose To help someone who was in need Even the ones that are grandiose The ones that are overt They play the victim and act in need of your support As I said, you help them out And you're going to lose a lot in the process And when that happens, they're not going to be there for you They're not going to be there to help you You're going to be all on your own And I don't want to see you going through that again I don't want you to have to deal with that That's why I've got to put this message out there Got to let you know Because I've been through it many times on my own We are in paths We do feel bad for people But at some point We've got to start feeling bad for ourselves I mean, how much more is it going to take? How much more do you have to lose? So yeah, this is my message to you tonight It's to start taking care of yourself more Start putting yourself first for a change You're always putting other people first What about you? I hope this message makes you think Before you take action We need to start thinking before we help people Because it's putting a lot of us in danger It's putting our lives at risk It's risking our futures Thank you all for watching this video It's really cold out here, so I am going to end it here But thank you all for your support And please give this video a thumbs up To support our community Thank you all, and I will talk to you soon